Ke hopohopo nei nā mākua a pau no kā lākou mau keiki e hālāwaiʻole me nā kānaka hewa e hiki ke hōʻino iā lākou, hōʻino i ke kino a me ka moloka. I mea e paleʻole ai kēia mea, pono nā mākua e wehewehe i kā lākou mau keiki i nā rula o ka hana me nā malihini no nā keiki. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mea aloha loa kahi keiki liʻiliʻi, no laila, makemakeʻo ia eʻike iā lākou a pau i ka lālani,ʻo ia pū me nā mea eʻakaʻaka ana, e kamaʻilio me ia, e hāʻawi aku i nā meaʻaʻahu a me nā leʻaleʻa. Eia naʻe, no ka hilinaʻiʻana e like me kēia, hiki i nā keiki ke komo i loko o kahi kūponoʻole. ʻO ia ke kumu e pono ai i nā mākua ke hoʻokumu i ke kānāwai kūpono o ka hana me nā malihini no nā keiki.
Ka kūkākūkāʻana me nā malihini wale nō me ka mea kiʻekiʻe
No laila, he mea pono e wehewehe i ke keiki i hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio wale me nā poʻe i hoʻolaunaʻia e ko lākou makua kāne a makuahine paha. Inā ma ke alanui kahi e hoʻomaka ai ke kamaliʻi me nā kāne a me nā wāhineʻole, pono e mālama pololeiʻia kēia kūkāʻana e nā lunakahiko. E wehewehe i ke keiki i hiki iā ia ke kamaʻilio i nā mākua kāneʻole a makuaʻole paha i ka manawa he makuahine, makua kāne, kaikuaʻana, kaikuaʻana, kekahi o kaʻohana a iʻole kekahi kanaka makua i kaulana i ke keiki, a, no laila, makua. Ināʻole, ua pāpāʻia ke kamaʻilio pū me nā malihini.
Nā pilina e pili ana i kahi huakaʻi i nā mākua
Ma ka ho'ākākaʻana i nā rula o ka hana, he mea pono no hoʻi e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ka nānāʻana o ka pēpē i ka mea hikiʻole iāʻoe ke hele pū me nā kānaka āna iʻikeʻole ai aʻoi aku hoʻi e noho i loko o kā lākou kaʻa. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ma nāʻano kūikawā no nā keiki, ua hoʻomākaukauʻia kahi kaʻa e hoʻouna ai nā mākua no lākou. E wehewehe i kāu keiki e hoʻopuka pinepineʻoe iāʻoe a me kou makuakāne iāʻoe inā makemakeʻoe e hoʻouna i kekahi. No laila, i ka'ōlelo a ka makua kāne a makuahine paha e halihali nei i nā mākua,ʻaʻole lākou e manaʻo i kekahi ala, iʻole e loaʻa ka pilikia.
Mai manaʻoʻiʻo i ka lokomaikaʻi o nā malihini
Ma loko o nā rula o nā hana e haʻi aku ai i kāu keiki, pono e loaʻa kahi māhele e hōʻike anaʻaʻoleʻoe e hilinaʻi i ka poʻe i hoʻohiki lākou e kūʻai i kekahi mea no. E ho'āʻo e wehewehe i ke keiki i ka mea ponoʻole nā mākua kāne a me nā mākuaʻole e hāʻawi wale i kekahi mea. No lailaʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hilinaʻi iā lākou. Inā hāʻawiʻia kahi keiki e hele me kekahi e kūʻai i kekahi mea, e paneʻo iaʻaʻole ona mea e pono ai, aʻo ka makuahine a me ka makua e kūʻai i nā mea a pau. ʻOiai inā hāʻawi kahi malihini i kekahi mea e pili ana i kahi keiki,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e manaʻoʻiʻo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he paʻakikī e haʻi aku i nā keiki liʻiliʻi, akā ponoʻoe e hōʻoia iā iaʻo Santa Claus wale nō a me nā mākua a me nāʻohana e makemake ana i nā makemake,ʻaʻoleʻo nā malihini ma ke alanui.
He nui nā keiki e hilinaʻi i nā wāhine ma mua o nā kāne,ʻoiai keʻoluʻolu a leʻaleʻa kēia mau wāhine. Ma kāu mau rula o ka hana, pono e hoʻokau i ka hoʻoikaika i nā wāhine. E wehewehe i ke keiki inā'eleʻale a minoʻaka ka makuahine,ʻaʻole ponoʻo ia e hele me ia. I ka mea a pau, inā heʻano lokomaikaʻiʻo ia, e maopopo ana iā iaʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake e hele pū me ia.
ʻO wai e nīnau no ke kōkua
Inā hoʻomaka ke keiki e lawe i kekahi mea me ka ikaika, pono iā ia ke ho'ōho a hea aku no ke kōkua. E wehewehe i ke keiki iʻole he mea e hilahila ai. E kāhea akuʻo ia i ka poʻe kokoke. Inā hiki iā ia ke pakele, pono kokeʻoe e holo i nā kāne i kaʻaʻahu. E wehewehe i ke keiki i hiki i konaʻanakala, he polikua, ke pale iā ia. Eia hou, i kēia hihia, hiki iāʻoe ke kokoke i hoʻokahi haneli haneli i maopopo e pili pono kāu pēpē. Ma ke ala,ʻaʻole hiki ke hele wale i kahi makai, akā, he kiaʻi kiaʻi paha a he mea hana ahi paha. ʻO ka mea nui, he kanaka ia i ke kapaʻaʻahu. E hoʻomanaʻo mau ke keiki i kēia. Ināʻaʻole he kāne hoʻokahi i kaʻaʻahu, a laila e wehewehe i ke keiki e huliʻo ia i ke kōkua mai kahi makuahine'ē aʻe. ʻAe, inā he wahine me kahi keiki. I kēia manawa, ua nui ka manaʻoʻiʻoʻaʻole e haʻalele ka wahine i kāna noi.
A i hoʻokahi helu hou i hiki ke hoʻokomoʻia i loko o nā rula o ka hana ke hanaʻia kēia hopena. Inā he polokalamu kelepona kāu keiki, a laila, e kāhea kokeʻo ia iāʻoe ae haʻi iāʻoe i kona wahi e hele ai, he aha kona pilikia. I kēia hihia,ʻo ka mea e makemake ana e hōʻino i kāu keiki, e hopohopoʻo ia i kaʻikeʻia a haʻaleleʻia. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka manaʻo nui o nā keiki e hōʻikeʻia ana e nā poʻe maʻi kīnāʻole a naʻauʻole i makaʻu i ke kaiaulu a hoʻonui i ka nānā.