ʻO ka lili he kū'ēʻole
ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka -ʻaʻole kēia he mea huna, aʻo kēlā me kēia mea e kuhikuhi iā ia iho i ka manaʻo o ke kūʻokoʻa o ka pilina. ʻO ka manawa maʻamau, no laila,ʻaʻole hiki ke noʻonoʻo a hanaʻia e kekahi mau palena, a no kekahi mea'ē aʻe he mea maʻamau aʻo ia paha,ʻo ia paha kekahi hana. Pēlā me ka manaʻo o ka kipi. No ka mea,ʻoʻoe, he kumakaia paha, he leʻaleʻa a iʻole he lemu oluʻolu, no ka mea, he meaʻole ka mea'ē aʻe aʻaʻoleʻo ia e huli i kēlā. Mai hana wikiwiki wikiwiki a hōʻoleʻole i ke kūlana,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka piʻiʻana aʻike i keʻano o ke aloha i kahi kanaka. Inā hiki ke hana i kāu mea i kohoʻia e keʻano eʻoluʻolu i nā wāhine'ē me nā mahalo, e pono iāʻoe eʻae a iʻole e māhele me ia.
ʻO ka hoʻowahāwahā i loko o ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa
Nui nā poʻe i hoʻohanaʻia i ka nohoʻana o "ʻO wau, aʻu," aʻo nā mea āpau a lākou eʻike nei a puni iā lākou, pono ia lākou, aʻaʻole paha. ʻO ia keʻano kanaka. Hoʻomaʻemaʻe mākou i nā mea nui loa. Ma ke ala a kekahi e kamaʻilio nei, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka nui o ka mea pilikino. Eia kekahi laʻana, "makemake au" ma kahi o "hiki iāʻoe" a "makemake wau e hele i kahi" ma mua o "makemakeʻoe e hele i kekahi wahi."ʻO ka manaʻo piliko kekahi e pili ana i ka pilina aloha. Eia kekahi laʻana, inā hoʻomaka nā poʻe, e manaʻo kekahi o lākou he waiwai kā lākou,ʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea. Akā, he hewa kēia,ʻaʻole ke ao nei kahi kūʻai a he mea pono ke hakakā no ke aloha,ʻaʻole kūʻai. Ināʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kēia,ʻaʻole mākou no mākou iho.
Inā makemake mauʻoe e pili i kāu mea i aloha ai,ʻaʻole ia e hopohopo, akā maikaʻi. Akāʻo kāu punaheleʻaʻole ia he kīkaha aʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokomo i loko o kāu pēke a lawe i ka manawa a pau. Pono e noʻonoʻo i kēlā me kēia kanaka nona nā manawa pilikino, aʻaʻole makemake pinepine e kaʻana a kamaʻilio paha. Eia kekahi,ʻoiai inā e hoʻololiʻia anaʻoe, he paʻakikī ke hōʻoia i kēia a hiki i ka manawa eʻikeʻoleʻia ai ke kanaka i nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e hana i kahi hana inā ua lōʻihi kou aloha i kahi lā a ua kāheaʻiaʻoe. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka lili ka mea e huki ai kekahi wahine ma kona poʻo i nā kiʻi likeʻole o kona aloha "hoʻomaha" ma kahi'ē aʻe ma kekahi wahi, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia e kiʻi i ke kelepona a uaʻelemakule paha. Akāʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā mea a pau, malia paha,ʻo ia ke manawa e koho aiʻo ia i nā pua e hōʻoluʻolu aiʻoe.
ʻO ka lili e luku ana i kahi pilina maikaʻi
ʻAʻole hiki ke kapaʻia kekahi pilina maikaʻi ināʻaʻole lākou i hilinaʻi a me kaʻike. ʻAʻole ka pilina a hiki i ka hoʻomakaʻana o ke kanaka e hilinaʻi kekahi i kekahi.ʻO nā pilina i loaʻaʻole kahi pilina ma ke kahua i ka nānā waleʻana a iʻole e hoʻomaka wale ana e hālāwai. A inā ua nalowale ke ala kokoke aʻaʻole paha iʻikeʻia ma hope o ka maleʻana, e lilo ana ia mau pilina i mea e pōʻino ai nā mea aʻelua aʻo ka hope loa e hoʻopauʻia.
Liliā ka lili
Ināʻoe e lili i kahi mea alohaʻia no ka meaʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ia i hāʻawi iāʻoe i kumu hoʻonāuki a ua pololei ke kumu - he mea maʻamau, akā ināʻaʻoleʻoe e lili no kekahi kumu kūpono - heʻino. ʻO ka mua, hōʻinoʻoe i kāu mea aloha a me ka hilinaʻiʻole. Akā,ʻoi aku ka hoʻowahāwahāʻana iāʻoe iho, i ka manawa e huhū aiʻoe i ka noʻonoʻoʻole, no laila e hōʻoia aku aiʻoe aʻoi aku ka hauʻoli o kāu mea i aloha ai me kekahi wahine. Akā,ʻoi aku kou maikaʻi ma mua o nā wāhine'ē aʻe!
ʻO ka huhū huhūʻole ke komo i loko o nā wāhine kūpilikiʻi
He nui nā wāhine, i ka manawa e lili lākou, e like me nā keikiʻuʻuku. Ua nānā mākou a pau, i ka wā i loko o ka hale kūʻai, hoʻonāukiuki ka makuahine huhū i kona kaikamahine aloha, aʻo ia ka mea e makemake ai i kahi mea hana hou a iʻole ka'ati mai iā ia. A no nā ho'ākāka a pau o ka makuahine, e hoʻomaka ana ke keiki e loaʻa i nā meaʻeleʻele. Makemakeʻo ia i ka lole! Eia kekahi,ʻikeʻia nā wāhine lili i ka hana a ke keiki, aʻo ka wahine kāne kaumaha, ma keʻano o ka makuahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike i ka hoʻomahaʻana i ka wahine uē.
Makemake au e hōʻuluʻulu ...
Pehea e hiki ai i ka lili ke hoʻopili i ko kāua pilina me kekahi mea aloha? Inā he kahua paʻa ka lili a pili pono i loko o lailaʻaʻole he mea weliweli, he mea pono e kamaʻilio maikaʻi i kāu mauʻike me ka malu. No laila, e hōʻike anaʻoe i kou kiʻekiʻe a mahalo i kāu mea i aloha ai, a ma ka hopena, e loaʻa iāʻoe kaʻike a me ka hiki paha ke hoʻololiʻia ke kūlana.
Mai hana i nā hopena o ka hopena a e kaupaona i nā mea a pau!