ʻO ka hakakā. Pehea e hana ai me ia

Inā ua'ōleʻele kekahi kaikamahine'ē aʻe a ua makemake kāu keiki'ōpio iā ia, a laila he mea wikiwiki e hana. Me ka hoʻomakaʻana, ponoʻoe e hoʻoholo inā he weliweli maoli nā mea a ināʻoe e haʻalulu.


He weliweli maoli. He wahine maikaʻiʻo ia, maʻalahi, akamai. Eia kekahi, ua makemake nuiʻo ia, e'ōlelo,ʻo nā kaʻakino, no ka mea he lapuwale kou MCH. I ko lākou hoʻopaʻa pinepineʻana i ka Internet e pili ana i nāʻano hou a me ka weheʻana o ka wā kaʻa, e wela aneiʻoe me ka manaʻo lili? E ho'āʻo e aʻo i ka mea hiki i kāna mea hoʻokipa. Ināʻo ia meʻoe, alohaʻo ia. Ke waiho nei ia e hōʻike ana ua makaukauʻoe e mahalo i kona mau pono me ka mahalo, inā pahaʻoe i haʻi wale i kahi "mea wahaheʻe" nui e pili ana iā lākou ma mua.

ʻO kahi hoaaloha kūpaʻa . ʻAʻohe mea e hopohopoʻole ai, ma kēlā pō i ka hebedomaʻaʻole paʻa kāu pokāne i ka pā, akā me kona mau hoaaloha. Akā,ʻaʻole i loko o ka hihia inā he kaikamahine kēia hoaaloha. E haʻi aku i kāu pokoa e hele akuʻoe eʻike i kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi loa a me ka hoaaloha i kekahi kūlanakauhale'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole hiki i ka mea nui ke manaʻo e lawe i nā kumumanaʻo e like me kēia. Ponoʻoe, i nā mahina heʻelua e hiki mai ana i kāu mau hen.

Luna Nui . ʻAʻole i weheʻia i ka wā i hala koke aku neiʻo ia me ke kanaka a hala wale iho nei,ʻo ka hanohano o ka mō'ī hanohano i hoʻohuliʻia e ka lima ma ke ala e hele ai i kahi hale waihona puke a iʻole ka mea hanohano i kōkua i ka laweʻana i kaʻeke kaumaha i ka mea hoʻokiʻekiʻe. Ināʻikeʻoe iā ia aʻoi aku, e noi haʻahaʻaʻoe e noho mamao aku i kāu pokii aʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho i kahi mea pāʻani. Ināʻaʻole, e kali a kali. ʻO ka manaolana, e kokoke koke ana paha, a iʻole kāu hoa kāne a meʻoe e komo i kahi kūkā kamaʻilio.

ʻO kāu kamaʻana a he haumana paha. ʻAʻole i nui ka'ōleloʻana i ka wā e hele mai ai ke kaikamahine o Kelemānia, aʻikeʻo ia iʻelima mau manawa ma ka pule. E ho'āʻo eʻike pehea e pili aiʻo ia i ka kney. A ināʻo ia he hoaaloha maikaʻi loa nona,ʻo wai ka mea hiki ke kākau i nā'ōlelo, e hoʻomaha. Inā pahaʻo ia hehena e pili ana iā ia, a laila,ʻaʻole e hāʻule ka pilina pili pili. ʻO ka mea nuiʻo kaʻikeʻanaʻaʻoleʻo ia e kākau i nā'ōlelo aʻo pinepine. He mea liʻiliʻi e hiki ke ala ma luna o ka honua o kahi aloha maʻamau e aʻo ai.

Ka mea hoʻopunipuni wahaheʻe . ʻO ka manaʻo o ia e hōʻeha iāʻoe,ʻaʻole e lanakila. Ma mua o kouʻeha iā ia - he nīnau hou kēia. E hoʻomanaʻo, malia paha ua lawe akuʻo ia iā ia mai kāna hoa kāne aʻaʻole hoʻi i hāʻawi iā ia i kahi haʻawina pili i ka makemakika. I kekahi hihia, ua hiki i ka manawa e hoʻoponopono ai i nā hewa o ka wā i hala. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa,ʻo keʻoluʻolu. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hele ma luna oʻoe iho? A laila hoʻomaha, no ka mea, inā he pilikino koʻikoʻi aʻoi aku ka pilina me MCH,ʻaʻole hiki i ka hūnā hilahilaʻole ke pale aku iāʻoe mai kahi noho.

Hiki iā ia he kaikamahine hou ma nā papa a iʻole ma kāu hui wale nō. He mea maʻamau ka hoʻomakaʻana o nā poʻe a pau e komo i ka pāʻani, akā, he kūpono kēia no kēia kūlana. I ka wā e ho'āʻo e hoʻololi i kou kāmaʻa i nā kāmaʻa maikaʻi, a me ka huelo kūikawā no nā puluʻeleʻele, a me he mea kilokilo lā, i kēia manawa e noho aiʻoe ma kahi lumi hoʻolālā, aʻo kāu MCH ke nānā wale iāʻoe i ke ahiahi. Mai makaʻuʻoe e hoʻokolohua i nā kiʻi, e kāhāhā nui i kāu hoaaloha.

Hoʻokipa maikaʻi . ʻAʻole ia he nani loa,ʻaʻole i keʻokeʻo, a uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no ka ho'ākākaʻana o "ka makale hina". Eia naʻe, i kēlā manawa kēia manawa, e like me ia i ka wā eʻoi aku ai ka weliweli loa. Mai wehe loa iā ia, e makaʻala, e ho'āʻo e kuhikuhi i ka MCH i kona mau hewa. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo kahi hoʻokahi a me kāna hoaaloha e launa pū me ka mea hoʻokipa, ke'ōlelo nei lākou, he kaikamahine'ōpio, a ke pilikino nei i ka ea me ka mea kaʻa. E hoʻololi i kahi haʻahaʻa.

Kūʻole . Me he mea lā ua hina kāu keiki i ke aloha i ka mea i alakaʻiʻole iā ia. Akā, heʻenemi kēia? E hoʻomanaʻo iāʻoe iho i ke ono o ka papa, i ka wā i hōʻeha aiʻoe i nā haumāna o ke kula kiʻekiʻe, a aloha aku iā ia. ʻOi aku ke kaumaha o ke alohaʻole, akā,ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o nā lā he mau mahina. Akāʻaʻole kēia manawa e hoʻomaha ai. E hoʻomanaʻo i kahi aloha o Tilana me Tatiana, i ka wā i hōʻole aiʻo ia i ka pānaʻi. No laila e mālama i ke kūlana, inā, no ka pono, ponoʻoe.