ʻO kēlā me kēia wahine maoli, inā heʻumi paha a me kanaiwa ona makahiki, he mau wahi huna huna a me nā mea hoʻowalewale paha kona. Ua nīnau miliona nā wāhine i nā nīnau like i kēlā me kēia lā: pehea e like ai me kāu mea i aloha ai? Pehea e mare ai i kēlā mea hoʻokahi aʻaʻoleʻoe e kuhihewa i kāu koho?
Nā mea e pili ana i ka kūkuluʻana i nā pilina, nā loina a me nā pane i nā pilikia o ka wā kahiko -ʻo ia ka mea e kōkua i kekahi wahine e lilo i mea kūpaʻa i loko ona a me kona mau hiki ke hoʻomaopopo aʻe i nāʻelele o ka wahine. ʻO kekahi o nā "koʻikoʻi wahine" nui loa,ʻo ia wale nō ke aloha o nā kānaka i nā kaikamahine i aloha iā lākou iho.
ʻO nā papahana Televise, nā puke pai a me nā puke mānoanoa ma keʻano loiloi piha i nā hua'ōlelo: "Ma hea e loaʻa ai ka hauʻoli?", "Pehea e kūkulu ai i ka hauʻoliʻohana ?". I ka heleʻana i kaʻimi no ka hauʻoli,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻopoina kekahi i kahi kanaka e pono ai kahi hale ma luna o kona poʻo a i ka lā i ka lewa eʻike ai i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, a makemake kekahi e hana i nā moe i loko o ka hana i nā maka, i ka nui o ke kālā, i nā mea nani a me nā mea'ē aʻe. E like me ka'ōlelo a kekahi mea naʻauao, inā makemakeʻoe e hauʻoli -ʻo ia! ʻO ka pepepiliʻana i ka palapala passportʻaʻole ia he panacea no ka kaumaha, ke kaumaha a me ka hōʻehaʻole i ke ola. "Makemake wau e mare," i ka nui o nā wāhine e'ōlelo nei, me ka manaʻo e hāʻawi ke kāne pono a me kona aloha nui iā lākou i ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana. No ka hauʻoli, a no ka aloha hoʻi, pono e hakakā. Ma kahi o ka hauʻoli, aia ke aloha, manaʻo nā wāhine i kēia manawa, e kali ana i ka hana o kēia mea mai ka lua o ka hapalua. Akā ināʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iāʻoe iho i ka hauʻoli, hikiʻole iāʻoe keʻoliʻoli i kāu mea i alohaʻia, aʻo nā moe a pau o kaʻohana, he mea moe wale nō. ʻO ka pane pololei loa i ka nīnau: "ʻAuhea ka hauʻoli?" Heluhelu penei: "He hauʻoli i loko o mākou."
Makemake au i ka mele. Ke hoʻi mai ke kaikamahine i ka home i ke kakahiaka. Ua nīnau kekahi makuahine huhū iā ia i heaʻo ia i ka pō a pau? A pane mailaʻo ia me ka noʻonoʻo: "Ke hoʻomanaʻo neiʻoe, e ka makuahine, ua haʻi maiʻoe iaʻuʻo ke ala i ka naʻau o ke kanaka ke moe nei i loko o kona'ōpū? No laila, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi ala pōkole loa. "
Manaʻo kekahi ma ke aloha, e like me ke kaua, maikaʻi nā mea a pau. Malia paha,ʻaʻole pēlā. ʻAʻoleʻike ka aloha i nā kaulahao. Ke'ōlelo nei wau no nāʻano moʻokalaleo, nā kipi a me nā mea'ē aʻe. He mea lapuwale ke'ōleloʻana,ʻaʻole ia e hana. Ua heluhelu au i nā leka he nui mai nā wāhine mihi, ka mea i hele i kahi manawa i nā hana a nā kupua a me nā wāhine kilokilo. I ka hopena,ʻaʻole kahi wahine i kākau i ke aloha i hauʻoli. I loko o ka manawa, ua lilo ko lākou mau ola ponoi i loko o keʻano o ka pō.
He aha ka hopena e hiki ai kēia? Malia paha, i ka mea mua, pono mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo iā mākou iho, i ko mākou ikaika, i ko mākou maikaʻi a me ko mākou pilikino. A e hanaʻia kekahi hana mana. No ka mea, he mea kupaianaha loa ke ola o nā pūʻali,ʻoiaiʻaʻole kekahi manawa i pili i nā manaʻo kanaka.
ʻO Dmitry Krivitsky