1) E hāʻawi i nā manaʻo.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mea makemake nā kānaka a pau. ʻO kekahi mea makemake wale i nā poli, a he kanaka akamai loa, makemake kekahi i ka wahine waiwai waiwai, a he kanaka wahine. Akā, pono kākou e hoʻomaopopo i ka hiki i kaʻimiʻana i ka moeʻuhane ke hiki i nā makahiki, a i kēia manawa he nui nā kaikamāhine e māʻalo aʻe, e hiki ai ke lilo i mea hauʻoli maoli. No kaʻimiʻana i wahine ka mea hiki ke lilo i wahine,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻoi kou manaʻo no ka huliʻana i kaʻa hou. ʻAʻole hiki i ke kanaka ola ke hāʻawi i nā māmā kūponoʻole e loli me ka manawa. ʻAʻohe kānaka me nā hemahema. Ināʻike kekahi kanaka aʻaʻole kāna pono pono'ī, eʻaeʻo ia i nā hemahema i loko o kekahi wahine aloha i loaʻaʻole kahi koi. Aʻo kēia hoʻi, he hiki i kēia kanaka ke nānā pono i nā mea a me nā pilina.
2) E hoʻohana i kaʻike maʻamau.
ʻAʻole hiki i kahiʻohana ikaika ke hana me ka alohaʻole. Akā,ʻo ke aloha hoʻokahiʻaʻole ia he mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai. Koho i ka hoa o ke ola, e hoʻoholo mua me kou mau makemake a me nā mau loina.
Inā maikaʻiʻoe, he kanakaʻoliʻoli me kaʻoluʻolu maikaʻi,ʻo ka wahine melancholicʻaʻole ia ka meaʻoi loa. E hoʻohenehene kekahi oʻoukou,ʻo ka lua o ka mea e hōʻino i nā mea hōʻino,ʻaʻole e hoʻonui i ka maluhia a me kaʻike.
Ināʻoe eʻoluʻolu i ka hōʻoluʻolu i ka nohona o kēlā me kēia lā, pono e nānā i nāʻike waiwai o ka wahine. ʻAʻole pono ka liloʻana i mea kuke lawaiʻa-ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā makemakeʻoe, hiki iāʻoe ke aʻo i nā mea a pau, akā,ʻo kona makemake a me kona makemake e hoʻonoho i ke ola, mālama pono a hoʻomaʻemaʻe pahaʻo ia ka mea pono iāʻoe.
He mea nui keʻano o nā kāne a me nā wāhine i ka manaʻo likeʻoleʻaʻole ma ke ola wale nō, akā, ma nā mea waiwai nui kekahi. ʻO kekahi laʻana, he kanaka e mālama i nā wāhine me ka mahalo,ʻike i ko lākou kuleana e hana a loaʻa i ka holomua, ua maʻa ke kanaka i ka loaʻaʻana iā ia iho a mahalo i ke kūʻokoʻa a me ke kūʻokoʻa i ka poʻe. He mea hikiʻole paha iā ia ke makemake i ka wahine e makemake e haʻalele i ka hanaʻoihana no kaʻohana, me ka wikiwiki o kaʻikeʻana o kēlā kanaka. He mea nui e hoʻohālikelike i kouʻano i ke kālā. Inā kūkala kekahi, aʻo ka lua o nā mea wili, he kumu nui kēia no nā hakakā.
ʻAʻoheʻohana e hiki ke hoʻopauʻia me kaʻole o nā keiki. ʻO nā kamaliʻi e hui i ke kāne a me ka wahine, e hana i hoʻokahi. No laila, he mea nui loa ka manaʻo o nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā keiki a me kā lākou hānaiʻana e kū like me ke kāne me ka wahine. ʻAʻole pono lākou eʻano like loa, akāʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā piliʻoe i nāʻano likeʻole i ka makua. Eia kekahi, inā he moeʻuhane no kekahiʻohana nui, aʻo kekahi aʻo kahi keiki hoʻokahi wale nō kaumaha, hikiʻole ke pale i nā hakakā ma kēia'āina.
ʻO kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa eʻike ai i kāu mau manaʻo e pili ana i kahi wahine,ʻo ia keʻikeʻana me konaʻohana. 'Ōlelo lākou e hoʻomaopopo i keʻano o ka wahine i 20 mau makahiki, ponoʻoe e nānā i kona makuahine. He hōʻoia pololei loa kēia. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo e lilo ka wahine i kope pololei o kona makuahine, akā, ke kāleʻa pono nei mākou i ka hana a nā mea e ola nei a kūkuluʻiaʻo ia i kaʻohana i ke hiʻohiʻona āna iʻike ai mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai. No laila, hiki i ke kanaka keʻike a hoʻomaopopo i ka nui, me ke kamaʻilio pūʻana me kaʻohana o ka mea hoʻopunipuni i ka lima a me ka naʻau. ʻO ke ala i loko o ko lākouʻohana e kamaʻilio ai i kekahi i kekahi, e mālama i kekahi i kekahi a kōkua, e pili ana i kou pilina.
Akā, no ka ho'āʻoʻana e koho i ka wahine maikaʻi loa ma ka honua nei, he mea nui eʻole e haʻalele i ka mea i hiki ke mamao mai kāu mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka wahine maikaʻi loa. ʻAʻole hiki ke helu i nā mea a pau i ka honua a hiki i kēia manawa ke paʻakikī i keʻano o kāu pilina ma hope o nā makahiki he nui. Ma mua o ka manawa, hoʻololi mākou, ua loli ko mākou mau manaʻo a me nā mea nui, no laila,ʻaʻole e ho'āʻo eʻimi i nā pōmaikaʻi lōʻihi, e like meʻoe i loko o kahi hale kūʻai. Inā alohaʻoe i kekahi i kekahi,ʻike like kou manaʻo ma ke ola a me nā mea nui i loko o ia mea, inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā manaʻo like e pili ana i nā mea e hiki mai ana a me nā mea likeʻole, a laila, nui nā manawa e hauʻoli aiʻoe. I ka hopena, uaʻikeʻia nā moʻolelo i kahi o ke kāne a me ka wahine i kū'ē ai i kekahi i kekahi, akā ua ola pū i ke aloha a me ka lokahi no nā makahiki he nui.