Hiki paha ke hāʻule i ke aloha me kahi mea kikowaena maʻamau?

Ke kikowaena - ua komo paʻa kēia manaʻo i loko o ko mākou ola i nā nineties a hikiʻole ke puka koke mai. Ua lilo ka Pūnaewele i mea nui loa o ke ola, hana, amuses, a me ka huli no kaʻike. Ma keʻano laulā, ua liloʻo ia iʻanoʻano noho. Ua liloʻo ia i kaiaulu i hanaʻia, he'ōhumu o ke kaiaulu. Aʻo nā mea a ka poʻe e hana nei i loko o ke kaiāulu, kaʻike kanaka.

No ke kamaʻilioʻana ma ka pūnaewele, aia nā mea kūpono loa. Paena pūnaewele. Nānā i waena o nā kaiāulu, nā'enela likeʻole, nā kūkākūkā, nā kūkākūkā, nā blogs, nā diaries, nā wāhine. nā mea a pau aʻaʻole heluʻia. Aia kekahi manaʻo e maʻaʻole ka maʻalahi o ka maʻalahi aʻaʻole e hāʻawi i kahi hohonu o kaʻike, akā, i koʻu manaʻo,ʻaʻole pēlā. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au inā loaʻa i kekahi kanaka kekahi mea e'ōlelo ai i loko o ke ola maoli, a laila, he mea maikaʻi e kamaʻilio pū me ia ma ka pūnaewele.

Akā i ka manawa e loaʻa ai ka loiloi i ka pūnaewele, a laila ua hāpaiʻia kekahi nīnau kūpono, hiki paha i nā manaʻo maoli ke kū mai i loko o ia mea, hiki ke aloha aku i kahi kanaka kūkā. ʻO kēia nīnau i ka wā o ka pūnaewele honua a me nā kiʻi kiko'ī, e ho'āʻo e pane i kēia.

E hoʻokuʻu mua kākou i kekahi mau wehewehe,ʻo ka mea mua loa e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kūkākūkāʻikeʻole,ʻo ia hoʻi. i ka wā eʻikeʻole ai mākou i kahi kanaka, kona helehelena, ka hiʻohiʻona, ma nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻohana i kahi kamepiula a me nā mea hana'ē aʻe. ʻO kā mākou hoahele a'ōlohelohe loa, keʻike pono nei mākou i kāna avvartarku a me kahi kiʻi kiʻi.

No laila he aha ka pilina maʻamau, ma mua o kaʻokoʻaʻana o nāʻano likeʻole o ka kamaʻilioʻana. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole mākou iʻike i ke kanaka o ka mea pili. I ka nānā muaʻana, he pilikia nui kēia i ka hoʻomohalaʻana i nā manaʻo no ke kanaka kūkā. Akā, inā mākou e nānā i kahi nānā nui, eʻike mākou ua hala nā kānaka no nā makahiki he mau makahiki, e kākau ana i nā leka i kekahi i kekahi a me ke kamaʻilioʻana i loko o ke kumu, e like me ka mea. Hoʻohana wale no kēia no ka hōkeo'ilipili o kaʻikeʻikepili, akā he pepa a me ka leka uila.

Ma ka mōʻaukala, nui nā hiʻohiʻona o nā pilina i mālama muaʻia ma o nā lekaʻana, e like me Balzac, Mayakovsky a me Tsvetaeva. Ua heluhelu ka poʻe heluhelu ma hope o nā makahiki he mau makahiki a me nā kenekulia, akā inā maopopo iāʻoe, ua hōʻikeʻia ma kēia mau lekaʻoiai he mau kūkākūkā maʻamau. I ka wā o ke Kaua Honuaʻelua, he nui nā kaikamāhine i hui pū me nā koa iʻikeʻoleʻia e ka uēʻana i mua, i ka hora hoʻokahi iʻikeʻole ai kēia poʻe i ka wā ma mua, akā,ʻo ka pilina i hoʻonohonohoʻia ma kēiaʻano ma hope o ke kaua, ua alakaʻi ia i ka maleʻana.

ʻO ka mea likeʻole ma waena o kaʻike o kēia manawa ma ka pūnaeweleʻo ka wikiwiki o ka hoʻounaʻana i nā leka. Akā, ke manaʻo nei auʻaʻole hiki i kēia helu ke hoʻololi i ka hopena o nā manaʻo ma waena o nā mea pili.

Mai nā mea i luna nei, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻoholo i ka māhele o ka pūnaewele, ma waena o nā mea hulina maʻamau, pono e hoʻokumuʻia nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo maoli.

Akā, e nīnau ana ka nīnau inā paha e kapaʻia kēiaʻano ke aloha, a me keʻano o ka hoʻomauʻana iā ia. Inā mākou e huki like a like, a me nā anaʻana me ka likeʻana me nā leka, a lailaʻike mākouʻo ka holomua huahana o ka laulimaʻana he hālāwai maoli.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, no ka waiwai o ka syllable, a me nā epithets maikaʻi, ke noho nei mākou i ke ao maoli. Aʻo ke aloha,ʻo ia ka manaʻo e hikiʻole keʻoluʻolu i ka pilina, me kaʻikeʻole i kāna'ōlelo. Pono ponoʻo ia e kamaʻilio me ke kanaka, pono iā ia eʻike iā ia, e hoʻopā iā ia, eʻike i konaʻala.

No kēia mea, ke manaʻo nei au i ka paneʻana i ka nīnau, hikiʻole paha ke aloha aku me kahi kanaka launaʻole, e'ōlelo wau he mea hiki ia, akā i mea e hiki ai ke aloha i kēia mea hou, pono ia e unuhiʻia mai ka wahi mākau i ka mea maoli.