Ka hoʻonaʻauao o ke kāne i ka hanaʻana me nā wāhine

I mea e kamaʻilio ai me kahi kanaka hoihoi, ua holomua maikaʻiʻoe, ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo. Hiki iāʻoe, e like me kēlā me kēia wahine, nā manaʻo iho no ke kūkino a me ka wahine, i loaʻa ma muli o kouʻano kūikawā kūkākūkā me nā kāne. Malia paha, eʻikeʻoe i kāu mea i heluhelu ai inā paha; malia ua lōʻihi paha kouʻikeʻana aʻikeʻoe he poʻe like keʻano o nā kānaka. Akā, he mea paha āu e manaʻo ai i ka mea i manaʻoʻoleʻia, me ka likeʻole o kou manaʻo ma ka hapanui o ka lāhui.

Eia naʻe, maiʻoluʻoluʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i kahi mea āu iʻaeʻole ai. Malia paha e hiki iāʻoe keʻike i kekahi manaʻo hou hou no ka mea likeʻole i nā wāhine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ināʻikeʻoe eʻike i nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo a me nā hana a nā kāne, mahalo i kaʻike hohonu o kēiaʻano, hiki iāʻoe ke maʻalahi me kaʻike o nā mea'ē aʻe.

Pehea keʻano o ke kanaka, konaʻano a me konaʻano, ma muli o ka hoʻouluʻana i loaʻa iā ia. I kēia lā, mai nā lā mua o ke ola, ua hoʻomaluʻia ke keiki a alakaʻiʻia e nā wāhine. ʻO kēia ka makuahine, nā kumu, nā kumu ma ke kula, ka mea pinepine i ka nānāʻana i ka hapalua wahine. Ma waho aʻe o nā kumu i ke kula, kamaʻilio ke keiki me nā hoa papa. E hoʻomanaʻo i nā makahiki kula: i kēlā manawa ua ulu aʻeʻoe a me nā kaikamāhine'ē aʻe ma mua o nā hoa papa o lākou, ua mākaukau lākou i nā mea i'ōleloʻia i loko o nā haʻawina. ʻAʻoleʻikeʻia kēia mau mea no ka hiki iāʻoe keʻeha i ka haʻaheo o ke kanaka.

Ke ulu mālie nei, hoʻomaka ke kanaka'ōpiopio e kipi,ʻo ia hoʻi me nā wāhine. Akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi, hoʻomauʻo ia i ka mālama iā lākou me ka mahalo, aloha, a me ka hakakā no nā hālāwai me ka Lede Nani. ʻO kēiaʻano kū'ē'ē i nā wāhine a me ka haʻalulu o ke kāne "I" e hōʻikeʻia ana i ka hana a nā poʻe mākua i kēia mau mea penei: Akāʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne -ʻo ia hoʻi ka poʻe e hana like me ka "paʻakikī," ikaika i kaʻuhane, - ka moeʻuhane o ke aloha, ka mālamaʻana i nā wāhine a ke makemake nei e liʻiliʻi. I ka wai, he keiki ke keiki; akā, pono iā ia ke nānāʻana i ka nānāʻana o ka wahine, ke maʻiʻo ia a iʻole nā ​​hopena pilikia o kona ola.

ʻO ka hana o ka maleʻana,ʻaʻole ia he meaʻoluʻolu kūikawā no ke kāne, akāʻo ka hapanui o lākou e noʻonoʻo ana i ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana me ka manaʻolana hauʻoli, a he mea nui paha, ma kaʻuhane e makemake lākou i kāna bachelor. I ka hopena, makemake ka kāne e loaʻa i nā keiki. E loaʻa i kahi kanaka ma mua, e loaʻa i kekahi ma hope. Ma keʻano laulā, hikiʻole i nā kāne ke aloha. ʻOiai lākou makemake eʻakaʻaka i ke kele nūpepa a me nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni e pili ana i ke aloha, akā naʻe,ʻaʻole loa kahi kanaka i moeʻuhane i ka loaʻaʻana o kāna "hapa" no ka laweʻana i kāna mau hōkū mai ka lani mai. Ma keʻano likeʻole i ka manaʻo loiloi nui, hāʻule nā ​​kāne i ke aloha ma mua o nā wāhine. E hiki paha iā lākou keʻike, hoʻomaka e kamaʻilio me kahi wahine, e hoʻoikaikaʻia e ka makemake e loaʻa i ko lākou aloha. Eia kekahi, he nui nā wāhine i maʻa i ka hoʻokōʻana i ka mea a lākou i makemake ai. Akā, pono lākou e hana nui i ke aloha, a lanakila paha ma luna o nā pilikia nui aʻe, a he mea nui kēia e pono ai, kahi e loaʻa ai nā kānaka mai ka nani o ke kūlana maikaʻi loa. Me keʻano o ke aloha, ua ikaika ka mana o lākou, no ka mea, i ka manawa e hoʻokumuʻia ai kēia manaʻo i kahi hoaaloha a wahine paha, ua mākaukau kekahi kanaka e hoʻonui i ka ikaika e mālama i kāna mea i aloha ai. Ma muli o ka hoʻohālike o nā kānaka, hiki i kekahi o lākou, ke manaʻoʻiʻo i nā hana kupanaha.

No laila, e hōʻuluʻuluʻia:

ʻOiaʻiʻo, he paʻakikī ke kanaka. No laila, 'o kēia mau hualoaʻa wale nō ka' ōlelo maʻamau o nā kāne. Eia nō naʻe, he mea pono e hoʻomanaʻoʻia e pili ana i iaʻano o ka hoʻonaʻauao kāne kāne. E ho'āʻo e noʻonoʻo i ka hana kūpono o ke kanaka āu e makemake nei eʻike i nāʻano kūikawā a me nā hiʻona o ke kāne kāne āna eʻike nei. ʻO kēiaʻano hohonu hohonu eʻike ai me ia, eʻoiaʻiʻo nō e lawe mai i kona mau hua momona. Inā koho muaʻoe e nānā aku i kāu mea iʻike ai me kahi hoihoi i konaʻano, a laila eʻike anaʻoe i ka manaʻo o konaʻuhane e kuhikuhi iāʻoe.