Hiki iāʻoe ke hele i ka halepule!
He mea kupaianaha i ka loli nui o ka moemoeke i hikiʻole i ka wahine hāpai ke komo i ka halepule. He nui nā "kupuna wahine makua" no kekahi kumu e hopohopo mau ana i nā wāhine hāpai me kēlāʻaeʻana, a ua piha ka'ōnaehana o ka honua i nā nīnau o nā wāhine hōhaunaʻole e like me "E hiki iāʻoe ke hele i ka halepule no nā wāhine hāpai? ". Hiki iāʻoe ke pane i kēia nīnau me ka manaʻoʻole -ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hele i kahi halepule no ka wahine hāpai wale, akā, he mea pono nō hoʻi!
ʻO nāʻekalesia o kaʻekalesia eʻae aku i kēlāʻapuʻana i ka pāpā a me keʻano, e hoʻopiʻi i nā wāhine hāpai e hele i ka luakini. ʻO ka heleʻana i ka hale pule e hāʻawi mau ana i ka ikaika i ka makuahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana a me ka manaʻo e palekana nā mea a pau me ka pēpē me ia. No ka wahine hāpai, he mea pono a he mea pono e hele mai i ka hale pule a pule. ʻOiai, i kona hikiʻana i ka luakini, huliʻo ia i ke Akua me kāna pēpē i hānauʻia. No laila, he wahine hāpai e hele i ka halepule! Akā, he mea kūpono kēia, ke makemake wale ka wahine e hele i laila. ʻAʻole hiki i nā wāhine wahine ke hana i kekahi mea ma ka ikaika,ʻo ka heleʻana i ka hale pule maʻaneʻiʻaʻole ia he mea'ē aʻe.
Ināʻaʻole i mare ka wahine hāpai i kāna kāne, a laila ua'ōlelo kaʻekalesia e mareʻia ma mua o ka hānauʻana o ke keiki - a laila e hoʻouna aku ka Haku i kekahi makana kūikawā no ko lāua maleʻana. Ināʻaʻole i bapetizoʻia ka wahine hāpai, akā, makemakeʻo ia e bapetizoʻia, a laila,ʻaʻole loa ka hihia o ka hāpaiʻana i kēia. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka wahine hāpai e hiki ke mālama i kaʻahaʻaina o kaʻahaʻaina maikaʻi me ka palekana -ʻo ka liloʻana o ka Mysteries Hemolele e pono iā ia a me kāna pēpē.
I kekahi lā ma hope,ʻaʻole pono e hele wale ka hale pule -ʻo ka wahine hāpai e kāhea aku me kāna kāne, hoaaloha, makuahine, aʻo kekahi mea'ē aʻe paha mai kahi kokoke a aloha paha. I loko o ka halepule, hiki i ka wahine hāpai ke maʻi koke i ka maʻi, a laila e kōkuaʻia kā lākou kōkua. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole pili kēia manaʻoʻaʻole wale i ka heleʻana i ka hale pule -ʻo ka wahine hāpai i ka lā ma hope o kona home eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i ka hele pūʻana me kekahi.
Akā ma hope o ka hānauʻana i ka holoʻana i loko o ka luakini, pono e hoʻopoina kekahi wahine no nā lā he 40. Wahi a nā kumu o ka halepule,ʻo ka manawa kēia no kahi wahine e hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻia mai ka hewa mua. I ka pauʻana o ka manawa, hiki i kahi wahine ke hele mai i ka hale pule, akā e heluhelu mua ke kahuna i ka pule o ka lā kanahā o ka lā. Ma hope o kēia, e hoʻokuʻu houʻiaʻo ia e hele i nā lawelawe a komo i loko o kaʻahaʻaina o ka halepule.
Ma ka hale kupapaʻu - hiki iāʻoe, ma ka hoʻolewa -ʻaʻole!
Ma muli o ka likeʻana o nā "kupuna"ʻike nui loa, nā wāhine hāpai i keʻano maʻamau, hikiʻole iā lākou ke hele i nā ilina a me nā hoʻolewa. Eia kekahi, he mea weliweli e nānā i ka mea i make. Ke hopohopo nei lākou i nā wāhine hānau me nā "mea weliweli" i ka hale kupapaʻu e hiki ai i ke ola o ka mea i make ke hoʻomau i ke keiki, a ināʻike ka wahine hāpai i ka mea i make, e hānau ka pēpē.
Ua like nā hōʻailona o kaʻekalesia i nā hōʻailona me ka hoʻomanipuni a me ka hoʻokae. Ua koi nā kāhuna e hoʻoholo i ka manaʻo e hele i ka hale kupapaʻu aʻaʻole paha he mea hihia pilikino kēlā o nā wahine hāpai. Inā makemake kaʻuhane e hele - pehea wau e heleʻole ai? !! Inā ua kanuʻia kona makuahine, makuakāne, he keiki, aʻo ia ka mea e hauʻoli nei i ka makuahine e hiki mai ana, i kona kaumaha a me kaʻeha paha? Inā makemake kekahi wahine e hele ma laila - hiki ke hanaʻia.
Akā, inā pili ka nohoʻana i ka hale kupapaʻu me ka wahine hāpai me nā manaʻoʻole wale nō, inā makaʻu ka wahine, hopohopo aʻoluʻoluʻole paha e noho ma laila -ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka haʻaleleʻana i ka heleʻana i nā wahi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki i kekahi pilikia i ka wā o ke kōpilikia ke pili i ka uluʻana o ke keiki. ʻO nā manaʻo a pau,ʻo ka hauʻoli a me ke kaumaha, ua laweʻia mai ka makuahine i ke keiki ma ka'ōpū. ʻO ia ke kumu o ka hāpaiʻana he mea nui ka loaʻaʻana o nā manaʻo maikaʻi a me nā manaʻo. I kēia hihia, ponoʻoe e pale aku iāʻoe iho mai nā pilikia a me nā manawa maikaʻi.
No laila, inā he nīnau no ka heleʻana i ka lua kupapaʻu i nā lā hoʻouluʻu, keʻikeʻana, inā makemake ka wahine e hele i nā hoahānau make a me nā hoaaloha, inā maopopo iaʻaʻohe mea e hoʻopilikia i kona maluhia i loko - hiki iāʻoe ke holo mālie ma laila.
No ka hoʻolewa, no ka mea maʻamau, he manawa nui loa ia,ʻaʻole e pili i kahi wahine hānau. No laila, i ka wā o ka hāpaiʻana, ponoʻoe e mālama iāʻoe iho a me ka pēpē a pale i ka heleʻana i ka hoʻolewa, i mea e pale ai i kēia ikaika a hōʻino i kona olakino.
I ka wā e bapetizo ai i kahi keiki?
Wahi a nā peʻa o ka Ekalesia, pono ke bapetizoʻia ke keiki ma ka walu o ka lā ma hope o ka hānauʻana. Eia nō naʻe, ma ka hana,ʻaʻohe o nā mākua e koho e bapetizo i kā lākou pēpē i ka wā'ōpiopio. ʻOiai, ua bapetizoʻia kekahi pēpē ma hope o ka halaʻana o ka palena o hoʻokahi mahina. Ua kūpaʻa loa ka hale pule ma kēiaʻano - ināʻoe e noi aku e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kāu keiki i piha iʻekolu makahiki a iʻole iʻoi aku ka nui o kāu keiki,ʻaʻoleʻoe e nīnauʻia i ke kumu o kou heleʻana i ka wā pōkole. Aʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe mea i loko o kaʻahaʻaina o ka bapetizoʻana e hōʻole iāʻoe.
E like me kāu eʻike ai,ʻaʻole i kau ka hale pule i kahi pāpā no nā wāhine hāpai. Mai hoʻolohe i ka manaʻoʻiʻo kaulana, e kū'ē i nā hikes i ka hale kupapaʻu, hoʻolewa a me ka hale pule. ʻO ka mea nui ma kēia mau mea a pau, e hāʻawiʻia ka makuahine i ka wā e hiki ai ke hana i ka mea āna i manaʻo ai no kona pono'ī a me kāna pēpē. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e hoʻolohe i kekahi aʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻopoina i ka poʻe wale nō e manaʻoʻiʻo iā lākou eʻike ponoʻia keʻano.