He nui nā kāne a me hoʻokahi wahine

He aha inā e hui aiʻoe i nā kāne he nui i ka manawa like? A pehea e koho ai i kekahi o lākou,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo. Me kahi e pili anaʻoe iāʻoe ma ka pilina pili pono o ka honua, hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio no nā hora e pili ana i nā mea a pau o ka honua, a he mea maikaʻi loa kekahi, aʻo ka hapakolu ua hoʻopiha iāʻoe me nā makana maikaʻi a me nā'ōlelo hoʻohiki e lawe iā lākou i nā Maldives. Pehea e hana ai i ka koho maikaʻi aʻaʻole e kuhihewa?

Nā mea pāʻani.

Ke hālāwaiʻoe i nā kāne he nui i ka manawa like, hāʻawi iāʻoe i ka manawa e koho ai i ka mea maikaʻi loa o lākou, a me ka mea iāʻoe eʻoluʻolu ai ma nāʻano a pau. A no ka mea,ʻo ka nui o nā puke e like me ko lākou pono.

ʻO ka mea i mālamaʻia e kekahi poʻe kānaka iāʻoe i ka manawa like, e hoʻonui i ka manaʻo pono'ī. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka waiwai pono'ī a me nāʻano lele i nā lewa! Ma hope o nā mea a pau, uaʻikeʻia kou mau pono e nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika.

ʻO kou ola e like me ke ahi. Hoʻomaha i kēlā lā i kēia lā! Nā hōʻailona hele, nā hanana likeʻole, nā papa, nā haleʻai, nā huakaʻi'āina, nā meaʻike hou -ʻaʻoleʻoe i hoʻokahi minute o ka maluhia.

Nā makana. Ua hauʻoli kēlā kaikamahine kēia kaikamahine i ka hāʻawiʻiaʻana o nā makana liʻiliʻi iā ia, aiʻole i hāʻawiʻia i nā makana maikaʻi. ʻO kekahi mau mea hoʻopono i ka manawa likeʻole e hāʻawi iāʻoe i kekahi manawa i nā manawa maikaʻi a me nā meaʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi.

I kēlā me kēia lā he houʻoe. Me kekahi e pāʻani anaʻoe i kahi kaikamahine hānai, me kekahi mea'ē aʻe e pani neiʻoe i ke kūʻokoʻa kūʻokoʻa, me ke kolu āu e hoʻomaha ai a liloʻoe iāʻoe iho. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i nāʻano kūikawā! Mai noi aku i ke kanaka e akahai a aloha, inā he holoholona hihiuʻo ia ma keʻano. Uaʻikeʻoe i ka lāʻapōpō e hoʻopilikiaʻiaʻoe e kekahi mea hilahila a me ke aloha.

Nā kānāwai.

Holo ke poʻo mai ka leo a me ka sms. Pehea e nalowale ai i kāu mau kāne, pehea e hana ai i nā mea a pau?

E koho i ka hoaaloha maikaʻi eʻike i kāu mau hana. Hiki iā ia ke kōkua iāʻoe: e uhi, kōkua a'ōlelo i ka maikaʻi e hana ai.

Pono e loaʻa kahi diary e kākau aiʻoe i nā hālāwai, nā hiʻohiʻona o ke kanaka, kāna mau makana, nā inoa o kona mau hoaaloha. Ma keʻano maʻamau, kaʻike e pono aiʻoe. ʻO ka hūnā waleʻana i kēlā "hōʻike palekana" e maikaʻi loa. E noʻonoʻo i ka mea e hiki ke hana inā loaʻa i kekahi o kāu'ōpiopio?

Inā hālāwaiʻoe me hoʻokahi puna, a ke kono nei kekahi iāʻoe e noho me ia i ke ahiahi, mai kapaʻoe i kahi o ka hale nani a iʻole nā ​​papa hana āu e hele ai. " He aha inā makemakeʻo ia e hālāwai meʻoe i kahi bouquet o lehi?

E holoi i nā leka a pau i loko o ke kelepona, ma ka kamepiula a me nā wahi a pau eʻike ai ke keikikāne i nāʻano o "kēmu kūpono". ʻO nā inoa o nā mea ma ke kelepona e kākau i nā inoa kanaka! ʻAʻohe "meaʻono," "huanies" a me nā inoa wahine! Hiki iā ia ke wehe i kahi manawa kūpono loa. I ka pō, e hoʻopauʻia ke kelepona.

Hoʻokahi mea e hiki ai iāʻoe ke komo i loko. Ke hālāwaiʻoe me kahi hoaaloha hou, mai hele pololei i ka wai. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo iā ia. A inā e nānāʻo ia i kou manamana, a he mau helehelena paha o ke aloha i hala? E holoi i kahi holoi pulu meʻoe a lawe i keʻano he rula e hoʻonohonoho pono iāʻoe iho ma hope o ka moekolohe.

ʻAi.

He kipi mau loa. Ma kou poʻo, ponoʻoe e mālama i nāʻike he nui: nā inoa, nā wahi o nā hālāwai, nā makana, kahi i nehinei a me nā mea'ē aʻe. Mai kāhea i kahi inoa o kekahi mea ma kahi moe! He mea hoʻokahi inā loaʻaʻelua mau ipo, a inā he nui aku?

E hoʻomanaʻo i ke kūlanakauhale nui nui loa, he kūlanakauhale nui ia e hiki ai i kāu mau kāne aloha ke hālāwai me ka laha. ʻO kahi hālāwai i manaʻoʻoleʻia e hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaka e hōʻike i kahi kaikamahine hou,ʻoʻoe hoʻi i loko o nā hihiaʻelua!

Mai hoʻokuʻu i nā maka o kou mauʻenemi, nā hoaaloha iʻike iāʻoe i loko o ka hui me kekahi hoa kāne'ē aʻe. Hiki iā lākou ke pōhēhē (a ma kahi paha) "e hoʻopuka" i kekahi mea e like me kēia, a laila, ponoʻoe e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iāʻoe iho a wehewehe i ka mea nānaʻoe i kēlā ahiahi.

ʻO kekahi wahine e hui pū ana me nā kāne he nui i ka manawa hoʻokahi, no ka mea, he nui ka poʻe i koe i ka "moe kolohe me ka moe kolohe." ʻO kēia no nā kānaka e kala aku. He wahine hāmamaʻo ia, he aha ka mea e lawe ai iā ia? A ua kapaʻia mākou he hua'ōleloʻinoʻoi aku ma mua o ka "hele wale."

ʻO paha ka hopena nui loa, inā he nui nā moʻolelo i ka manawa like, he wahi kaʻawale uhane. Me ke ola maikaʻi, koe wale nō a loaʻa kahi kamaʻilio naʻau-i-naʻau me ka meaʻole. He pāʻani waleʻoe e pāʻani ana a makaʻuʻoe e hoʻopili i nā inoa.

Aʻo ka mea hope loa e hiki ai iāʻoe ke "ʻai"ʻo ka hoʻomāinoinoʻia o ka manaʻo. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i nā maka maka o ke kanaka, konaʻano haipule iāʻoe, a me ka hoʻopunipuniʻana iā ia me nā mea'ē aʻe, he mea naʻauʻole wale nō. I kekahi lā e hiki ai nā mea a pau ke wehe aʻe a heʻeha loa kāu hoa kāne.

ʻOiai,ʻo ka manawa o nā moʻolelo likeʻole e hāʻule i ka wā'ōpiopio, akā, hiki i kahi lede i ka wā makua ke hana i keʻano like. ʻOiai, i ka manawa a ma hope paha, ponoʻoe e koho hoʻokahi. E hoʻolohe i kou puʻuwai! E haʻi aku iāʻoeʻo wai wale kāu ...