Pehea e hoʻolālāʻia ai ka māne o ka wahine ikaika?
Ua hoʻoholo kekahi authoritative male edition i kahi nūnū, aʻo ka hopena o ka loaʻaʻana o ka lakene o nā kānaka i ka loli. Wahi a nā hualoaʻa i loaʻa, 93% o nā kānaka ke kuhi nei i nā mea maʻamau, hāʻawi manawaleʻa i nā hoa. He mea pono ke hoʻomaopopo he 61% o nā kāne e like me kēia, a 32% eʻae i ka moe kāne wale nō no ka hana maikaʻiʻana me kā lāua hoahana, a inā wale kahi lauoho o ka lālā piliʻole a iʻole aia he kahi lauoho pili. Ke hoʻololi neiʻo ia he 7% wale nō o nā mākaʻi o ka wahineʻoi aku ka ikaikaʻoi aku i keʻano o ka hakakā, no ka mea, he mea hoʻowahāwahā a he ponoʻole kēia no nā kānaka maoli.
ʻO ka mea nui loa, he nui nā kānaka iʻike i ka pākī a me nā'ōlelo kalaʻole. ʻO ka momona no ka nui o ka muzhchin he mea nui loa a pili i ka moekolohe. ʻO nā mea a pau, i ka wā hiki loa, makemake nā kāne e hoʻonā i nā wāhine e hana minet. Inā, inā hōʻole ka hoa hui i ka pahi,ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻino ai i ua kanaka nei,ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea e hiki ai ke kaʻawale.
ʻO Cunnilingus kahi mea pili loa. ʻO ka wahine iʻikeʻole i kaʻike ma ka waha,ʻo ia mau mea hoʻokahi, hiki iā ia ke hoʻonani i ke kanaka, no ka mea,ʻo ka mea maoli i loaʻa i ka leʻaleʻa. Ināʻikeʻole kahi kanaka i kēia kūlana,ʻo ka wikiwiki wikiwiki aʻeleʻeleʻole e holomua. ʻAe, aʻo nā wāhine hoʻi,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i nā kāne iʻikeʻole e hana i nā kaikamāhine. Hiki paha kēia i ka wā e hilinaʻi waleʻia ana ka hoa. No nā kāne, makemake lākou e hoʻohuli i nā wāhine e puhi i ka puhi i ka wā hiki loa.
No ke aha i makemake ai kekahi mau kānaka i ka'ōlelo kalauna aʻaʻole kekahi? E ho'āʻo mākou e hoʻomaopopo i kēia pilikia nui.
No ke aha i'ōlelo ai nā kānaka:
- ʻO nā kānaka e like me kēia, malia, he paʻakikī ke manaʻoʻiʻo i kekahi poʻe, akā uaʻike nā kānaka i ka'ōlelo'ōlelo maʻalahi i hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻia e like me ka makemake maoli a me ke kuko. ʻAʻole pinepine ka mea i ka mea a ke kanaka e makemake ai e hana maikaʻi i kāna mea i waeʻia. ʻO ka mea mua, makemake kekahi kāne i kahi wahine e hilinaʻi iā ia. Hoʻoikaika kēia i keʻano o ka hilinaʻi i ka manaʻo pono'ī.ʻO ka lua, ua hauʻoli nui kekahi mau mea i keʻala o kekahi wahine e hiki iā lākou keʻike i ka meaʻoluʻolu loa mai ka launaʻoleʻana ma mua o ka hoa pilikino.
- ʻO ke kumu,ʻo ia ke kumu o ka noʻonoʻoʻole, akāʻo kekahi o nāʻelele o ka māla ikaika e hopu i ka wahine, ua mākaukau no ka loaʻaʻana o nā mea liʻiliʻiʻuʻuku.
- ʻO ka makemake e hāʻawi i ka wahine i ka leʻaleʻa. He mea maikaʻi i waena o ka ikaikaʻoi aku o ka wahine i ka poʻe i maʻalahi i ka hana maʻalahi a me kaʻoluʻoluʻole. ʻOiai,ʻo ka wahine i laʻa e hālāwai me kēlā kanaka, e mahalo nuiʻo ia i kēia manaʻo iā ia iho, no ka mea, ma kahi lōʻihi, hiki i ke kanaka ke hoʻololi i konaʻano me kaʻikeʻoleʻana i ka pane.
- Loaʻa i kahi kāne keʻano o ka wahine hauʻoli a me kaʻike maopopo loaʻo kēia kāna mea i loaʻa ai. 73% o nā kānaka i nānāʻia e noʻonoʻo pēlā.
- Pēlā ua'āponoʻia. Ke hana nei kekahi mau kānaka i ka'ōlelo maʻalahi i keʻano maʻamau. Manaʻo lākou he pono ia, me ka noʻonoʻo wale i ka nui o ka makemake o ka wahine.
- ʻO ka makemake e hoʻomāhuahua i ka pilina pili. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua maʻaleʻa ka hana maʻamau me ka manawa, makemake wau e ho'āʻo i kekahi mea'ē aʻe. I kēia hihia,ʻo ka nohoʻana i ka moe waha he ala maikaʻi loa ia e lawe ai i kahi kānana i ka nohoʻana o ka wahine.
No ke aha i hōʻole ai nā kānaka e hana i nā kaikamāhine?
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, ua hōʻole kekahi mau kānaka i ka'ōleloʻole i ka poʻe i kohoʻia, me ka manaʻo he weliweli, he moekolohe a he mea hoʻowahāwahā. ʻO kēia mau māmā o ka wahine iʻoi aku ka ikaika, he mea paʻakikī ia, he moekolohe ma nā pānaʻi maʻamau a i ka wā e pau ai ke kukui.
Akā, aia nō kēlā poʻe kānaka aloha i ka puhi, a hana pinepine i ka moe kolohe, akā, hōʻole nā'ōlelo hōʻole i keʻano. Ke hoʻololi nei nā kānaka i kēia he hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ko lākou kūlana kiʻekiʻe. ʻO ia mau kumu hoʻopiʻi he kumu ia. Ināʻole, hiki iā ia ke'ōlelo me ke kūlana hoʻomalu e hoʻonāʻia kēlā puhi e ka hanohano wahine.
ʻO kekahi o nāʻelele o ka māla ikaika,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike i keʻano o ka hanaʻana i ka'ōlelo hōʻoki. ʻAʻole makemake ke kanaka e aʻo, no ka mea, makemakeʻo ia e nānā i kaʻike a me ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, me ka hōʻoleʻole i konaʻike pono'ī.
ʻO ka maximum,ʻo ka mea e manaolanaʻia ai, he mau nalu keʻokeʻo,ʻo ka lōʻihi o ia meaʻaʻoleʻoi aku ma mua o nā minuke he minuke.
He mau kāne kāneʻole kekahi e hōʻoleʻole ana, no ka mea ua manaʻo lākouʻaʻole nā wahine i nā mea e hoʻomaha ai i ka wahine. Ma ka manawa hoʻokahi, ua hōʻole nā kānaka he nuiʻaʻole e hōʻoia i ke kumu o ka hōʻeha a me ka noʻonoʻo o nā wahine, no ka meaʻaʻole lākou makemake e ho'āʻo aʻaʻole hikiʻole ke hoʻopakele i nā wāhine i ka makemake maoli.
E hōʻuluʻulu i nā hualoaʻa
Inā ho'āʻoʻoe e hoʻopau, hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo aku i nā kāne e moe kolohe ana a makemake lākou eʻoluʻolu loa i ka wahine, maiʻikeʻoe i kekahi mea weliweli i ka poʻeʻekeʻeke, akā, ua like pū lākou me ia. I kekahi hihia,ʻaʻohe kānalua. ʻO nā kānaka likeʻole e kū'ē i nā'ōlelo'ōwili, ke kīkī mālie, e hōʻike ana i ko lākou kino liʻiliʻi a me ka nawaliwali. A noʻonoʻo, ma ka moekolohe,ʻaʻohe mea i pāpāʻia. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia ka makemake o nā hoa!