Heʻumikumamāwalu makahiki he lā kūikawā i ka ola o nā'ōpio. Makemake kekahi e hoʻokipa i kēia lā i hoʻomanaʻoʻiaʻo ia no ke ola. Uaʻike kekahi i konaʻelemakule a kokoke i ka wā makua. ʻAʻohe paʻakikī ka weheʻana o ka nohoʻana i ka lā hānau.
ʻIke nā kaikamāhine i nā makahiki heʻumikūmāwalu iʻoi aku ka hoihoi o ka naʻau ma mua o nā keikikāne. ʻO ke kumu o ka maʻalahiʻana o kā mākou kālaikaʻona, a ke hana nui nei mākou i nā mea a pau, no laila, i ka lā nui nui, he mea nui ka kākoʻoʻana o nā hoaaloha a me nā pilina. Eia kekahi, ua hōʻoia nā kaikamahine a pau i kēia lā ua hauʻoli a hauʻoliʻo ia.
ʻO kahi hana nui i hoʻokaniʻia e ka hauʻoli a me ka makana. No laila, i ka kohoʻana i kahi makana, pono pono e noʻonoʻo i nā meaʻono a me nā makemake o ka lā hānau hānau. Inā he hoaalohaʻoe, a laila he nui ka nui ma kou poʻohiwi. Pono kou aloha ma mua, no laila e hāʻawi i nā makana e like me ka envelopp me ke kālā, kahi mea kani a iʻole kelepona i ka manawa hoʻokahi.
ʻAʻohe manaʻo maikaʻiʻole no ka mahalo
Vashocel - hāʻawi aku i kāu hoaaloha i kekahi mea e mahaloʻoleʻia ai ka pilina, no laila e hoʻopoina koke i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi. Pono lākou e hāʻawiʻia e kekahi o ko lākou hanauna a iʻole nā hoaaloha. Aʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho i kahi kūlana weliweli, no ka mea,ʻaʻole kāu makana i kumu mua loa. ʻO kekahi makemake e hāʻawi i nā poʻi, kū i nā mea nani a me nā huapalapala'ē aʻe no nā makahiki heʻumikumamāwalu. Akā noʻonoʻoʻoe no kou makemake, e makemakeʻoe e loaʻa i kēlā makana? ʻAʻoleʻo ia.
Hōʻole i nā leka kāleka maʻamau. ʻOiaiʻoiai i kēia mau lā, he nui ka nui o lākou: no kaʻaʻaʻana i ke kele, uaʻano paʻalina a pau loa lākou. ʻO ka pinepine,ʻaʻole kūlike ke kiʻi i ka manaʻo o ka kikokikona,ʻoiai ke kākauʻana i kekahi manawa i nā mea liʻiliʻi a me keʻano nui, i kekahi manawa ua hanaʻia ka manaʻo ma hope o ka heluheluʻana ua nalowale wale ke kaikamahine i ke kelekale a me nā kāne no ka hauʻoli piha.
No laila, e hana i ka leka kuhi no ka hoaaloha me kou lima pono'ī. ʻOiai ināʻaʻoleʻoe i ka hana akamai kupaianaha, eʻoluʻolu ana kekahi hoaaloha i ka loaʻaʻana o kēlā makana mai iāʻoe. Ma ka pūnaewele, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa nā koho kūpono no nā leka uila home. A ināʻoe e hoʻohui i kēia puke maikaʻi i kākauʻia mai ka puʻuwai, a laila, he mea waiwai loa kāu hana.
Hikiʻole ke kohoʻia i nā makana, e like me ke kāpekaʻana i ka lumi hauʻoli, ka hana massage a iʻole nā mea hoʻonanea, nāʻili no ka pohō kaumaha a iʻole ke kālā no ka mālamaʻana i ke kikooho, ka lauoho a me nā like. ʻOiai pahaʻaʻole i kāohiʻia kāu kaikamahine i ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i nā paonaʻelua,ʻaʻole pahaʻo ia e makemake e noʻonoʻo e pili ana iā ia i kona lā hānau. Eia kekahi,ʻo ia makana - he kuhikuhi pololei kēia, hiki ke hoʻopā aku i kahi kanaka. Inā makemakeʻoe e kōkua i kahi hoaaloha ma kēiaʻano, a lailaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kākau inoa me ka hale hauʻoli, ka nani nani a me nā like.
I ka manawa hope,ʻo nā mea i hoʻonohonohoʻia no ka hoʻohanohano i ka lā hānau, he kaulana loa. Hiki keʻike pinepineʻia kēia i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, i ka manawa e hūnāʻia ai nā hoaaloha he nui i kahi lumi pouli. A i ka manawa e komo mai ai ke kaikamahine i loko o kēia lumi, e hoʻomaka ka mālamalama, a hoʻomaka nā mea a pau e hoʻoleʻa iā ia. ʻO ka manaʻo o kēia mea kupaianaha maikaʻi, akā aia kekahi "akā". ʻAʻoleʻoe i maopopo i keʻano e pane ai ka'ōpiopio. Malia paha,ʻaʻole ia he manawa no kēia mea e kahaha ai,ʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e hele ma kahi'ē. No laila, mai ho'āʻo i ka hopena a hōʻole loa mai iaʻano hana. E waiho i ka pono no ka hoʻonohonoho i kaʻahaʻaina no ka wahine hānau. A hiki iāʻoe ke kōkua iā ia me kēia hiki.
E koho i makana no ke 'ano a me nā mea makemake
No ka koho me kahi makana, ponoʻoe eʻike i ke kanaka maikaʻi. E hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea a pau āu e aʻo ai e pili ana i kāu kaikamahine i nā mea kiko'ī. A laila, i ka kohoʻana i kahi makana, e noʻonoʻo i kona mau makemake, nā mea hoihoi, a me konaʻano. No laila hiki iāʻoe ke pale i kaʻaʻaʻana i ka kūʻai.
Heʻumikumamāwalu mau makahiki ke hoʻomākaukauʻia kekahi kanaka no ka mea hou. No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho no ka hoaloha i kekahi mea āna i manaʻoʻole ai. Eia kekahi laʻana, e hoʻolālā iā ia e lele i kahi pāpale, e lele mai ke alahaka (hiki ke kani) a iʻole e hoʻokomo i kahi hoʻokolohua ma kahi kaʻa nani. Eia naʻe, hāʻawiʻia kēlā mau makana i kona hoaaloha inā makemakeʻo ia eʻike i nā hoʻolālā maikaʻi. Ināʻole, hiki i kāu makana ke hoʻoweliweli a hoʻoweliweli.
Inā e'onihi ana kāu hoaaloha, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho no kona hoʻopiliʻana i ka manaʻo. Hiki iāʻoe ke hīmeni me ia, e pana i nā mea a pau ma luna o ka kamera, a hoʻomanaʻo i nā makahiki he nui, no ka mea he leʻaleʻa.
Inā heʻano mālie ka lā hānau lā, a laila e hana kekahiʻano mea. Malia paha makemakeʻo ia e kau inoa no ka holo lio, kahi papa poʻokela a iʻole ka massage ma kahi noho nani. Inā makemake nui ke kaikamahine i nā palapala, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i kahi palapala hōʻoia no ke kūʻaiʻana i nā puke i kahi puke kūʻai maikaʻi. ʻO kahi makana maikaʻi no ka mea aloha aʻo ia ka puke hoʻolālā.
Inā makemake kou hoaaloha e hele i nā hui a hui pū, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kona hoʻonaʻauaoʻoihana ola ma nā hula hula. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi kaikamahine ke hōʻike i kāna mau hula hula ma ka hula hula.
Hāʻawi kēlā me kēia kaikamahine i ka lole a me ka nani. No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i kahi palapala hōʻoia no kekahi kālā, e hiki ai iā ia ke kūʻai i nā mea hou e mālama. Pēlā keʻano no nā kāmaʻa maikaʻi a me ka meaʻala. Inā hiki, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike i kahi putea i ka lā hānau hānau, piha i nā kāleka, nā kāmeʻa hoʻolimalima a me nā palapala hōʻoia. ʻO kēlā makana e hōʻoluʻolu i nā kaikamahine.
Aia kekahi koho hou no ka mahaloʻana i kahi hoaaloha. ʻOiai paha he meaʻaʻohe i ka nānā mua, e manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, e mahalo nui ana kuʻu hoaaloha. E kono i kekahi mea kiʻi kiʻi lā a hāʻawi i kou hoaaloha i kono kono kakahiaka i ka mea hana mea hana. Hana ka mea hana hana paʻa i ka hana nui no ka hoʻolauleʻaʻana i ka lā hānauʻumikumamāwalu, aʻo ka mea paʻi kiʻi e hoʻonui i nā kiʻi kiʻekiʻe. Mai kēia mau kiʻi e hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi moʻolelo o ka lā o ka lāʻumikumamāwalu a hāʻawi iā ia i makana.
ʻO ka makana e hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i ke kāne makua
ʻO kahi makana no nā makahiki heʻumikumamāwalu e noho no ka wā lōʻihi. No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kekahi mea i nā makana a me nā mea nani. ʻO kekahi laʻana, he kaulalani, he mīkini lima, he paila a he pepeiao pepeiao paha. ʻAʻole pono ia hana i nā mea nani o nā mea waiwai nui. I kēia lā, ma nā papa o nā hale kūʻai e hiki iāʻoe keʻike i ka nui o nā mea nani.
Ināʻoe e hana nei i kāuʻoihana ma kekahi keʻenaʻoihana, a laila i kona lā hānau, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i kahi koleka maikaʻi no nā palapala mai kaʻili. Hāʻawi ia i ke kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi i kahi kāleʻa a hōʻoluʻolu i nā poʻe.
Inā makemake kou hoaaloha e hīmeni a me nā moeʻuhane o ke aʻoʻana e pāʻani i ke kī, e hāʻawi iā ia i kekahi mau haʻawina uku. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iāʻoe iho i mea kani, akā, e hāʻawi waleʻia kēlā makana inā waleʻoe ke maopopo i ka makemake o ka hoaaloha e pehea e pāʻani ai. Ināʻole, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokomo iā ia i kahi hilahila a paʻa.
Inā loaʻa iāʻoe kahi kiʻi kūpono o kahi hoaaloha, kahi e nānā akuʻo ia i nā mea kupaianaha, e kauoha i kekahi kiʻi o kēia kiʻi. Akā, e pono e hoʻonani naniʻia ka makana pono'ī ma mua, e hana i kahi kiʻi no ia mea, e kāpiʻi me ka pepa makana a hoʻopaʻa aku me ka penikala kahi makana a me ka laweʻana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi i kāu wahine.
Hiki iāʻoe ke kākau i kahi mele, mele, a iʻole e hoʻokumu i kahi wikiō kūikawā i kona hanohano no ka kaikamahine hānau. Hiki iāʻoe ke kāhiko i kona puka. ʻAʻole hiki keʻikeʻia kēlā mau makana.
ʻO kēlā lā kēia lāʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hana me nā pua naniʻole. Akā, maikaʻi ka heleʻoleʻana i kahi pua nani, akā, i ka pua nani a me ka mea kanu i loko o ka pua pua. ʻAʻole e pau nā pua i loko o kekahi mau lā a he mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi ia no ka hoʻomaha.