He aha ka manaʻo e holoi i nā kīʻaha ma kahi moe? 💘💘💘
I kekahi manawaʻo nā leka i loko o ka moeʻuhane hiki ke kuhikuhi i nā kūlanaʻohana Pono nā mea a pau maʻaneʻi: pehea kāu holoiʻana, he aha nā mea i hanaʻia a me keʻano o ka nui. ʻO ka hoʻohālikeʻana o ia mau moeʻuhane, paha,ʻaʻole. ʻO ka weheweheʻana, kahi e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai ke kanaka i nā mea lepo, hiki iā ia ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kaʻaoʻao pili kālā (wānana i ka waiwai), akā pinepine - a no nā pilikia a me nā pilikia. Ma kahi hoʻokahi e hiki iāʻoe ke maopopo -ʻo ka holoiʻana i nā pāla e hoʻomaikaʻi i ke kūlana, hoʻoponopono i kekahi mea, e hoʻoikaika i ka mea maikaʻi loa.
Akā no kaʻikeʻana o nā wāhine i keʻano o ka holoiʻana i nā kīʻaha - kahi poʻeneʻe i kekahi mea paneʻole, hoʻopaʻa i hoʻopaʻaʻia. A maʻaneʻi, inā hoʻopau ka wahine i ka lawelawe no ka maloʻo a me ka nānāʻana,ʻo ia hoʻi, e hana nā mea a pau ma ke ala maikaʻi loa. No ke kāne a me ka wahine i ka aniani kilokiloʻike - i ka maluhia o ka homehihiʻohana.
Inā e moe ana nā ipu i kekahi kanaka iʻikeʻole i kahi hoa ola - he pilikia kēia e pono e hoʻoholo kokeʻia. He keuʻole ia a "e wehe i ka pōhaku mai kaʻuhane" - e haʻi i kahi mea i alohaʻia e pili ana i ko lākou hopohopo, hopohopo a hopohopo paha.
ʻOiaʻiʻo he hōʻailona maikaʻi -ʻo ke kālā, ke kīla gula. Pans, maʻalahi maʻalahi, pale, a holoiʻia i loko o ka hale o kekahi'ē aʻe - i nā pilikia o keʻeke. ʻO ka holoiʻana i nā mea lepo no ka mea moeʻuhane heʻano hōʻailona ia o nā pilikia, kahi palekana o kaʻoihana, i ka hanaʻana me nā kānaka. Inā ua kaumaha, e like me ka'ōmole, a me ke koena o ka meaʻai, a laila e kali i ka haunaele ma kaʻoihana. No nā pukeʻoihana moe, ma keʻano, no ka puke moe a Vanga,ʻo kekahiʻike like e like me kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi, a me nā pilikia.
Ka weheweheʻana o Miller i ka puke moe
- E like me kāna'ōlelo, no nā wāhine mare eʻike i keʻano o kā lākou holoiʻana i nā mea lepo - no ka likeʻole o kaʻohana. I loko o kēlā puke moe, hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka lawelawe me nā meaʻai, ka inu - ka lohe o ka loli. ʻO ka kīʻaha pohō ka lanakila nui. ʻO nā hōʻailona hoʻonaniʻia he mau aniani a me nā haʻalulu, hōʻike lākou i nā hanana hauʻoli.
- ʻIkeʻia i loko o ka moeʻuhane peheaʻoe e holoi ai i nā kīʻaha he hōʻailona maikaʻi no ka puke moemoeaʻo Miller, akāʻo ka maikaʻi keʻikeʻia i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hanaʻia nā mea hana kīʻaha nani - i ka waiwai a waiwai. No kekahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio, ua hoʻohikiʻo ia i kahi pilina holomua me ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana,ʻo ia ka mea i kūpaʻa a hilinaʻiʻia. Akā, he mau hōʻailona nā hōʻailona o nā moeʻuhane i kūponoʻole e hoʻokōʻia.
- Inā e holoiʻia e nā kānaka'ē i nā mea moe, eʻikeʻoe i ka mea e manaʻo ai, e hōʻoia kēia i kāu moe. Ināʻoe e hoʻolālā i kahi mea, hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi maikaʻi i kahi hoʻomehana maikaʻi. ʻO ka hihiʻo kēia o kahi kanaka lanakila. Malia paha e piʻi aku kaʻoihanaʻoihana, aiʻole ka waiwai i kaʻoihana. Akā,ʻo ka lepo e haʻalele ana i nā kīʻaha, e laweʻo ia me ka'ōlelo hōkū a me ka hoʻonāukiuki i nā mea liʻiliʻi.
- Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e holoi i kāu mau kīʻaha ma ka moeʻuhane - a laila hiki ke mālamaʻia me ka wiwoʻole i ka mea nona nā kīʻaha: i ka wā e hiki mai ana, me kēia kanaka, e kamaʻilio nui anaʻoe me ka maikaʻi. ʻO nā hemahema i loko o nā hale kūʻai,ʻo ia nō ia mau hemahema e mākaukau anaʻoe e kala aku no ka poʻe e pili kokoke ana iāʻoe.
Aʻoiaiʻaʻole makemake nā kānaka a pau i ka hanaʻana i nāʻoihana o ka hale, aʻo kaʻoihana hoʻi e nānā ponoʻole ia,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻopoina wale i ka hihiʻo. ʻAʻole makemakeʻoe i nā hanana hauʻoli e hiki iāʻoe ke hele? ʻO ia ke kumu eʻoluʻolu ai i ka ho'ākākaʻana i ka unuhiʻana i ka puke moe eʻike ai i ka manawa pehea e hana ai i kēia a iʻole ia kūlana.