'Ōlelo lākou iā mākou,ʻo mākou, nā kaikamahine'ōpiopio, keʻano lili a me keʻano o ke aloha, i ka wā i hālāwai mua ai me ka hakakā a iʻole nā pilikia e mākaukau ai lākou e hopu i ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa o ka lauoho, a hoʻololi i ka pilina mau loa i loko o ka hoʻokae likeʻole. He mea pono eʻike i ka wahi o nā kūkākūkāʻana, a he aha ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o lākou, a he aha hoʻi ka wahaheʻe. No laila, nā moʻolelo no ka pilina wahine.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, i loko o kou kaiaulu he nui aʻe nā wāhine i nā makahiki a pau he mau hoaaloha mai nā manawa kula, me ka nānāʻole i kahi mamao, ka hoʻololiʻana i nā pono a me ka hoʻohuiʻana o kaʻohana. He aha ka mea?
ʻO kā mākou wāhine, heʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o nā manaʻo a me kaʻoi aku i mua o nā kāne No laila, i kekahi manawa me kekahi manawa maʻauna, hoʻomaka mākou ma nā hōʻikeʻana, aʻo kēlā "pānaʻi pānaʻi" - ua mākaukau maoliʻo ia e kōkua. Akā, i ka wā e hoʻoponoponoʻia ai ka pilikia - nā lālā o ka mea ma mua. No ke aha? ʻAe, no ka meaʻaʻole lākou i hoaaloha. Ua kōkua mau kekahi i kekahi i kekahi manawa pilikia.
ʻO ka lua o ka moʻolelo e pili ana i ka pilina wahine ka mea i hanaʻia e nā kāne. I ka wā e launa pū ai kekahi kanaka i kahi maʻi, he mea nui iā ia ke kōkua kūikawā, maikaʻi loa - maikaʻi. I ko lākou manaʻo,ʻaʻole e pono i kahi hoaaloha ke kamaʻilio, akā ua pili iā ia. ʻO mākou, nā wāhine, he makemake i kaʻaoʻao'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole pono iā mākou ke kōkuaʻana i ka manaʻo:ʻo ia,ʻo wai e'ōlelo aku, e kāhea aku, a me ka mea e hui pū me ia. E hana mākou i kēia ma hope, i ka loaʻaʻana o ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo e pono nā mea a pau.
Mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai, ua hoʻohālikelikeʻia mākou me nā keiki a ke hoalauna, nā hoa papahele, nā hoa papahele, e maʻa mau ana i ka hakakā mau a nānā i hope i nā poʻe'ē aʻe. E hoʻonui hou i ka hoa paio lanakila "ma kahi", ho'āʻo pinepine mākou i ke ala maʻalahi - e kuhikuhi ana i kona mau hewa. ʻO ka hopena,ʻo mākou, e ulu ana, e noʻonoʻo i ka pilina o nā pilina. No laila, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou i kēlā me kēia lā, nānā i ka hale paʻahao o ke kūlana noho. ʻAʻole wale kēia pilikino pili i ka pilina.
Ehia mau manawa e lohe aiʻoe: "He aha keʻano o ke kaikamahine iāʻoe ināʻaʻoleʻoe e hele pū me aʻu i nā papa o ka'ikebana"! Ua hoʻomaopopoʻia e pono iāʻoe nā hoaaloha likeʻole, akāʻole,ʻaʻohe pono e lilo i mau hoaaloha! A ināʻaʻohe mea kānalua i ka pono o ka pono o ka pono, a laila,ʻo ka manaʻo kuhihewa e pili ana i ka māheleheleʻana o ke ao holoʻokoʻa me kahi hoaaloha i nā manawa a pau, kekahi o nā meaʻino loa. Ua like mākou a pau a ke kamaʻilio aku nei i kaʻoi aku o nā meaʻoluʻoluʻole me ko mākou manaʻo pono'ī, akā me kekahi kanaka'ē aʻe nona kona manaʻo pono'ī, nā manaʻoʻiʻo, a me nā makemake.
ʻO ka "ʻoiaʻiʻo" o ka pilina e hoʻopuka waleʻia e ka nui o nā poʻe i loaʻa i loko o laila, no lākou iho, aʻaʻole hoʻi i pau nā kope o kekahi. Manaʻo, heʻoiaʻiʻo kēia. ʻO ko mākou mau manaʻo manawa pinepineʻole i keʻano o ka noʻonoʻo pono, a no ka manaʻo o nā hua'ōleloʻulaʻula e hiki ai iā mākou ke "kūʻai aku" he hoaaloha. A me ka makemakeʻole i kekahi manaʻo kolohe, akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo i kaʻike o kaʻike a mākou i hoʻouna ai i kekahiʻaoʻao'ē aʻe, e hōʻeha paha, e hōʻino a hōʻino paha. ʻO ka kumuʻelua no kēia hanaʻana he makemake e loaʻa ka pilina ma waena o ka pilina pili pilikino o kekahi. E like me kouʻike, pehea keʻano o kaʻoiaʻiʻo i hele mai nei au iāʻoe, ua wehe au i nā mea huna a pau. Akāʻaʻole kēia mau mea i hūnāʻia eʻoe ... I mea eʻole aiʻoe e lilo i mea hōʻailona a me ka mea hāʻawi i ka mea haukawana, e hoʻolohe i ka mea a me nā mea hilinaʻi āu i hilinaʻi ai.
ʻO ka launaʻana me nā wāhine ma ka'enehina hāʻawi i kaʻoluʻolu i nā poʻe a pau, me kaʻole o ka wahine. A ke hoʻoholo nei ia i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka loneli -ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻo ka nui o ke kanaka i nā hoaaloha me nā wāhine,ʻo ka mea liʻiliʻi kona manaʻo e haʻalele. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole pili i ka moekolohe, akā, no ka pili pili i ka pilina. ʻO ke kamaʻilioʻana me nā wāhine, heʻano "elixir",ʻo ia ka "uku" me kona ikaika i nā kānaka he nui.