Aʻo kēia no ka mea ma ke Komohana ua'ōleloʻia he lōʻihi a nani loa nā kaikamāhine Russian. Loaʻa hoʻokahi pane i ka nīnau no ka mea nui o nā wāhine i hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻole iā ia. He mea maʻalahi loa ia, e hoʻohewa i nā pilikia maʻamau i loaʻa i nā wāhine he nui. E hoʻolālā mākou i nā māhele o ka nui o nā wāhine eʻeha mai.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻopauʻia ka complex nui loa i kouʻike. ʻOiai inā e lawe wale akuʻoe e hele i waho ae ninaninau i nā wāhine a me nā kaikamāhine, a laila e hōʻikeʻike kēlā mea kēia mea i ko lākou hewa ma keʻano. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo he manaʻoʻino a heʻino paha nā mea a pau i loko o lākou, aia i loko o lākou ka poʻeʻike iā lākou iho, e like me ka mahalo a me ka mahalo iā lākou, me kaʻikeʻole i ko lākou helehelena mamao mai kahi maikaʻi. ʻAʻole e pili ana kēia i nā wāhine Lūkini wale nō, e hiki ke mālamaʻia kēia huahelu ma ka Pūnaewele ma nā pūnaewele puni honua a pau loa ka hopena. Ua hoʻopiha pihaʻia nā wāhine no lākou iho, ma ka ikaika o ka 20-25 pakeneka. ʻO ke koena e hōʻino loa ana iā lākou iho, i ko lākou helehelena. ʻAʻole lākou e māʻona i ka "'ōpū nui loa", "kaʻole o ka pūhaka", "ke kūponoʻole o ka huina o ka huahelu," "nā wāwae'ākau," "ka pahu liʻiliʻi, aʻoi aku paha ka nui", "kaumaha nui", "cellulite". ʻAʻole i palena ka papa inoa. ʻO ka mea nui loaʻo ia me ko lākou mau pilikia,ʻo kēia mau wāhine a me nā kaikamāhine hoʻi iʻeha i ka maʻiʻuʻuku, he kumu ia no ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli i nā lole loloa he nui, a me nā kaukipipima maikaʻi. ʻO ka nui o nā'ōhumu e pili ana i ka nānāʻana mai nā wāhine,ʻo ka nui o nā mea kālā o kēia mauʻoihana hiki ke loaʻa ma kēia. ʻOiaiʻo kēlā me kēia wahineʻekolu, hōʻoleʻole i kona helehelena, ke nānā nei i nā ala maʻalahi e hoʻoponopono ai i kona pilikia, a me nā lālā o nā hui hoʻolaʻa, nā lole lohi, a me nā kikowaenaʻoihanaʻoi aku iʻoi aku ka mākaukau no ka kōkuaʻana i nā wāhine eʻike i kā lākou moeʻuhane e lilo i mea maikaʻi.
Hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo aku e hiki i kekahi mau paakiki ke hoʻomohala koke i nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka lua o nāʻanuʻu,ʻaʻohe mea iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i mua o ka mua,ʻo ia ka "kauā wahine". ʻO ke kumu o kēia puʻupuʻu, mai ka hopena'ē aʻe. ʻO kekahi o lākou he kaumaha. ʻO ka nui o ka paona he pilikia ia no ka makahiki iwakāluakumamākahi. Ua hoʻokomo kēia pilikia i ka hana i loko o nā meaʻai he nui. ʻO kēlā me kēia kaikamahine e noho ma ka meaʻai, inā paha he lole nui kona 44, pono ia e nalowale i ka kaumaha, no ka mea, i ka manawa i hoʻokumu pinepine ai kekahi i keʻano o ka mea i emiʻole ke kino o ke kanaka,ʻo kaʻoi aku aʻoi aku he'ōpio.
Akāʻo nā meaʻoi loa o ka hewa, aʻo ka nui o nā kānaka i hoʻomaka e noʻonoʻo i ka mea hoʻokahi. A i kēia manawa,ʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne maoli, uaʻoi lākou i nā wahine'ōkino. Ke nānā nei lākou iā lākou me ka liʻiliʻi, a hoʻonele i nā wāhine i kēia manawa, e nānā ana iā ia, e noho mālie a ho'āla i loko o lākou iho i nā keʻena hou, no ka mea, ua maopopo lākou heʻanoʻino loa ia a he "ʻeleʻele loa e like me ko lākou manaʻo",ʻaʻohe mea e lawe iā lākou i ka mareʻana. Hoʻomaka lākou i ka inaina iā lākou iho a me ko lākou kino, hiki i kēia me ka hoʻomakaʻana e pale i nā hālāwai a me nā hoa pilikino me ka wahine'ē, heʻano hopohopo i ka hanaʻana i nā kānaka. ʻAʻole lākou i maopopo e pono wale nōʻoe e aloha iāʻoe iho no ka meaʻoeʻoe. Aʻo nā hewa a pau o lākou e hana i ko lākou pono iho.
No laila, i ka nīnau o nā heaha ka nui o nā wāhine eʻeha, ma waho aʻe o nā mea i heluʻia ma luna nei, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokaʻawale i kahi'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole ka mea nuiʻole,ʻekolu. ʻO kēia ka mea i kapaʻia he "moe moe". Ua hoʻohilahilaʻia ka hapanui o nā wāhine ma nā hālāwai kūkā me kekahi kāne. A eia hou, ke kumu o ka hopena o keʻano. Ua hoʻohilahilaʻia nā wāhine e hiki i ke kanaka keʻike iā ia me ke kaumahaʻole a no laila,ʻike i kona mau hewa. Aʻo kēia ma ka hapanui o nā hihia he pilikia nui ia no nā kāne he nui. Akā, hiki ke pale i kēia pilikia. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e hōʻino wale iāʻoe iho. Ponoʻoe e mahalo iāʻoe iho a mahalo, a makemakeʻia nā kāne e mahalo mau lākou i nā wāhine a nininiʻia me ka mahalo.