I ka hoʻomākaukauʻana i kēiaʻatikala, ua mālamaʻia kahi noiʻi liʻiliʻi, he hanana hōʻikeʻia o nā kāne 27 a 37 mau makahiki. ʻO ia hoʻi, ua koho nuiʻia ke au e ka meaʻoi loa, "clock clock". Ma waena o ka nīnau "macho": 1 Bulgarian, 3 Lūkini, 2ʻAmelika, 1 Chuvash, 1 Pelekānia, 1 Ukrainian a me 1 Georgian. Eia hou, ke hāʻawi nei mākou i nā pane,ʻo ia ka "nani o kaʻumi" i kūpono a me ka maikaʻi. No laila, e nā wahine, nā mea hoʻowalewale i nā mea a me ka hoʻomanaʻo. Mai keʻano maoli o nā kānaka i hāpaiʻia, me kaʻikeʻole i ka lāhui a me keʻano.
1. Ma ke kahua o kāna hihiʻo, he wahine maʻamau ka loleʻaʻahu. Nui ke maka o ka maka kāne ma luna o ka hoki i uhiʻia, ka umauma, nā pūhaka. Ua kapa inoa nā kapaʻaʻahuʻeleʻele i kahi lōʻihiʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele me kahi kiʻekiʻe iʻokiʻia mai ka'ūhā (aiʻoleʻelua!), No laila, mai loko mai o ia mau wāwae "iʻeʻehia" me nā pale paʻu mai nāʻili.
ʻO kēia mau kiko liʻiliʻi nui. ʻO keʻano likeʻole i nā kānaka i ka neckline o ke kāhili me ke kī pākuhiʻole, a kokoke e wāwahiʻia mai ke kānalua i ka wā e hoʻonāukiukiʻia ai, a laila e kaomi ke pihi. ʻO ka poʻe a pau, e nānā ana i kēia wahi hohonu iʻoluʻolu, e manaʻo nei eʻike i nā mea a pau i hunaʻia ma lalo nei a paʻi. Ke hoʻomaka nei e hopohopo.
2. "ʻO ka mea huna a pau o ka wahine iʻaʻahuʻia,ʻaʻole ia e hūnā i kahi huna o ka'ōlohelohe" - e hoʻohanaʻia i ka'ōlelo a nā kāne wahine kahiko. ʻO ke kū nei me lākou ua paʻa. Uaʻae nā kānaka a pau i kahi wahine palekana iʻoi aku ka'ōpala,ʻaʻole hoʻi i'ōlohelohe. Hoʻomaka hou ke kanaka ināʻo ia ke "paʻi" i nā wahi iʻikeʻoleʻia o ka'ōpū wahine.
He mea hauʻoli kēia hana. Makemake nā kāne e noʻonoʻo i ka wahine o ka puʻuwai i ka loleʻaʻahuʻawaʻawa,ʻaʻole i loko o ka hale moe i ka papahele. ʻO nā lole a pau, he mea hoʻohālike wale nō:ʻikeʻia a kālaiʻia. No keʻano o ka lole holoi, e noho nui mākou.
3.ʻO ka lepe o nā lole wahine i nāʻikeʻepekema (ka poʻeʻepekemaʻepekema) hoʻokahi ka hopena o ka piʻiʻole. Inā he loea maikaʻiʻoe, e hoʻohana mau i ka kālā nui ma kaʻulaʻula ulaʻula a me ka loleʻeleʻele. Hoʻopiʻi ke kalaʻula ma luna o ka mea aloha, e like me nā kānaka he 10 a pau iʻike, hoʻonani, hoʻonākumu i ka ikehu kūikawā. ʻIke lākou i ka wahine i nā mea like me he wahine wahine lā, hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha, me kaʻole o nā mea pale a me nā kapu. ʻIke lākou i kēlā hōʻailona ma kēiaʻano o nāʻaʻahu: hiki iāʻoe ke ho'āʻo me ka naʻau koa, hoʻohui i ka hana a me ka passivity (hāʻawi i ka wahine i ke alakaʻi ma ka moe pili wahine). Inā hōʻanoke wale ka lūlū i ka wahine (ʻoiaiʻaʻole kēia o ka momona), uaʻike nā kānaka i kēia mea no ka mea e hoʻomoe ana ka mea nāna i ka lōʻihi o ka noho lōʻihi,ʻaʻoleʻo ka kēmu kēpau no hoʻokahi minute.
ʻO ka mea nona ka loleʻulaʻula a me ka loleʻulaʻula,ʻikeʻia nā kāne e like me keʻano o ka wahine, a me ka manaʻo palekana, akā, ua hōʻaleʻaʻia e nāʻano noʻonoʻo a me nā hana hōʻeuʻeu.
ʻO ka wahine i ke kapa'ahuʻula, ua manaʻoʻia ("he loke i ka moena," kahi e hoʻohana aiʻoe i ka hana. A me nā mea a pau me ka hopenaʻole. ʻO kēia wahine lekaleʻa helu helu wale nō ia ma ka hana a kekahi hoa. Ma keʻano laulā,ʻo kaʻuli polu no ke olonā ka mea kūponoʻole,ʻo kā mākou "heʻumi."
Ke manaʻo nei lākou heʻaʻahuʻulaʻula, ma luna o ka wahine e makemake wale i kēia hoa, hoʻokahi wale nō manawa e makemake ai nā wāhineʻeleʻele e hoʻopau i ke kolohe.
ʻO ka lauʻeleʻele. Uaʻikeʻiaʻo ia e kā mākou mau ipo i ka hapanui o nā wāhine. Keʻike nei lākou he kūponoʻole, me ka hōʻailonaʻole o kahi pilina kūikawā.
ʻO kēia ke kaʻina o nā hiʻohiʻona. E noʻonoʻo iāʻoe, e kūʻai aku i nā mea e pili ana i nā wāhine. A noʻonoʻo, e nā wāhine aloha,ʻoi aku ka nui o kāʻoukou hana ma kahi moe. ʻAʻole nō hoʻi e kōkua ka lole pono loa a me ka lole o ka lilina inā heʻano palaualelo,ʻikeʻoleʻoe i ka moekolohe.
4.ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā mea a pau (a me nā mea pane ma ka wahi mua) keʻano like ia me ka loiloiʻana o ka wahine i ka mea he "aloha nui." Ke nānā pono neiʻo ia iā ia. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e nānā wale ana, akā lōʻihi ka nānāʻana i kona wā'ōpio, "e hāpai" i kona maka "i pauʻole i ka makemake o ka wahine." He aha keʻano o kēia? ʻO kēlā wahine kēia wahine aloha i ka wahine, Aʻo ke kanaka i aloha aku i ka wahine e like me ia.
5. Ua haʻi aku nā kāne he mea hauʻoli loa ia ināʻike lākou i ka loaʻaʻole o ko lākou wahine lole. He "pō popo kēia"! Ināʻoe e haʻi aku i kēia lono i kahi mea aloha i ka wā o kahi puʻupuʻu i ka hoʻokani i ka pāʻani. Mai kānalua'ānō ināʻo ia ke kēnā wikiwiki iāʻoe i kahi kihi'ōlohelohe a hana i kahi mea maikaʻi. ʻO ka kū'ē, he meaʻole ia, ua hoʻonāukiuki lākou i nā manaʻo "Africa".
6.ʻOiaʻiʻo, e hoʻopoina auaneʻi kāu mea aloha i ka luhi a me nā pilikia o ka lā hana, ināʻoe e hālāwai me ia ma ka puka kokoke i kahi'ōlohelohe (me ka pale a me ka pale mai ka wāwae) me ka nānā ponoʻole. E lawe i ke kui a alakaʻi pololei i ke keʻena moe, kahi eʻike aiʻo iaʻaʻole i kahi moe wale nō, nā pale pale maka, akāʻo kaʻaina ahiahi no nā meaʻelua ma ka papaʻaina.
7.ʻAʻohe o nā mea heʻumi i hōʻole iā ia iho i ka mea eʻoliʻoli ai: i ka wā i hoʻopāʻia ai kāna mea i alohaʻoleʻia me ka hilinaʻi i kāna "mea hana" ma o nāʻeke o kona mau kapa. A ke helu neiʻo ia i kēlā mau helu ma kahi o ka lehulehu (akāʻaʻoleʻikeʻia!): Ma kahi pāʻina, ma ke kahua pāʻani, ma ke keaka (!) Ma nā wahi'ē aʻe.
8. Eia kekahi, uaʻae nā kāne i ka makemake o lākou i ke alanui. I ka wā e pale aku ai ka wahine i kāna waiwai i ka wā e holo anaʻo ia i kahi kaʻa, a hanaʻo ia i kekahi meaʻoi aʻe iʻoi aku ka pilikia. ʻO ka mea nui ma nā pāʻani weliweli e nānā i ke ala aʻaʻole hiki ke laweʻia e ke kiʻekiʻe.
9. A, no ka mea, ke makemake nei nā mea a pau e makemake kēlā poʻe aloha iā lākou iho i nā wahi i manaʻoʻoleʻia no ka moekolohe: mai kahi hale haʻaleleʻia me kahi hayloft i ka mea kaha kiʻi!