ʻO ka pane i kēia nīnau e like me ka pololei, hiki i nā psychologists ke'ōlelo e paneʻole i ka manawa hoʻokahi, akā ma hope o ka hanaʻana i kahiʻoihana liʻiliʻi. E noʻonoʻo i ka nalowale o ke ao holoʻokoʻa a ke noho neiʻoe ma kekahi wahi kūʻokoʻa, i penaʻia wale nō i ka leka hoʻokahi. Me kaʻili o kouʻano -ʻulaʻula, melemele, a pēlā aku. Eʻoluʻolu aneiʻoe i kēia ao hou? E heluhelu i ka pane!
ʻO ka'ōmaheno o kouʻano he'olimaʻulaʻula. ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā,ʻo ia keʻano o ke aloha, lanakila, hana, a me ka ikaika. Heʻoiaʻiʻo, he kiʻekiʻe nuiʻoe: alohaʻoe i ke ola a me nā kānaka a puniʻoe. Akā,ʻo ka mea nui,ʻo keʻano ke kuko, lawe, a me ka nani. Makemakeʻoe e noho ma kahi hana a ma kou ola pono'ī. Eia naʻe maanei he mau nuances. ʻO ka mea mua, e liloʻoe i alakaʻi maoli no ka hihia wale nō, i kaʻikeʻanaʻoe e lilo i ka ikaika-ma keʻano kūponoʻole e hoʻokau i nā manaʻo e pā ana i ka maka. Aʻo ka lua, i ka pilina me nā mea aloha,ʻo ka hana nuiʻoleʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi loa o ka hana.
No laila, i kou ola pono'ī, mai makaʻuʻoe e waiho wale i nā mea ma o lākou iho, e waiho ana i ke kuleana e koho ai i hoa.
ʻO ka laulā o kouʻano heʻilima aloha. Inā makemakeʻoe i ka'ōmaʻomaʻa i nāʻala a pau, a laila, he wahine laha a hana akamai (akā,ʻaʻole iʻoi aku ka nui), akamai a maʻalahi. Uaʻikeʻoe pehea e kuhikuhi ai i kou ikaika ma ke ala pololei, no laila, i kāuʻoihanaʻoihanaʻoe. Mahalo nui (ma kaʻike a me keʻano o ka naʻau), no laila ua hoʻokipaʻia nā kānaka iāʻoe,ʻoʻoe, i ka hopena, hiki ke hilinaʻi i kā lākou kōkua. Mai kānalua iāʻoe a aloha i nā manaʻo. ʻO nā poʻe koho o ka wahine ikaika o kēlā mau wāhine,ʻaʻole lākou e nalo, no laila, he hoa kupanaha maikaʻiʻoe aʻaʻole nō hoʻi he piliʻana mai nā mea pā.
ʻO ke kala o kouʻano heʻulaʻula, melemele, etc. ʻaʻole kūpono, a laila, uaʻoluʻoluʻoe i ka'ōmaʻomaʻo. ʻO keʻano o kaʻano, ka maikaʻi, ka mālie. ʻO nā'ōpū o ka'ōmaʻomaʻo'ōmaʻomaʻo - maikaʻi, palekana a me ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho. ʻO ia ke kumu i loaʻa ai iā lākou ka lanakila ma ka hana a me ka hauʻoli i ko lākou mau ola pono'ī. Inā kohoʻoe i kēiaʻahu, a laila,ʻoʻoe he mea hoʻolohe maikaʻi. Noʻoe iho,ʻaʻoleʻoe e haʻi aku i kekahi mea e pili ai i nā hoaaloha a me nā mea aloha, i ka makemake a me ka hauʻoli, a me ke kaumaha ma ka haʻaheo haʻahaʻa. Hiki paha iā mākou ke hoʻokuʻu i nā palena? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ke'ōlelo nei lākou ināʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i ka hauʻoli me kāu poʻe i alohaʻia, e lua. A inā hoʻoheleʻoe i kahi pōʻino me kahi hoaaloha - uaʻaneʻane ka hapalua o ka pilikia.
ʻO ka pena o kouʻano he blue blue. Ua koho aneiʻoe i ka uliuli? ʻO kēia ka laulā o nā mea hana kiʻi ma keʻanoʻoi loa o kēia mau hua'ōlelo. Ke ola neiʻoe e like me kaʻikeʻana o nā maka he nui o ka manawa iāʻoe, a ke kali mau neiʻoe i ka hoʻohauʻoliʻana. Ma kekahiʻaoʻao,ʻaʻole maikaʻi, no ka mea, hoʻohanaʻoe i nā mea a pau, no ka mea i laweʻia, maikaʻi. Akā ma kekahiʻaoʻao, hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha, ponoʻoe e pono. E hoʻomaka koke i kēia lā, maikaʻi? A me nā mea pā i kaʻulaʻula, he moeʻuhane, he aloha a he aloha loa i ka holoʻana. Makemake lākou i nā mea hou: makemake lākou e aʻo, he nui nāʻano hoʻolālā likeʻole, he'ōlohe nui o kaʻike. I loko o ke aloha,ʻo kēia mau kaikamāhine he mau mea aloha, haipule a me ka mōhai kaumaha, he paʻakikī ke hoʻomanawanui i ke kaʻawaleʻana mai kāu mea aloha
ʻO ke kala o kouʻano he maʻa mau. ʻO nā wāhine i koho i keʻano'ōmaʻomaʻo, mālie, mālie, mahalo a kūpono, ua hiki ke maʻalahi. He manawa ko lākou.
Hiki ke kapa aku paha kekahi iā lākou he wahaheʻe a hiki keʻike. Akāʻo kēia wale nō ke nānā mua. "Brown" no ka ho'āʻoʻana he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa ia e hiki ke kau i ka poʻohiwi i kēlā me kēiaʻano, a me nāʻohanaʻohana e hāʻawi i ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka palekana o ko lākouʻohana ma mua aʻe o nā mea a pau.