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Inā nīnauʻia inā he pilikino ma waena o nā wāhine, hiki iāʻoe ke paneʻaʻa i ka'ōlelo. 'Ōlelo nā kaikamāhine he nui no lākou ka pilina wahine:ʻo ia me he kaikuwahine lā iaʻu, ua hakakā lākou i kā lākou pane. Akā, ma luna o ke aha e paʻa ai a pehea ka lōʻihi? E nānā kākou.

Hoʻomaka ia me ka pilikino, ka manaʻo o kēlā me kēia. He pilina aloha ko nā kāne, i kekahi manawa, inā maʻi kahi hoaaloha, ua mākaukau lākou e hele i kaʻaoʻao o ko lākou hoa. No ka wahine, ma ka mea mua,ʻo ia ke kanaka i alohaʻia. No ka wahine,ʻo ka hale, kaʻohana, ka pilina me ka mea aloha. A inā nānāʻole kahi hoaaloha i kāna wahine aloha, a laila, hiki iā ia ke lilo i hoalohaloha. A maanei,ʻaʻole no ka lili, akā, no ka huāhuā, no ka mea, i ka hohonu o kaʻuhane, ua hoʻohālike kēlā wahine me kēia wahine i ka wahine. I ka hikiʻoleʻana o kēia, hoʻomaka nā hakakāʻokoʻa i nā meaʻino a mai ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa e lilo i kaʻenemiʻino loa. ʻO kēia wale nō me ka manaʻoʻo kēlā wahine kēia wahine e hoʻokomo i ka manaʻo o ke kāne, a ināʻo ke kāne kēia o ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, a laila ua pāpālua ka huhū.

Pēlā nō, e hilinaʻi ana ka maikaʻi o ka wahine ma ka hopena o ka hopena. Inā koho ka wahine i kekahi hoaaloha no konaʻuhane, i maopopo iā ia kona ao i loko, a ināʻaʻoleʻo ia i kuhihewa i ka koho, a laila hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo palekana i kēia mau wāhine e lilo i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. I kēia hihia, pilikia paha ka pilina ma muli o ka hoʻololiʻana i kaʻano o kekahi o nā hoaaloha. Eia kekahi, hiki i ka wahine ke koho i kahi hoaaloha no ka hoʻohālikelikeʻana, e nānā pono i kona kūlana. ʻAʻole lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o kēia pilina. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua nui ka manaʻo o nā wāhine i ka hewa o ka hoaaloha, akā, pinepineʻole lākou e kamaʻilio pololei no ia mea, akā hoʻomaka e hoʻopaʻi me ka hoʻihoʻi, hoʻolaha i nā'ōleloʻino a hāʻawi i nā mea huna.

No ka hapanui o nā wāhine, ma hope o ka maleʻana, emiʻole ka manawa no nā kaikamāhine. Aʻoiaiʻaʻole i male ka wahine, ua paʻakikī iā ia e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka hopena, ka nāwaliwali o ka hoaaloha. No laila,ʻo ka mareʻana kekahi kumu'ē aʻe i nalowale ai ka pilina wahine. Aʻaʻole wale aku ka nalowale! Ua liloʻo ia i mea lili, no ka mea, heʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake kēlā wahine kēia wahine i kaʻohana, kāna kāne aloha a me kāna mau keiki. Ke hoʻololi aʻe nei he hikiʻole i kahi hoaaloha ke hāʻawi i ka manawa likeʻole i kekahi wahine'ē aʻe, a,ʻo ka mea hope loa e hoʻomaka ana e huhū. Hoʻomakaʻo ia e lili a hoʻopiʻi waleʻiaʻo ia e ka nīnau "No ke aha he kāne aloha kāna, akāʻaʻole wau? He ahaʻo ia ma mua o koʻu? ". A i kēia kūlana, e maikaʻi ia ināʻaʻoleʻo ia i lilo i wahine na kāna kāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mea maʻalahi loa kēia, i ka manawa e lilo ai ka hoaaloha maikaʻi i haku wahine na kāna kāne.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, heʻano likeʻole ko kēlā me kēia kanaka. A inā paha he mea aloha ka hoaaloha, ponoʻoe e mālama, no ka mea,ʻo nā mea a pau o ke ola e loli ana. Akā, mai makaʻuʻoe, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea mau loa. Hiki ke ho'ākākaʻia ka pilina ma keʻano he'ōlelo mai ka Haku a me Margarita: "Pono e hana kekahi mea, no ka mea,ʻaʻole e loaʻa kekahi mea e mau loa ana."

ʻAʻole no kaʻole, no ka'ōleloʻana o kānakaʻaʻole he aloha wahine. Malia paha, akā he manaʻo'ē nā kānaka no ka pilina, ua'ōlelo muaʻia kēia. A uaʻike aneiʻoe i kekahi wahine hoʻokahi paha, i ka waenakonu o ka pō, e hoʻolei kokeʻo ia i ke keiki maʻi a lele aku e pakele i kāna hoaaloha a ka mea i hoʻoleiʻia e ke kanaka hou? Pēlā nō ia! ʻOiai, heʻoiaʻiʻo, he mau kuʻokoʻa wale nō.

Aʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo kekahi wahine pīpī ma mua o kekahi. Inā ma keʻano o ka helehelena, a iʻole ka pilikanaka, a iʻole ma nāʻanoʻuhane wale nō. ʻAe,ʻo lākou a pau i ko lākou mau hewa, akā he aha keʻano o kona hoaaloha inā hiki iā ia ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka mea o ka lua o ka lehulehu? Aʻo kēlā mau hihia, ma ke ala, e ulu pinepine.

ʻAʻole nui ka paio i hanaʻia, no ka pili aloha ma waena o nā wāhine, hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi loa e ola nei. ʻAe,ʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake wau e manaʻo i ia. Pono wale nō eʻike i ke kanaka pono -ʻano,ʻoiaʻiʻo a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi. ʻO nā poʻe e noho nei, aʻo ka pilina me lākou,ʻaʻole loa e hoʻonāukiukiʻia e kaʻohana, ka hana, a me ka nani. Eia wale, he nui nā hapalua a ma waho o ka loiloi. Akā nō naʻe.