No kekahi kumu ke manaʻo nei mākou eʻoi aku ka maʻalahi a me ka maʻalahi o mākou, nā wāhine, ma mua o lākou. ʻAʻole mākou e hele "pepehi i ka momona", a laila huki iā ia i loko o kaʻohana,ʻaʻole pono mākou e ikaika a hanaʻino, a he nui nā wāhine e like me ia. "Malia paha ua pololei. Akā,ʻaʻole loa. Nui nā wāhine i kēia manawa e loaʻa kālā ma kahi pā me nā kāne, he nui ka poʻe i mālama,ʻaʻole he kūlana wahine. Hoʻoponopono ke kaiāulu i kona mau kānāwai no nā wāhine a me nā kāne.
ʻOiaiʻoiai he kaikamahine ia i ka hapanui o mākou, ua hoʻolako nā mākua i kēlā hiʻohiʻona o ka hana a ka wahine i ulu ai lāua, akā,ʻaʻole i kū malie ka manawa, nā mea a pau e neʻe ana i mua aʻaʻole e hiki i nā wahine a pau keʻae i ka wahine wahine a me ka kaliʻana i kāna kāne mai ka hana e hānai i ka meaʻono i kaʻaina awakea a kau iā ia i kahi moe. I kēia manawa ua makemake ka wahine i ka hoʻokiʻekiʻeʻana iā ia iho,ʻo ka wahine e ho'āʻo nei no ke kūʻokoʻa,ʻo ia hoʻi he wahine ma kēia ao,ʻo ia hoʻi, he kanaka kūʻokoʻa. Aʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha: mai nāʻaoʻao o nā makuka e nānā nei mākou i nā helehelena nani, nani, ma kaʻike polu eʻike ana hoʻi i ka holomua o nā wāhine i kā lākou pono i kaʻoihana, ua lilo i poʻe kaulana a mahalo nuiʻia. A i hoʻokahi manawa ma ke ola, akā ua nīnau mākou iā mākou iho i ka nīnau: "He aha ka mea iʻoi aʻe ka hewa iaʻu? ʻO wau kekahi wahine. Hiki iaʻu ke hana. "A hele mākou e hana me ko mākou mau poʻo, ke ho'āʻo nei mākou e holomua, e hōʻoia i nā hoa a puni mākou e pono iā mākou ke nānā aku, i hiki ai iā mākou ke hana maikaʻi a me kā mākou mau noi. Ma ka hana, hoʻopoina mākou i ko mākouʻano. Hoʻohuli pinepine kākou i nā mea hana hewaʻole e neʻe makaʻole i ko lākou pahuhopu. Akā makemakeʻoe e lilo i wahine ... makemake wau e mahaloʻiaʻoe e like me kēlā. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka hana a kahi wahine lanakila e hoʻopaneʻe i nā manawa kaʻawale. A,ʻoiai,ʻo ka loaʻaʻana o ka hoaʻoi akuʻoi aku ka ikaika ua paʻakikī loa. Aʻo mākou, nā wāhine, keʻimi nei. ʻO ka manawa pinepine mākou e hoʻokumu i nā manaʻo, a laila e hōʻeha mākou i nā kānaka a pau no ka meaʻaʻohe mea "e hoʻopiha i nā palena." Hana mākou,ʻike mākou. I kekahi manawa, hoʻomaka mākou e hana i nā hanana no mākou iho, a iʻole mākou eʻike iā lākou i loko o mākou iho no ka nele i kaʻike a me ka nele o kēlā'ūhā poʻohiwi i kahi kokoke i kekahi. A ma laila e hoʻomaka ai ... Eʻimi ana iāʻoe iho, ma hea, peheaʻaʻole, kumu, a pēlā aku. a pela like.
Akā, eia ka heleʻana mai o ka hauʻoli i mua o kona alo, a poina paha iā mākou nā manaʻoʻino, nā meaʻino a pau o mākou i nā kāne a pau, a lilo mākou i wahine manaʻo maoli, lilo mākou i wahine maoli. ʻOe, a iʻole mākou e ho'āʻo e hāʻawi aku iā ia ma keʻano he laikini hana. A laila makemake au i ka maluhia i kēia ao - kaʻohana. Aʻo kaʻoluʻolu i loko o kaʻohana, e like me kāu eʻike ai, e hilinaʻi loa i ka wahine. He manaʻo makuahine? ʻAʻole, he kūlana kūlana maikaʻi kēia -ʻo ka makuahine, akāʻaʻole mākou e hopohopo i ka liloʻana i mau makuahine,ʻoiai ke hopohopo nui nei nā kānaka i nā nīnau e pili ana i ke keiki ... Akā he hana ikaika a koʻikoʻi loa ka hoʻoholo no ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki. ʻAʻole wale nā kānaka e hana.
He mea kupanaha i ka wā e ulu ai nā mea āpau a ma hope o ka holomua o ka hana, hiki i ka wahine ke hele i loko o kaʻohana me ke poʻo, a hānau i nā keiki, a laila e hoʻi i kāna mau hana. Ua maikaʻi. Akā,ʻaʻohe o kā mākou kaiaulu e hoʻomanawanui i nā manaʻo ... A pinepine he wahine (a inā he'ōpiopioʻo ia me kahi keiki) he paʻakikī loa ka loaʻaʻana o kahiʻoihana maikaʻi. ʻO ka hoʻohālike? ʻAe. A he nui nā kānaka iʻike i kēia, akā,ʻaʻole loa e loli iki kēia mau'ōlelo hoʻohiki. A ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe mea i hoʻokahuli i nā hana a ka wahine i "hoʻokomo"ʻia e ko mākou mau mākua. Aʻo kahi wahine maoli i kēia ao e ola "ma nāʻaoʻaoʻelua."
No laila, ke hoʻoili nei mākou no kekahi wahi ma lalo o ka lā me ko mākou ikaika a pau e makemake mākou e hauʻoli a hāʻawi i ka hauʻoli i ko mākouʻohana a heʻano paʻakikī kēia ... Akā, e nīnau mai iaʻu inā makemake au e hānau i kahi kāne, e pane wau "ʻAʻole!" Wahine - he nani ia!
ʻOiai he wahine maoliʻo ia - no ka maʻalahi a paʻakikī -ʻo ia hoʻi he pua nani i kēia ola. A inā he kanaka maoli e pili ana i kēia pua,ʻaʻole ia he mea paʻakikī no ka wahine!