ʻO nā makana -ʻo kēia ka ala maʻamau o ka nānāʻana a me ke aloha. No kēia kumu, ma hope o kēlā me kēia makana, e like me ke kānāwai, ua hūnāʻia ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. No laila,ʻo ka loaʻaʻana o nā makana mai nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika -ʻo ka makemake maoli o ka lede,ʻaʻohe mea hōʻino, akā,ʻaʻole hiki i nā wāhine a pau ke haʻaheo i kēia. Loaʻa kekahi mau makana nui, aʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe a no ke kumu i makemake ai mākou e hoʻomaopopo i ka'ikekino kāne a hoʻomaopopo i keʻano o nā wāhine i makemake e hāʻawi i nā makana?
No laila, i ka hapa nui o nā hihia, hāʻawi nā kāne i nā makana i nā wāhine.
ʻO nā wahine a lākou e makemake nei e hoʻowalewale
ʻO wai ka wahine e hāʻawi i nā makana? - ka mea i aloha loa iā ia, aʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻoluʻolu iā ia. Eia ke kanaka a ho'āʻo i kēiaʻano e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ka wahine pono'ī. Inā makemakeʻole kahi kāne i ka wahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hāʻawi i ka haʻawina iā ia. Aʻo keʻano o ka hoʻopunipuniʻana me ke kōkua o nā makana e hoʻokumuʻia ana ma keʻano o nā kānaka e like me ka lanakila,ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻike ana i kēlāʻano pilina pili i ke kaikamahine i makemakeʻia. Ma ke ala, "hiamoe" a "hoʻopuni wale" wale nō - keʻano likeʻole keʻano o nā kaikamāhine me kekahi.
I kā lākou mau wāhine eʻoluʻolu ai iā lākou a hōʻike i nā manaʻo
ʻAʻole pono ka wahine e hāʻawi i ka makana i ka wahine'ē, akā, i ka manawa hou eʻoluʻolu i ka mea āna e hālāwai ai me kahi mea maʻamau. Ma keʻano maʻamau, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohālikelike i kekahi'ōnaehana hoihoi: ināʻike ke kanaka i ka wahineʻaʻole e like me ka moekolohe, akā nui aku (ʻikeʻiaʻo ia he wahine a me ka makuahine o kāna mau keiki), e hāʻawiʻiʻoʻo ia i nā makana a hoʻolohe. Akā, inā piliʻo ia me ka wahine i nā "kipa nani", maanei e pili ana i nā pili, aloha a, pēlā, no nā makana,ʻaʻole hiki ke nīnau. A he mea nuiʻole inā he kūpaʻa ka wahine i kēia kāne aʻaʻoleʻole, ināʻaʻole he kanaka i manaʻo i kahi mea koʻikoʻi,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻolimalima i ke kālā no nā makana a me nā pīhoihoi.
Nā wahine e makemake nei e pili kokoke iā lākou
Ināʻike ke kanaka i keʻano o ka nāwaliwali o ka wahine, e ho'āʻo anaʻo ia e hoʻopiʻi i nā mea a pau ma ke ala a me ka hana, e like me ka hāʻawiʻana i nā makana i ka wahine. Inā haʻalele ka wahine i kekahi kanaka aʻaʻoleʻo ia e ho'āʻo a mālama paha i ka mea i hanaʻole, a laila uaʻaeʻo ia me kāna hoʻoholoʻana aʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻike i ke kumu e hoʻomaka hou ai i nā mea a pau.
Nā wahine, i mua o lākou ua hewa
ʻAʻole makemake nā kānaka eʻike i ka hewa no lākou iho,ʻo ia ke kumu e ho'āʻo nei lākou i ka maʻalahi a me ka ulana "me ke kaula keʻokeʻo, iʻole e hiki i ka nahu ke hana." ʻO nā hua'ōlelo koʻikoʻi o kēiaʻano - "hopohopoʻole",ʻoiai,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole paha eʻike paha ke kanaka. A no laila, he kanaka, nā kumu, nā kāpena a me ka wahine kūpono (ʻaʻoleʻole). Ma ke ala, maʻaneʻi hiki iā mākou ke lawe pono i nā kāne ponoʻole, e loaʻa nā makana mai kahiʻoihana maikaʻi loa.
Nā wāhine iʻikeʻoleʻia e lākou
Maanei, ma ka mua, he mele male. No laila, uaʻike ka poʻe waiwai waiwai o ka wahine ikaika e like me ka hele houʻana i ko lākou nui a me ka mana a iʻole e holomua (e nānā i ka helu mua). Hiki ke hoʻokomoʻia maʻaneʻi ka makana makana mai kahi meaʻole e hana. Ma ke ala,ʻaʻole paha e hiki i kekahi ke hoʻolālā i kekahi kanaka no kēia hana, no ka mea, hiki wale nā mea a pau ma kahi o kāna hana.
Nā wahine aloha
ʻO nā wāhine hope loa e loaʻa mau ai nā makana mai nā kāne he mau wāhine maikaʻi. ʻO kēia mau wāhine pono'ī lākou e hoʻopuni i kekahi kanaka me nā makana, aʻo ia hoʻi ka mea e loaʻa ai iā lākou no kēia wahi a me ko lākou nānā. Eia ke kumu holoʻokoʻa,ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne i ke kūpono, akā,ʻo ka wahine, a no laila ho'āʻo mau i ka "hoʻihoʻi" ma o ka hāʻawiʻana i kā lākou pokii a iʻole meaʻike paha, no ka makana, a me kekahi mea'ē aʻe paha. Ke hana nei kēia pūnaewele, ma keʻano he rula, i nā kumuhana kūʻokoʻa a pau: "E hana i nā mea'ē aʻe e like me kou makemake e hana lākou iāʻoe." No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo palekana i ka loaʻaʻana o nā makana mai nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika aʻe i kēlā mau wāhine i kūponoʻole i ka nānāʻana o nā kāne, akā, e hoʻomau aku i kona hoihoi i kona kanaka haʻahaʻa. ʻO nā wāhine nei me kaʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka noʻonoʻo o ka lunamanaʻo, ua pono kā lākou makana!