Ma muli o ka hānauʻana he nui nā manaʻoʻiʻo, nā hōʻailona a me nā lono. ʻO ke kumu o kēia ma mua o kaʻikeʻiaʻana o nā pono o ka holomua o kaʻikeʻepekema a me ka technology i loko o ko kākou kaiaulu, uaʻauwana kekahi kanaka i ka pōʻeleʻele o ka makaʻu a me ka hilinaʻi. ʻAʻole mākou e pili ana i nā kumulāʻau Vedic i'ōpiopio loa no mākou, no ka mea, ua hala loa ke kanaka i kēia manawa ma mua o ka NTP. A e like me nā holoholona hihiu a me nā palapala aʻoʻole ma mua o ke keiki o kekahi mau lāhui kanaka nui. I kēia lā, e hoʻomālamalama ana mākou i kekahi o nā moʻolelo maʻamau e pili ana i ka hāpaiʻana a me ka hānauʻana. No laila, makemake nui o ka wahine: ka hāpai a me ka hānauʻana.
1. Ma hope o nā papaʻai, nā hana kūikawā kūikawā a me ka koho pono i ka lā hānau, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻolālā i ka wahine o ka pēpē e hiki mai ana. ʻAʻole pēlā. ʻO ka wahine o ka'ōpū he mea loiloiʻole ia. ʻO ka hopena i ka manaʻoʻana o kahi keiki o kekahi wahine me nāʻano hele āpau a me nā kilokilo, he hana lapuwale ia.
2.ʻO ka hānauʻana he mea weliweli ia i nā meaʻona, nā kuko, a me nā haʻalulu. ʻO kēia ka hopena i ka hakakā a hiki paha ke alakaʻi i ka haʻiʻana i ka pilina. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole, aʻole loa! ʻO kēia ka moʻomanaʻo maʻamau, i kākauʻia ma o ke kāne,ʻaʻole wahine, makaʻu. ʻAʻoheʻano weliweli weliweli o nā mea maʻamau o nā wāhine hāpai. Hiki iā ia ke hana ma kahiʻano nui wale i ka hapaʻumi o ka wahine hāpai, aʻo ka lōʻihi o ka maʻiʻawaʻawaʻaʻoleʻoi aku ma mua oʻelua hebedoma i ka malama mua o ka hāpaiʻana. Pono waleʻoe e hoʻolohe iāʻoe iho, e hoʻokaʻawale i nā mea "nā meaʻono" a me nā mea. E hoʻopuni iāʻoe iho me nā meaʻoluʻolu. A eʻai pono a inu paha i kekahi meaʻono mai ke kakahiaka,ʻaʻohe maikaʻi e haʻalele i kahi moe. ʻO kekahi laʻana, he'ōpona apalalepa. Hiki i ka manaʻo i nā wāhine hāpai ke lele ma muli o ka piʻiʻana o ka'ōnero. Akā,ʻo kēia mau mea nani wale nā mea alohaʻole, akā, nā mea nani. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i ka wā o ka hāpaiʻana, e noho malie ana ka wahine. Aia kekahi mau hanaʻepekema e hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopoʻia no ka hoʻouluhua nui o nā wāhine hāpai, e like me ke keiki e hoʻomaha i kona makuahine.
3. pono ka nele i ka hauʻoli,ʻoihana kino, i kēlā me kēia hihiaʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke pāʻani i nā haʻuki. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole e pono ke kau aku i nā'ahamele, no ka mea, he hana ka hoʻolālā i ka palena o nā mea i hiki i ke kino,ʻoiaiʻaʻole ia he hoʻolālā, akā, aʻo kaʻike kino. ʻO kēia ke kuhi hewa maʻamau a mākou e kamaʻilio ai no ka hoʻonaʻauao kinoʻana,ʻaʻoleʻo ka hoʻolālā. ʻO ka hoʻolālāʻana i nā wāhine hāpaiʻaʻole i ka'ākau waleʻia, akā ma keʻano - ke hōʻikeʻia. Eʻoluʻolu e hoʻokani i ke kakahiaka, nā pāʻani hoʻokaniʻole (ka pāʻani maʻakāmī, kaʻaeʻana i nā kahakai, ka polo polo), kaʻauʻauʻana, ka heleʻana.
4. 'Aʻole hiki ke nānā i ka mea hoʻoweliweli, e hānau ke keiki me ka huhū. Hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu i nā makuahine e kali:ʻo kaʻike o waho o ke keiki, e like me kāna wahine,ʻaʻole e hilinaʻi i nā manaʻo i loaʻa i loko o ka'ōpū o ka makuahine. Ua paʻa lākou, a me ka wahine a me nā hiʻohiʻona o kaʻikepili congenital, mai kahi hui pūʻia o nā gen. Akā,ʻo ka naʻau maikaʻi wale nō ka pōmaikaʻi, a me ka maikaʻiʻole -ʻino i ka olakino o ka makuahine. ʻO kēia nā kumu maʻalahi a me ka maopopo loa no ke kumu e pale aku ai ka wahine hāpai i ka nānāʻana i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, akā, e hele aku i ka hale kiʻi kiʻi a me ka opera.
5.ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe keʻoki i kou lauoho - ke hoʻopōkole i kou ola a me kāu keiki. Wahi a nā moʻolelo kahiko, aia i loko o ka lauoho e ikaika ai ka ikaika. E noʻonoʻo e nā makua aloha i ka wā e hiki mai ana: no ke aha lā eʻokiʻoki ai nā maka'āinana,ʻoiai he kanaka mua a he mua loa ia he koa? No kekahi kumu,ʻaʻole makaʻu nā kānaka e hōʻemi i ko lākou ola iʻole e loaʻa ai ka palekana a hoʻonele iā lākou iho i ka ikaika. Mai makaʻuʻoe e hōʻoki i ka lauoho kūponoʻole i ka wā o ka maleʻana,ʻo ia wale nō ka maikaʻi o ka lauoho,ʻaʻole e hala i nā manawa maikaʻi loa. A makemake mauʻoe i ka nani, i ka manawa ma hope koke o ka hānauʻana,ʻaʻoleʻoe e loaʻa i ka manawa. E nani. ʻO ia ka hopena maikaʻi o nā lauoho nani i lalo o nā kuli -ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa o ka wahine. ʻAʻole e hōʻole kekahi. Akā, pehea keʻano o ka lauoho a me ka lahilahi, a heʻokoʻa ke piʻi? Mai hoʻoweliweli iāʻoe iho me nā kānalua - ma lalo o ko lākou mauʻala. A me nā hana a pau. A hoʻohana i ka hana hou no ka lauoho. No ka makemakeʻana o ka pēpē e loaʻa i nā huaora, a ma heaʻo ia e loaʻa ai, ināʻaʻole ma kou kino? ʻAʻole pono kēia e poina.
6. He meaʻino ka wahine hāpai, e hoʻopōʻino ka'ōpū i ke kiʻi. He mea maʻaʻole ia. ʻAe, aʻaʻole hiki ke hana. Ua hiki i kāna kāne ke haʻalele iā ia me kāna keiki i hānauʻoleʻia. He'ōlelo wahaheʻe kēia! ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka moeʻuhane huna i ka moeʻana me ka wahine hāpai. ʻO kēia -ʻaʻole wale i ke kuko naʻaupō wale no ka ho'āʻoʻana i ka wahine. He mea makemakeʻole hoʻi kēia e mālama i ka makuahine o kāna mau keiki. ʻO ia, e like me kēia, ke hāʻawi nei i kona mana ma luna o kaʻohana, no laila keʻike nei i ka makua. E haʻaheo kēlā kanaka i kāna mau keiki a me kāna wahine i hānau i kāna mau keiki. E liloʻo ia i makuakāne hoʻopono o kaʻohana,ʻaʻole e pili i ka pōmaikaʻi a me nā kaumaha o nā keiki, no ka mea,ʻo kāna mau keiki lākou, kona "ʻiʻo a me ke koko." No nā leʻaleʻa o nā wāhine,ʻaʻohe moekolohe a me ka hoʻokae a ka wahine e hoʻopōʻino i ka'ōpū.