I kēia mau lāʻaʻole hiki i nā wāhine he nui keʻike i nā kāne no ka maleʻana. ʻO kā lākou mau lā a pau e paʻa ana i ka hana, i ka halaʻana o ka hopena i ko lākou mau mākua, i ke ahiahi lākou e kali nei no ka kamaʻilioʻana me kā lākou "hoaaloha maikaʻi loa" - he TV. A me kēia ola,ʻaʻole ia e maʻalahi eʻike me kahi kanaka e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka hopena. Ma kēia hihia, hikiʻole ke kōkua i ka Pūnaewele, koe naʻe me ke kōkua o kahi pūnaewele hopena, hiki i kahi wahine ke loaʻa kahi kanaka e hiki iāʻoe ke noho i ka pō. E like me kouʻike, ua hoʻopaʻa inoaʻia kēia mau pūnaewele, e nā kānaka i hōʻeuʻeuʻia e ka pilina o kaʻohana.
I kēia manawa, e kipa ana i nā ahiahi o ka hoʻomaha, ua hiki iā ia ke hana i nā hoa e mare ai. Ua hele mai kēia mau mea pili iā mākou mai ke Komohana mai a lanakila mākou i ka poʻe kaulana, hōʻoia wikiwiki lākou i ka pilikia nui, i kahi eʻike ai i kahi kanaka no ka noho lōʻihi. ʻO ka hapanui o nā kāne kāne i hele mai i kēia ahiahi, makemake lākou eʻike i ka hoa o ke ola. Eia ka pilina, a lilo pinepine i ke kūʻaiʻana i nā apo mare a hoʻolohe i ka heleʻana o Mendelssohn.
Noho nā kaiāulu hui ma kahiʻoluʻolu mālie a maʻalahi, aʻo nā mea a pau e hui ana e kamaʻilio me kekahi i kekahi. I loko o ka papahana o kēia poʻe, me ka hula'ē aʻe no nā meleʻoluʻolu a maikaʻi, aia nō nā pāʻani a me nā pāʻani, a keʻae nei lākou i kekahi kaikamahine uʻi eʻike i nā kānaka he nui i ka ahiahi. ʻO ka mea paha, aia ma waena o lākou aʻo ka mea āu e hele ai ma hope o ke ahiahi e makemake e hoʻomau i ka kamaʻilioʻana, āu e makemake ai. A hiki i ka lā āu i kipa ai i kēia pāʻina,ʻo ia ka lā mua ma kāu papalena hoʻohui.
ʻO ka pilina no ka maleʻana
Ināʻoe e manaʻo he maʻalahi loa kaʻikeʻana i kahi kanaka no ka maleʻana,ʻaʻoleʻoe i ho'āʻo e hana. Hiki i nā kāne ke hāmama i ka launaʻana me nā wāhine, akāʻo ka mare no ka hapanui o lākou he ho'āʻo ia i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa. ʻO kekahi hōʻailona o ka maleʻana a iʻole kahi pilina koʻikoʻi i nā helu 8 ma waena o ka 10 e alakaʻi i ka haʻihaʻiʻana o nā pilina pili. Ma nā kūlanakauhale nui eʻike i ke kanaka o kona moeʻuhane he mea paʻakikī ia. A no ke kanaka e hoʻoholo pono, ponoʻo ia e hoʻololi i konaʻaoʻao. No laila,ʻaneʻane hikiʻole ke hana i kēia ma ka hana, ma ka hale'aleʻa, ma ka cafe a ma ka pūnaewele paha.
Akā,ʻaʻole kēia he kumu e noho wale ai, e hoʻohālike i kou hikiʻole mai,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pono. Pono kahi kanaka e loaʻa i kahi o ia. ʻO ka hapanui o nā kāne he mau pilikia likeʻole,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio me nā wāhine no ko lākou lokomaikaʻi, no ka hauʻoli i ka hana, aʻai pū lākou i ka'ōpōpō wale.
ʻO ia nō ka meaʻike i ke kāne e makemake ana e male a me nā kāne pūʻole e holo ma ke kaʻahua. Hiki iā lākou ke hele mai eʻimi i ka pilina koʻikoʻi me nā wāhine.