He aha kāu e makemake ai i kahi kaikamahine i loko o ka pilina me ke kanaka

ʻAʻole i hānau kokeʻia nā pilina koʻikoʻi ma waena o nā wāhine. ʻO ka manawa he lōʻihi lōʻihi eʻike ai i kahi mea a lākou e makemake nei e hoʻopaʻa i ka wā lōʻihi, a me ka mau loa paha. I kēlā manawa hoʻokahi, no ka mea,ʻoiai, uaʻikeʻoe i kēia makemake i nā kaikamāhine, a me ka mea pono paha, ke hele mai nei ma mua o nā keiki. Aʻo nā mea a pau no ka uluʻana o kā mākou māmā, uaʻike mākou he mea paʻakikī kēia ma kēia ola. A, paha, he mea'ē aʻe paha kā mākou e makemake ai i ka mea a mākou e hālāwai ai. Ma kaʻatikala "He mea e pono ai ka wahine i ka pilina me ke kanaka" e ho'āʻo mākou eʻimi i loko o kā mākouʻikepili a hoʻomaopopo: no ke aha e kali ai nā kaikamāhine a pau no kēia mau pili like a me ka makemake koke i kahi keiki o kaʻohana e hiki mai ana?

No laila, he aha kā kahi kaikamahine e pono ai i loko o ka pilina me kekahi kanaka? He mea maʻalahi ka pane: inā ua oʻo ke kaikamahine, inā ua heleʻo ia me nā keikikāne a ua hoʻoholoʻo ia e koho i hoʻokahi kanaka, a laila uaʻikeʻo ia me kēia kanaka e like auaneʻi ia me ka paia pōhaku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono e mālamaʻia nā kaikamahine a pau, akāʻo wai lā e hiki ke hilinaʻi kūpono iā ia, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia ke kanaka punahele?

ʻO ka makemake e hana i kahiʻohana, a iʻole, ma ka liʻiliʻi, e ulu i ka pilina pilikino, e kau nuiʻia ma luna o ka manaʻo makuahine i loko o kēlā me kēia wahine. Uaʻikeʻoe i ke olaʻana o kekahi mau kaikamāhine i ka wanaʻao a hoʻomaka i nā pēpē, aia kekahi ma "nā kaikamāhine'ōpio",ʻaʻole naʻe no ka meaʻaʻohe mea e lawe iā lākou ma lalo o ko lākou mau kāne pono. ʻAʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēlā mau hihia inā ua kūkulu wikiwikiʻia kaʻohana no ka'ōpū o ke kaikamahine. Ke'ōlelo nei mākou e pili ana i kahi hana kūpono a me ka hana kūpono e hanaʻia me ka'ōʻole o ka makahiki. ʻO kahi wale nō o mākou e ulu nei ma mua, akā,ʻaʻole wikiwiki ka manaʻo o kēia makuahine i kekahi. Eia naʻe,ʻike kaʻike i ka maikaʻi a me ka mea e pono ai ka pilina pilina.

ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole i kūkalaʻia ka manaʻo i hōʻikeʻia ma luna nei. I kēia mau lā, he mea paʻakikī ka mea a pau. Maʻaneʻi, ko mākou mau mākua - ua noho lākou ma nā pūkuniahi'ē aʻe, ua nui ka hāpaiʻana o nā'ōpū i makemakeʻoleʻia, a ua kūpono ka mareʻana he mea kūponoʻole e paʻa a paʻa. I kēia manawa, i hoʻohuiʻia nā male ma muli o ka "makemake hoʻomaha" - a, e like me kouʻike, no ka manawa lōʻihi,ʻaʻole e noho ana kēlāʻohana. ʻAʻohe kumu kūponoʻole e lilo i mea hilinaʻi kūpono no kaʻohana.

He aha nā mea'ē aʻe e pono i ke kaikamahine e pono ai i ke kāne, koe wale no ka manaʻo palekana? Malia paha e pane iki aku mākou i kahi liʻiliʻi, akā, aia kekahi kumu no ia. ʻO ka kālā ka mea eʻono ai i nā kaikamāhine he nui,ʻo ia hoʻi ka poʻe i ulu aʻe ma nāʻohana hilahilaʻole. ʻO ka nele o ke kālā a me ka makemake e puka aku i waho o kahi keʻena liʻiliʻi āu i haʻi aku ai me kou mau kaikaina i kou ola a pau, i kekahi manawa eʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o nā manaʻo. A haʻalele nā ​​kaikamāhine i ka manaolana no ke aloha a me ka waiwai, makemake lākou e hoʻohana i ka hāʻina hauʻoli hina a koho wale i ka waiwai, me ke aloha ole.

Inā manaʻo kekahi kaikamahine he pono kāna kāne kāne,ʻaʻole ia he mea makemakeʻo ia e kūkulu i kaʻohana me ia a hānau i nā keiki. Malia paha heʻano vzbalmoshna iki ke kaikamahine a keʻoni wale nei i keʻano o ke kanaka? ʻAʻole i weheʻia kahi makemakeʻo ia e hoʻokō i kahi kaulana i kekahi mau'ōpili, a makemake e hoʻohana i ke kanaka pono no kēia. Hiki iā ia ke loli likeʻole, akā naʻe, ikaika loa. Ua maopopo iāʻoe ke kumu. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i ka loaʻaʻana o kā lākou pahuhopu,ʻaʻole pono ka wahine e hele pū me kēia kanaka - e pono anaʻo ia i kekahi mea'ē aʻe, no ka meaʻaʻole i hoʻokumuʻia nā manaʻo.

Akā naʻe,ʻo kahi mea i hoʻoikaika loaʻia e ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻohenehene a me ka hana kālepa. A, no ka meaʻo ia mau hihia e ulu pinepine i loko o ko kākou ola,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻoʻaʻole he mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi i ko kākou ao e waihoʻia, aʻo nā pili likeʻole, he wahaheʻe a he akamai.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono nā kaikamahine i loko o ka pilina me kahi keiki punahele, ma ka mea mua, ke aloha a me kaʻikeʻana, ke aloha a me ke aloha. Makemake au e hopohopoʻo ia iāʻoe a kāhea aku i kēlā me kēia hapalua hola -ʻoiai inā e huhūʻoe iāʻoe, akā, eʻano oluʻolu loa kēlāʻano i loko! Makemake au iā ia e uhi mālie iāʻoe me kahi pāpale i ka waenakonu o ka pō a honi iā ​​ia i loko o ka luakini, me ka manaʻo e hiamoe nui anaʻoe. Makemake wau iā ia e hoʻoholo i kou kūlana ma nā maka a hoʻomaopopo i kou mau makemake a pau.

Akā, aia nāʻanoʻokoʻa o nā kaikamāhine,ʻo keʻano'ē aʻe. E kāhea aku kākou i kēiaʻano hoʻonaʻauao "mother mother" i keʻano. No ke aha i "ka makuahine"? Ma muli o keʻano o kēlā kaikamahine i ka pilinaʻole e pono i kahi kanaka e lawe iā ia no kahi keiki liʻiliʻi, e hana i kona mau manaʻo a pau e heluhelu i nā maka. ʻAʻohe, nā mea a pau loa: pono iā ia ke mālama i kāna keiki (ma ke ala,ʻaʻole kēia heʻano loeaʻole). Pono pono ke kaikamahine e mālama i kekahi a aʻo. Nāna e hānai i ke kanaka, e hoʻonui i kāna mau meaʻai no ka meaʻai e hoʻomākaukau ai i kahiʻahaʻaina o ka'ōpū. I ke ahiahi e kauʻo ia i kahi hululu mahana mālie no kāna keiki. E hoʻopiliʻia ka mālamalama o ka papahele a me nā mea hana, a'ōlelo nā hoaaloha o kāna mau kāne: "E kuʻu Akua, he aha kāuʻoihana!" - aʻo kēlā mau'ōlelo e lawe mai iā ia i ka hauʻoli hikiʻole ke paneʻia. ʻO ka pilikia wale nō -ʻaʻole i nā kānaka a pau ke mahalo i kēiaʻano wāhine, he mea nui kahi wahine e pono ai. Aʻo ka "makuahine" ke koho maikaʻi loa no ka maleʻana, akā,ʻike maopopo lākou i ka manawa i hala.

Aia nā kaikamāhine vampire. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole kēia manaʻoʻaʻole ka wahine e inu pono i ke koko ... akā, eʻaiʻo ia i ka ikaika, he kāne kāne. No ka mea e like me kēlā kaikamahine,ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi ma mua o ke kauohaʻana i kekahi. A heʻelua mea maikaʻi loa inā he hōʻailona ia o ka wahine ikaika. Keʻimi neiʻo ia i kahi "rag", he kanaka aloha iā ia i nā pepeiao a ua mākaukau hoʻi no ia no nā mea a pau. Me ke kanaka me kaʻoluʻoluʻo ia -ʻaʻole makemake kahi kaikamahine vampire i ka pale me ke kumuʻole. Akāʻaʻole nā ​​kānaka a pau, no ka nāwaliwali o ia, eʻae i ke kaikamahine e hoʻowahāwahā iā ia iho. No laila, no kēia kumu, akā, mai ka papa inoa o "nā mea kūloheloheʻole".

A,ʻo keʻano, makemake nā kaikamahine a pau i kāna kāne kāne he kanaka maoli: ikaika, hiki iā ia ke hana i nā hoʻoholo nui,ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻinoʻole aiʻole e hōʻino. A no laila makemakeʻoe e loaʻa nā kaikamahine a pau i loko o kona ola he kanaka aloha a he kanaka maoli - no ka mea he mea maʻalahi kēia, akāʻo ka maikaʻi nui o ka wahine.