No laila, he aha kā kahi kaikamahine e pono ai i loko o ka pilina me kekahi kanaka? He mea maʻalahi ka pane: inā ua oʻo ke kaikamahine, inā ua heleʻo ia me nā keikikāne a ua hoʻoholoʻo ia e koho i hoʻokahi kanaka, a laila uaʻikeʻo ia me kēia kanaka e like auaneʻi ia me ka paia pōhaku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono e mālamaʻia nā kaikamahine a pau, akāʻo wai lā e hiki ke hilinaʻi kūpono iā ia, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia ke kanaka punahele?
ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole i kūkalaʻia ka manaʻo i hōʻikeʻia ma luna nei. I kēia mau lā, he mea paʻakikī ka mea a pau. Maʻaneʻi, ko mākou mau mākua - ua noho lākou ma nā pūkuniahi'ē aʻe, ua nui ka hāpaiʻana o nā'ōpū i makemakeʻoleʻia, a ua kūpono ka mareʻana he mea kūponoʻole e paʻa a paʻa. I kēia manawa, i hoʻohuiʻia nā male ma muli o ka "makemake hoʻomaha" - a, e like me kouʻike, no ka manawa lōʻihi,ʻaʻole e noho ana kēlāʻohana. ʻAʻohe kumu kūponoʻole e lilo i mea hilinaʻi kūpono no kaʻohana.
He aha nā mea'ē aʻe e pono i ke kaikamahine e pono ai i ke kāne, koe wale no ka manaʻo palekana? Malia paha e pane iki aku mākou i kahi liʻiliʻi, akā, aia kekahi kumu no ia. ʻO ka kālā ka mea eʻono ai i nā kaikamāhine he nui,ʻo ia hoʻi ka poʻe i ulu aʻe ma nāʻohana hilahilaʻole. ʻO ka nele o ke kālā a me ka makemake e puka aku i waho o kahi keʻena liʻiliʻi āu i haʻi aku ai me kou mau kaikaina i kou ola a pau, i kekahi manawa eʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o nā manaʻo. A haʻalele nā kaikamāhine i ka manaolana no ke aloha a me ka waiwai, makemake lākou e hoʻohana i ka hāʻina hauʻoli hina a koho wale i ka waiwai, me ke aloha ole.
Akā naʻe,ʻo kahi mea i hoʻoikaika loaʻia e ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻohenehene a me ka hana kālepa. A, no ka meaʻo ia mau hihia e ulu pinepine i loko o ko kākou ola,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻoʻaʻole he mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi i ko kākou ao e waihoʻia, aʻo nā pili likeʻole, he wahaheʻe a he akamai.
Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono nā kaikamahine i loko o ka pilina me kahi keiki punahele, ma ka mea mua, ke aloha a me kaʻikeʻana, ke aloha a me ke aloha. Makemake au e hopohopoʻo ia iāʻoe a kāhea aku i kēlā me kēia hapalua hola -ʻoiai inā e huhūʻoe iāʻoe, akā, eʻano oluʻolu loa kēlāʻano i loko! Makemake au iā ia e uhi mālie iāʻoe me kahi pāpale i ka waenakonu o ka pō a honi iā ia i loko o ka luakini, me ka manaʻo e hiamoe nui anaʻoe. Makemake wau iā ia e hoʻoholo i kou kūlana ma nā maka a hoʻomaopopo i kou mau makemake a pau.
Akā, aia nāʻanoʻokoʻa o nā kaikamāhine,ʻo keʻano'ē aʻe. E kāhea aku kākou i kēiaʻano hoʻonaʻauao "mother mother" i keʻano. No ke aha i "ka makuahine"? Ma muli o keʻano o kēlā kaikamahine i ka pilinaʻole e pono i kahi kanaka e lawe iā ia no kahi keiki liʻiliʻi, e hana i kona mau manaʻo a pau e heluhelu i nā maka. ʻAʻohe, nā mea a pau loa: pono iā ia ke mālama i kāna keiki (ma ke ala,ʻaʻole kēia heʻano loeaʻole). Pono pono ke kaikamahine e mālama i kekahi a aʻo. Nāna e hānai i ke kanaka, e hoʻonui i kāna mau meaʻai no ka meaʻai e hoʻomākaukau ai i kahiʻahaʻaina o ka'ōpū. I ke ahiahi e kauʻo ia i kahi hululu mahana mālie no kāna keiki. E hoʻopiliʻia ka mālamalama o ka papahele a me nā mea hana, a'ōlelo nā hoaaloha o kāna mau kāne: "E kuʻu Akua, he aha kāuʻoihana!" - aʻo kēlā mau'ōlelo e lawe mai iā ia i ka hauʻoli hikiʻole ke paneʻia. ʻO ka pilikia wale nō -ʻaʻole i nā kānaka a pau ke mahalo i kēiaʻano wāhine, he mea nui kahi wahine e pono ai. Aʻo ka "makuahine" ke koho maikaʻi loa no ka maleʻana, akā,ʻike maopopo lākou i ka manawa i hala.
Aia nā kaikamāhine vampire. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole kēia manaʻoʻaʻole ka wahine e inu pono i ke koko ... akā, eʻaiʻo ia i ka ikaika, he kāne kāne. No ka mea e like me kēlā kaikamahine,ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi ma mua o ke kauohaʻana i kekahi. A heʻelua mea maikaʻi loa inā he hōʻailona ia o ka wahine ikaika. Keʻimi neiʻo ia i kahi "rag", he kanaka aloha iā ia i nā pepeiao a ua mākaukau hoʻi no ia no nā mea a pau. Me ke kanaka me kaʻoluʻoluʻo ia -ʻaʻole makemake kahi kaikamahine vampire i ka pale me ke kumuʻole. Akāʻaʻole nā kānaka a pau, no ka nāwaliwali o ia, eʻae i ke kaikamahine e hoʻowahāwahā iā ia iho. No laila, no kēia kumu, akā, mai ka papa inoa o "nā mea kūloheloheʻole".
A,ʻo keʻano, makemake nā kaikamahine a pau i kāna kāne kāne he kanaka maoli: ikaika, hiki iā ia ke hana i nā hoʻoholo nui,ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻinoʻole aiʻole e hōʻino. A no laila makemakeʻoe e loaʻa nā kaikamahine a pau i loko o kona ola he kanaka aloha a he kanaka maoli - no ka mea he mea maʻalahi kēia, akāʻo ka maikaʻi nui o ka wahine.