ʻO ka noho kāne kāne kāne

I kēia lā,ʻaʻole maopopo i ke kumu o ka manaʻoʻole o kekahi mau wahine i ka wahine. Hoʻomaopopo nā kānakaʻepekema hou i ka manaʻo o ka wahine maleʻaʻole he maʻi. I kēia manawa, manaʻo nui ka poʻeohana o ka seneturi XIX,ʻo Sigmund Freud ka mea nui loa.
Nui nā manaʻo e wehewehe ana i keʻano o ka wahine wahine. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo ke aloha i nā wāhine i nā wāhine o ko lākou moekolohe, pili i ka hopena o nā hormones. Ke kuhikuhi nei kekahi poʻe noiʻi he pilina kūpono ma waena o ka pilikino a me ka pilina. Kūpono nā mea kūikawā i loko o ka psychoanalyysis ke kumu o ka wahine male e like paha i kaʻike ma ka'ōpiopio (e like paha me ka pilina nui o ke kaikamahine i ka makuahine), a me ka hopena maikaʻiʻole i loaʻa i ka hanaʻana me nā kāne. Eia naʻe, hiki i kēia mau mea a pau ma ka puʻuwai o ka wahine.
Ma ka wā'ōpio, he nui nā wāhine'ōpio e hoʻomaka i ka manaʻo i ka moe kolohe i ka wahine. Ma hope aku, ua lohi pinepine kēia mau manaʻo. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka manawa pinepine ka wahine e hoʻopiʻi iā lākou, ma muli o ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu.
ʻO ka manaʻo i loko o ka huiʻana o nā lebiansʻelua, kahi o lākou e hoʻokani nei i ka "kanaka" aʻo kekahi - "wahine" he hewa. He laulā kēia māhele o nā kuleana. Ua weheweheʻia ka pilina ma waena o nā poʻe Lebians ma kaʻikeʻana e hiki iā lākou ke lilo i ka mea maoli.
Hōʻike nā hopena o nā noiʻi hou ma nā'āina i hoʻolālāʻia,ʻo ka pilina ma waena o nā wāhine heʻoi aku ka lōna ma mua o ka manaʻo mua. Ma kahi o kēlā me kēiaʻelima wahine i ke 40 o nā makahiki a ma kahi o hoʻokahi manawa i loko o kona ola, ua pili ka pilina pili ola kino me nā kānaka. ʻO keʻano pinepine, komo nā wāhine i haʻalele i nā wāhine kāne make i ka pilina moekolohe. Eia kekahi, e like me kekahi mau hōʻike, manaʻo nā lebians i ka hoʻokipa aloha i nā manawa likeʻole o nā wāhine me nā kūnaho likeʻole. E like me ka hōʻikeʻana o nā hōʻikehelu, hoʻolālā mau ka wahine i ka hopena no 68% o nā lebians i hoʻokuʻi pū no nā makahikiʻelima me ka hoa noho hoa noho mau (ma hope o nā makahiki heʻelima o ka nohoʻana o ka wahine,ʻo ka moekoloheʻana me ka wahine ua pau i ka'olikoa he 40% wale nō o nā wāhine). ʻAʻoheʻike pono e pili ana i ka nui o nā wāhine he lepa. Ua manaʻoʻiaʻo nā lepaʻo "ʻoiaʻiʻo" he 1-3% o nā wāhine.
He kuhihewa hoʻi ka manaʻoʻana he pono ke kūlike ka wahine me kaʻoluʻoluʻole i ke kāne: ke helehelena, nāʻano, a pēlā aku. Akā,ʻaʻole nā ​​kāne kāne a pau e hana i kēiaʻano. Hiki i kekahi mau wāhine ke hana i kekahi ala i hikiʻole i nā poʻe a puni ke koho i kēia wahine he wahine moekolohe.
Ma kahi o ka wahine, he nui nā wāhine i komo i loko o kahi pilina pili me kekahi wahine. Eia naʻe, pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia,ʻaʻole ka mea pili i ka wahine i ka wahine.
ʻO ka manawa paʻakikī o ke ola o kahi wahine'ōpio (a me nā kāne) ke hele mai nei i kahi manawa eʻike aiʻo ia i kona moekolohe. I ka manawa pinepine i loko o kēia māhele, ua hoʻokomo kekahi wahine'ōpio i nā manaʻo paio a me ke kūpilikiʻi, ua hopohopoʻo ia a kaumaha. Eia nō naʻe, i kēia mau lā, he mauʻaina kuikahi a me nā hui wahine, kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe keʻimi mau i nā kānaka likeʻole a kūkākūkā me lākou i nā pilikia i loaʻa.
ʻO ka poʻe Lebians e komo i ka pili waleʻana me nā wāhine, akā,ʻaʻole ia heʻano muzhenenavistnitsami lāua. Eia naʻe, he nui ka poʻe lebians e hoʻomau i ka pilina me nā kāne. No laila,ʻoluʻolu ka manaʻo a nā lebia e inaina nei i nā kānaka.