He aha kā mākou e hana ai i ka wā e lawa ai ka nānā a iʻole ka nuiʻole? E like me kēlā me kēia kanaka akamai - hoʻohana mākou. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono pono ka pōmaikaʻi mai kēlā me kēia kūlana. Akā, i kekahi manawa, ma keʻano nui o nā hanana, hoʻopoina mākou i nā pilikia kūpono. E hālāwai wau me nā kāneʻelua, ma hea kahi e alakaʻi ai?
ʻO ka wiwoʻole a me ka hiamoe pilikiaʻaʻole lākou i pau i loko o lākou iho, akā hoʻokahi o nā ala no ka holomua. ʻO ka hui pūʻana me nā kānakaʻelua,ʻo ia kekahi o nā pilikia o ka naʻau, nā mea likeʻole e like me ka hoʻonaʻauao ma ke kula, kulanui, eʻike i nā mākua o ka mea i alohaʻia, e ninaninauʻana no ka hana. E nānā kākou i ke kumu, no ke aha i kū ai ke kūlana - "Ke hālāwai nei au meʻelua mau kānaka," pehea ka hopena o ka hopena ma kahi kokoke loa?
ʻO ka mea mua, e wehewehe: eʻimi neiʻoe i ka nui o nā kānaka e pono ai lākou iho aiʻole eʻauʻau wale nō no nā mea likeʻole? Hiki paha iāʻoe ke makemake i nā hopena,ʻaʻohe o lākou makemake nui, akā,ʻoi aku ke ola -ʻoi aku. Ināʻo ia, ināʻoe he mea kūʻai. He mau kamaliʻi nā meaʻimi e hana like me nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻiʻole i ka kuleana no kā lākou mau hana iā lākou iho, akā, makemake pū no hoʻi i nā manaʻo. Ma kēia kumu, hiki iāʻoe ke hui me nā kāneʻelua no ka mālamaʻana i kou manaʻo pono'ī, nā manaʻo hou a iʻole paha i kaʻakaʻaka, akā,ʻaʻole ia e lilo i mea maikaʻi. Ma kekahi manawa, e loaʻa kahi peak - a weheʻia kāu mau kāleka kī. Loaʻa paha i nā pilikia me kāu poʻe aloha, āu i lawe ai no mākou,ʻo nā mauna kuala a me nā weheweheʻana,ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa ka hana. ʻOe, pehea kāu makemake, i ka huiʻana me nā kāneʻelua,ʻo ia ka mea i alakaʻiʻia ai i ka hōʻinoʻia? Ma muli o ka nānā aʻike paha, maopopo iāʻoe he poʻe kānaka hauʻoli loa aʻaʻole paha he pōʻino, akā,ʻaʻole pono eʻike iā lākou. No laila, noʻoe, he mea pāʻani wale no ka leʻaleʻa, aiʻole he pāʻani o ke ola.
Akā, ināʻaʻoleʻoe he mea kūʻai, akā, e holo wale ana ma nā kūlana? He aha ka hopena o ka hālāwaiʻana meʻelua mau kānaka? E noʻonoʻo i kēia koho. Makemakeʻoe i ka nānā, akāʻaʻole makemake kahi kaikamahine i ka nānā. Maikaʻiʻoe i kahi kanaka a me nā mea a pau ua maikaʻi. Akā, eʻike ana kekahi naita koa'ē aʻe,ʻo ia ka mea e ho'āʻo nei e hoʻopuni i ka hale kākela o kou puʻuwai. Ke hoʻopunipuniʻia neiʻoe e nā kāne, no ka mea he hoihoiʻoe, me kaʻike maoli i ka pilina o ke kaiāulu - he meaʻoluʻolu ia i nā kaikamāhine a pau, no ka mea, hiki nō iā ia ke lilo i wahine a nani. I ka'ākau a me ka euphoria o nā hanana,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i ka hōʻea o ka pilikia. ʻAʻole paha kēia manaʻo ke hoʻoholo neiʻoe i ka hewa a me ka hoʻokae e koho i kahi kūpono e kū ai i nā kauāʻelua. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke koho i ka mea e hele ai, a me wai e noho ai, aʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻomaha. I kēlā me kēia hihia, e hoʻoholo wikiwikiʻia kēia hopena ma mua, ma mua o ka lōʻihiʻana o ka wā - a laila e noho i ka palu wāwae. E māmā aʻaʻoleʻoe e hana i kahi kūlana maikaʻi nou, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i kūpono ke kūlana, no ka huiʻana me nā kānakaʻeluaʻaʻole e alakaʻi i kekahi mea maikaʻi.
ʻO kekahi kumu no ka mea "Ke hui nei au meʻelua mau kānaka"ʻo ia ka mana o ka hui. Nīnauʻoe pehea? E wehewehe au. Inā paha he pilikinoʻoe i ka nui o nā hoaaloha,ʻo kēlā me kēia, nā hui. I kēlā me kēia hui, aia ma kahi o kahi kanaka'ōpio e hoʻokomo iāʻoe i ka manaʻo, he mea maikaʻi ke heleʻole kekahi i kahi pale. No laila, i loko o ka hui hoʻokahi, aia i ka mau hoaaloha o ka mea kōkua e'ōlelo mai: "No ke ahaʻoe e heleʻole ai eʻike iā Sasha, Kolya, a iʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe?". E noʻonoʻoʻoe, a no ke aha iʻole ai, a i kēia manawaʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻoi ka hopena o ia e alakaʻi ai. Kū like keʻano o ka hopena ma kekahi hui. ʻO nā pūʻulu me nā manaʻo likeʻole, a he mau mea likeʻole nā kānaka, ke laweʻia e nā mea likeʻole, he mau kūlana koʻikoʻi'ē aʻe. Makemakeʻoe,ʻoi aku ma mua o kāu pono. I kēia pō me Sasha mai ka hui mua e kamaʻilio ana e pili ana i nā kaʻa, hoʻolauna iāʻoe iho me he akamai o kaʻenehanaʻenekini. A no ke aha,ʻaʻole wale i kou manawa e ola ai e pili ana i nā pāpī. Me ka lāʻapōpō me Andrew mai kekahi hui'ē aʻe, e kūkākūkā ana i nā'ōnaehana hou loa o ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni o ke ao, e alakaʻi anaʻoe i kahi kamaʻilio pilina. A like like me kēia mau meaʻelua a heʻano maikaʻi lāua. Akā, ke hele mai nei ka manawa: e hālāwaiʻoe meʻelua mau kānaka, manaʻo ka manaʻo: he aha ka mea e alakaʻiʻia ai? Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, ināʻaʻole lākou iʻike i kekahi i kekahi,ʻaʻohe o lākouʻike a noho i nā wahi likeʻole o ke kūlanakauhale. Hiki iā ia ke'ōlelo aku e like me ka jackpot aʻoʻoe ka lanakila. A inā lākou e noʻonoʻo ma ka papahana hoʻokahi, aiʻole ma kahi kula hoʻokahi paha? A laila, pono e noʻonoʻo e pili ana: pehea e hana ai, no ka meaʻaʻole makemakeʻoe i nā pilikia i kekahi. Elua koho no ka hoʻoholo 'ana i ke kūlana. ʻO ka mua,ʻo ia ke hoʻomau i kaʻuhane hoʻokahi, eʻoliʻoli i nā kāne a pau, me ka maopopo e hoʻololiʻia ana, akā,ʻaʻole e hopohopo i kēlā mea. ʻO ka lua,ʻo ia ka hoʻoholo:ʻo nā mea a pau e pili ana iāʻoe, a makemakeʻoe e noho, no ka hopena, e wehe i kahi palekana, hiki iāʻoe keʻoluʻolu i ka nānā mai kekahiʻaoʻao. I kēlā manawa, hiki iāʻoe ke hauʻoli i kou hālāwaiʻana me nā kāneʻelua,ʻaʻole ia e alakaʻi i kekahi meaʻino.
ʻO kekahi koho'ē aʻe no ka hālāwaiʻana meʻelua mau kānaka he mea pono. E wehewehe wau, e hālāwai anaʻoe me ke kanaka, aʻaʻoleʻo ia e uku pono iāʻoe, ua maopopo nōʻoe keʻimi neiʻoe i ka hauʻoli i nā mea'ē aʻe. Makemakeʻoe e hoʻopiha i kēia hilahilaʻole, he kūlohelohe kēia,ʻo keʻano o nā kaikamahine, e hoʻopuniʻia e nā kānaka a me ka mahanahana. I kēia mau lā, hiki i nā hālāwai meʻelua ke alakaʻi i ke ola o kekahi kanaka kūponoʻole e hāʻawi aku kekahi i kekahi ma nā mea a pau, e noho kekahi i loko o ka pilikia, akāʻaʻoleʻoe. Akā, he koho'ē aʻe paha, e like me ka wā maʻamau, e like pahaʻoe me keʻano o ke kaikamahine palupalu,ʻaʻole i lawa kāna mea. ʻOʻoe ke koho!
E hoʻomanaʻo mau:ʻoiaiʻoiaiʻo ia keʻano o konaʻano, he kanaka pono e pilina kanaka iā ia iho. Hoi maiʻo Karma i kona wahi pono'ī, a ināʻaʻoleʻoe i hana pono, hoʻohana i nā keikiʻelua, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke lilo iʻelua o ko lāua wahi. ʻO ka pilina meʻelua mau mea e alakaʻi mau ai i kekahi mea, a na nā hopena o kēia e lawe mai iāʻoe i ka hauʻoli wale nō.