ʻO ka māmā o ka piliʻohana

ʻAʻole kēia he pilikia hou kēia pilikia, akā,ʻo ia hoʻi, heʻelemakule kēia. Akā, i ko mākou manawa,ʻaʻole ia e manaʻoʻia he pilikia,ʻaʻole lākou e kākau nui, kamaʻilio nui,ʻaʻole kūkā a hoʻopaʻi paha. He aha kaʻu e kamaʻilio nei? ʻAʻohe aʻu hana, ke'ōlelo nei au? No kahi wahine a he kaikamahine paha i'ōleloʻoleʻia e koʻu makuahine i kona wā'ōpiopio: "E ke kaikamahine, ke noi aku nei au iāʻoe, mai launa pū me nā kāne i mareʻia, a me nā mea keiki,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke kūkulu i kou hauʻoli i kahi pōʻino o kekahi!"


Aʻo kēia mau kaikamāhine e maʻalahi i kaʻike me nā kāne kāne, aʻo ka mea nui loa,ʻaʻole ia heʻano no konaʻano,ʻo ia wale nō ke aloha i kona mau maka, aʻo ka mea maoliʻaʻoleʻo ia e hopohopo iā ia, no ka mea, uaʻikeʻo ia i kekahiʻano politika: "ʻAʻole ka pā wahine he pā, hiki iāʻoe ke neʻe, a me nā keiki pehea? ʻAʻohe mea, he keikiʻo ia, he naʻaupō, hoʻokiʻekiʻe, hao wale, naʻaupō. A ke hoʻohana nei nā kānaka i kēia mea, ke haʻi haʻahaʻa nei lākou no ke aloha o kahi kaikamahine'ōpio iā ia, a ua ulu nā kānaka ma kēia mau'āpana'ōpio no ka manawa lōʻihi. ʻAʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā "mau mea", ka mea pinepine i loko o kaʻohana, a ua lōʻihi nā makahiki o kā lākou mau keiki.

Me he mea la he mea maʻalahi kēia. ʻO nā kāne'ōpio wale nō ke hōʻike i ke aloha ma ka mareʻana, a i ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai ke ola, e like me nā manawa a pau,ʻaʻole makemake kekahi i kekahi mea, aʻo ka meaʻoi loa loa,ʻaʻole hiki i kahi kāne ke noho i lalo a kūkākūkā i ka pilikia. Manaʻo a manaʻo paha kēlā me kēia o lāua, e ho'āʻo e haʻalele i ka pilikia a me ka manawa e hōʻike - wale nō.

Eia ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka hoʻiʻana i ka home -ʻaʻohe mea e kali ana,ʻaʻohe hauʻoli, hoʻomaka lākou eʻike i ka pilina, aʻo nā kāne keʻano nāwaliwali loa,ʻaʻole lākou makemake eʻike i ka pilina, e halihali i ke kuleana. No laila, i ka wā iʻike aiʻo ia me kekahi kaikamahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e noʻonoʻo. ʻO ka mea mua,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i noʻonoʻo i ka uku pānaʻi no kāna wahine wahine kūpono - ua pilikiaʻo ia, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i noʻonoʻo - hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha i kekahiʻano'ē aʻe, ma kekahi hui'ē aʻe, a laila ua ho'ōkiʻo ia e hoʻi mai i ka home aʻaʻoleʻo ia e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia iho.

No ka mea, uaʻikeʻo Wife i nā mea a pau loa, a uaʻikeʻia nā kānaka maikaʻi - akā, ua likeʻo ia me he mea lā ua makaukau ia no ka mea, ua waiwaiʻo ia, he wahine i hoʻokuʻuʻia,ʻo kekahi manawa uaʻoi aku kona waiwai ma mua o kāna kāne, a ua hoʻoluʻolu iā ia, ke keiki a me No ka manawa lōʻihi e hiki ai i ka hānauʻana ... Akā,ʻo ka wahine haʻalele i ka manaʻo e hiki ke kaumaha nui loa, no ka mea,ʻo ia kekahi i aloha. Ma ka hohonu o konaʻuhane, inainaʻo ia i kāna mea hoʻohilahila, makemakeʻo ia iā ia i nā meaʻino loa, ke makemake neiʻo ia i kekahi lā e hiki mai kēia razluchnitsa ma kona wahi, a pēlā aku. Aʻo kēia mau mea a pau i loko o ke ola e hana pinepine ia, akā,ʻaʻole e kaohi ke holomua me nā kāne male, no ke aha?

He mea aloha i kēia puni ke keiki wale nō. He meaʻoiaʻiʻo kēia kāne me ka wahine,ʻoiai i noho mau lāua a hiki i ke kālā a me ke gula paha, ua noho malihini lāua. Aʻo nā keiki wale nō e puʻunaue iā lākou, no ka liloʻana o kēlā me kēia wahine i makuahine a he makua kāne i ke keiki, a liloʻo ia i koko no lāua. I kēia manawa keʻike nui nei kēia keiki, makemakeʻo ia e noho me kona makuahine a me kona makuakāne, alohaʻo ia iā lāua aʻelua, akāʻaʻohe mea i nīnau iā ia. A he mea maikaʻi, inā ua lawa nā mākua i kaʻikeʻole e puʻunaue i ke keiki,ʻaʻole e nānā i ke kūlana, akā,ʻoiai, ua hiki i nā keiki i ko mākou mau makahiki ke'ōleloʻia he "ʻoi aʻe", i kekahi manawaʻaʻole lākou e wehewehe i kekahi mea, maopopo lākou i nā mea a pau, e aloha aku i ko lākou mau mākua i keʻano like, a me ka ho'āʻo like pū e kamaʻilio me nā meaʻelua. Hāʻawi ka pope i ke keiki i konaʻohana hou, inā wau e'ōlelo pēlā.

ʻO ka hapanui pinepine i loko o ka luna hoʻopaʻa inoa,ʻaʻole e wikiwiki nā kāne, aʻaʻole paha. Hāʻawi kēia kaikamahine i ka inoa ma kaʻoi aku o kahi wahine kīwila, ma nā meaʻino - cohabitants, aʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻoi aku ka nani - "wahine wahine"! ʻO wai ka mea i loaʻa i nā mea a pau? Makemake au eʻike i ka pane o kēia nīnau mai kēlā me kēia haumāna o kēia pae'āina, a iʻole ka triangle. Hiki iā mākou ke waiho wale i ke keiki,ʻo ia ka mea paʻakikī o nā mea a pau, pono iā ia e hoʻololi, pane i nā nīnau paneleʻa a kona makuahine, ma hope o ka heleʻana mai o ka pope.

Akā,ʻaʻole wau e manaʻoʻiʻo i kēia kaikamahine-razluchnitsu, inā e'ōleloʻo ia ua maikaʻiʻo ia. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hana i kekahi mea maikaʻi,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike i ka mea maikaʻi a me ka meaʻino, inā mai kona hoʻomaka muaʻana no ka hanaʻino - e uhaki i kaʻohana o kekahi. Ua olaʻo ia, a ua hala ka manawa no ka leʻaleʻa, a ke ola neiʻo ia i kēia manawa me kēia kāne, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻae, ināʻaʻole maikaʻi nā mea a pau. Aʻo ke kanaka i noho pū me ia, i ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai lākou e hakakā,ʻo ia paha, akā, e hoʻowahāwahā wale akuʻo ia iā ia: "Ua uhakiʻoe i koʻuʻohana!" No ka mea, i loko o kona manaʻo,ʻo kēiaʻohana mua e noho mau nei ʻo ka manaʻo i loko ona e mālama mauʻia ana e ke keiki āna i aloha ai.

E nā kaikamāhine, e hoʻi kāua i nā manawa o nā kupuna wahine a me nā kupunawahine, i ka wā hikiʻole i ka hana. I ka wā i hoʻowahāwahā ai kēlā mau wāhine i konaʻohana pono'ī, i ka wā i piʻi aʻe ai i ka hopenaʻaʻole iʻaeʻia e hana pēlā! Ma hea i hele ai? Inā hāʻawi ke Akua iāʻoe i kaikamahine, mai hoʻopoinaʻoe e haʻi aku iā iaʻaʻole ona pilina me nā kāne male, uaʻikeʻoe i kēia mai kāuʻike iho, akāʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopaʻaʻia.

Eʻoliʻoli i kāu mau kaikamāhine, e aloha, aʻaʻohe mea e hele ai e hahai iā lākou e haʻi aku i ka meaʻino,ʻino a me kaʻino! E mālama i ke aloha!