ʻAe, inā makemake wau e haʻalele, e haʻalele wau. Akā, naʻu wale nō e hana.
Akā, ināʻae loa kaʻaha kanaka i nā meaʻona puhi, a laila, e hōʻinoʻia nā kaikamāhine me ka'atika ma ko lākou mau lima. ʻO ke kaikamahine,ʻo ke kaikamahine a me ka wahine,ʻo ka mea mua loa, eʻike me ka makuahine, ka mea e hānau i ke keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻOiai, he nui nā'ōhumu o ka lehulehu e ulu mai nei i kēia hananaʻano maoli. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke inaina i kekahi kanaka e hilinaʻi ana i kāna huhū aʻaʻole paha. I ka hapanui o nā hihia,ʻaʻole ka mea nāna e hoʻohilahila i ka wahine. Akā,ʻo ka wahine hāpai me kahi mea puhi puhihiʻona a iʻole kekahi kīʻaha waiʻona e nānā he mea weliweli loa a maikaʻiʻole. Hoʻopilikia i ka paka a me ka waiʻona i ka hopena o ke keiki. Inā hopohopoʻole ka makuahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana i kāna keiki, he aha kāna e'ōlelo ai no nā mea'ē aʻe?
ʻOiai he wā i nānāʻia ai ke kaikamahine a me ka meaʻono e nānā a nani loa. Ināʻole,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻohuiʻia kekahi mau hewa i ka puhi pua, e like me kaʻona, ka waiʻona a lāʻau lāʻau paha.
Mahalo nei au i ka hana a nā kāne i nā kaikamāhine puhi puhi? Uaʻikeʻiaʻaʻole iʻike nā kānaka a pau i ke kaikamahine puhi pume. Wahi a kekahi poʻe,ʻaʻole i huhū nā kaikamahine'ē aʻe a pau, aʻaʻole hoʻiʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu i ka puhi kuhi hewa i mua o kona hoaaloha. ʻO ka wahine maoli he maʻemaʻe, a mai loko mai ona i kaʻala o kahi kahe, ke gel a me ka meaʻala,ʻoiai inā e puhiʻo ia ma ka papahele o ka pā i kēlā lā i kēia lā.
Ke manaʻo nei nā poʻe'ē aʻe e puhi ana nā kaikamāhine hilahilaʻole,ʻaʻole lākou e hopohopo e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana, akā e ola wale ana i kēia manawa. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe mea kūpono i kaʻaha kūkā e'āhihi aiʻoleʻaʻole e puhi. I ka hopena, ua koho nā kaikamahine a pau i ka mea e hana ai. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi kaikamahine ke nānā aku i ke kīʻokoʻa a me ka maikaʻiʻole i ka mīkini aiʻole ka wāwae kao. Ma hope o keʻano, makemake nō hoʻi ka wahine e hoʻonani. No laila, ua hoʻomaka nā kaikamahine i kēia manawa e komo i ka puhiʻana i nā cigare kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe me ka meaʻala maikaʻi. He maikaʻi kēia mau cigaka, e like me ka'ōlelo Pelekānia, ka mea i inu iki ma kahi liʻiliʻi a me keʻano.
ʻAʻole e like me nā kāne, he nui nā kaikamāhine uʻumeʻa i ke kohoʻana i nā kaʻa mele. I kekahi manawa i loko o nā puka waho, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi loa o ka cigakeke a nā wāhine. ʻO kahi wahine e puhi i nā kaʻa a me nā cigare,ʻo ia me ka cigakeke. I kēia mau lā, hiki iāʻoe ke hui aku i nā kaikamāhine a me kahi paipu, kahi e kākau pololei aiʻo ia i ka paka mai Amsterdam. 'Aʻohe like me nā kamaliʻi, e noʻonoʻo nui ana nā kaikamāhine i kaʻono a me kaʻala o ka cigakeke.
Aia kekahiʻaoʻao'ē aʻe o kēia kaʻina. Ke nānā aku neiʻo Guys i nā kaikamāhine puhiʻokoʻaʻole, a hiki i ka liloʻana o kekahi o lākou i wahine na lākou. E like me ka'ōlelo a kānaka,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻoholo kekahi i ka hana a nā kaikamāhine. ʻAʻole pono nā kaikamāhine e hana i kekahi mea i kekahi, akāʻaʻole makemake lākou eʻike i kā lākou kaikamahine e hanahihi. Makemake nā keiki e hoʻonā i ka kino wahine,ʻaʻole ka puhi ahi, ināʻo ia kaʻaʻa momona i ka honua. Wahi a kēia mau kāne, mai ka wahine puhi kīʻaha e hoʻopuka i kaʻuhane o ka hoʻopakeleʻana, ka mea hoʻoweliweli iā lākou. Akā, eʻike lākou i kahi kaikamahine i ka puhiʻia e like me kā lākou hoaaloha,ʻaʻole he aloha. Me kahi kaikamahine e puhi nei i ke kaikamahine, makemakeʻoe e inu i ka pahu pia a hele i ka'ahamele.
I kēia manawa, ho'āʻo nā kānaka e alakaʻi i kahi noho ola pono, eʻai pono, e pāʻani i nā haʻuki āpauʻole i ka waiʻona a iʻole ke kaʻa pākeke. ʻAʻole lākou e puhi,ʻaʻole lākou iʻala i ka paka. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo iā lākou iho a me nā mea'ē aʻe e noi mai ana mai kā lākou mau hoaaloha. Wahi a lākou,ʻo nā lunamoku o kahi kaikamahine hānai e like me ke kiʻi kaulana loa mai ka leka hoʻomaopopo e pili ana i ka hopena o ka puhiʻana, a mai kēia manaʻo ua lilo ia i meaʻoluʻolu loa iā lākou. No laila, ua koʻikoʻi lākou i nā kaikamahine puhi kīʻaha. Keʻike nei nā kaikamāhine i ka huhū, manaʻo lākou i kēlā mau kaikamāhine maʻi i nā maʻi kino. A hoʻopiʻi lākou i ko lākou mau lemele i ka manawa pono'ī. He mea paʻakikī loa ke hoʻololi i ka manaʻo o ia poʻe,ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻoia i ke kaikamahine e hoʻomālamalama wale no "no ka hui" a iʻole e makemake nui i nā kaʻa kuʻikuʻi kūikawā me ka manaʻo menthol.
Hoʻokumu ke kaikamahine i ka mea uʻi i kona aloha no ka puhi 'ana me kaʻoluʻolu. I ko lākou manaʻo, nā kānaka e manaʻo nei i kahi lede me kaʻakaʻaka nui loa a maikaʻi. Eia kekahi, he kaikamahine hou, me ka nānāʻole i ka huhū aʻaʻole paha, he kanaka ia. ʻO kāna hana pono'ī kēia - e puhi aʻaʻole paha e puhi. Ināʻaʻohe makemake nā kāne i nā kaikamāhine uʻumeʻa, e hoʻololi iā lākou i nā poʻe pume pua. I kēia manawa, ua ulu ka mau kumuhana o ke kaulike ma nā mea kaiaulu a pau i ka hui. Hiki paha ke hōhewa i ke kaikamahine uhuki i kēlā manawa? !!
I kēia mau lā, i nā haleʻai, nā hale hoʻokipa a me nā wahi lehulehu e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hālāwai pinepine me nā kaikamāhine kunihihi. Hoʻoholoʻia kēlā mau kaikamāhine no ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu. Akā ināʻoe e nānā a puni, e nānā i nā nūpepa nani a nānā i nā pākeke TV, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i ka ulu nui o nā kaikamāhine i ka puhiʻana. ʻO ka wahineʻulaʻula ka hua o ka hoʻolaha hou i kēia manawa, a me ka hopena o ka makemake o nā kaikamahine'ōpio. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu ke hoʻololi iki nei. Auhea, ua lilo i mea lohi i ka uahi. ʻO nā kamaliʻi holoʻokoʻa wahine a pau, aʻo nā poʻe mea pāʻaniʻole i lilo i keʻano keʻokeʻo. ʻAʻole lākou e hōʻoluʻolu i waena o nā kaikōhine puhi. Ma waena o nā'ōpio, ua hoʻolahaʻia nā manaʻo e hoʻoikaika pono i ka puhi puana e hoʻomaha, e manaʻo i ka kuʻokoa, a pēlā aku.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, nā kānaka e hana i nā kaikamahineʻulaʻula ma nāʻano likeʻole. Akā, inā makemake ke kanaka i ke kaikamahine, ponoʻo ia ma ka pahu e puhi i kāna hoaaloha aʻaʻoleʻole. No ka mea, ināʻaʻole i pili ke aloha o kāna wahine iā ia, hiki iā ia ke haʻalele i ka hana kīʻaha inā manaʻoʻo ia he hanaʻino ka hoʻonuiʻana i ko lākou mau pilina.