He mea paʻakikī nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao e hoʻokolokolo i ka wahine maʻamau, a he nui nā mea e nīnau iā lākou iho pehea e pale ai iā lākou iho i nā hopena o ka moe kolohe.
Akā,ʻaʻole kekahi o mākou i hoʻomaopopo i ka moekolohe ponoʻole e pono ai ke kino. ʻOiai,ʻo ia kekahi e pilikia, akāʻaʻole kēia he weliweli, e like me ka laʻana, e loaʻa i kekahi maʻi kolohe, aʻoi aʻe paha i ka maʻi.
Inā manaʻoʻoe e hiki iāʻoe ke pale iāʻoe iho i kahi moe kolohe me ka condom a pill paha mai ka hapaiʻana - ua kuhihewaʻoe. No kaʻikeʻana i nā hopena, e hilinaʻi iā mākou, a eʻike nuiʻoe iāʻoe iho.
No laila, e hoʻomaka paha mākou. Eiaʻo ia -ʻo ke kaikamahine o kou mau moe, ua hālāwaiʻoe me ia,ʻikeʻole kekahi i kekahi, aʻo ka lā aʻe e kono ai i ka nani i loko o ka cafe, e hoʻokipa i kou hoa. Ua hoʻopau kokeʻia ke aloha ahiahi, a ua hoʻoholoʻoe eʻoliʻoli kekahi i kekahi ma ka hokele. Ma ke ala, e hiki ke kapaʻia kēia mau pilikino me ka moekolohe, no ka mea uaʻikeʻoleʻoe i kou hoa (hoa), a ke mākaukau neiʻoe e moe me ia. ʻAe, i ka halaʻana o kēlā poʻe'ōpio,ʻo ka mea a kekahi e'ōlelo ai, akā e hana pinepine kēia.
Ma ka moekolohe maʻamau, e lapuwale paha inā e noi kokeʻoe i kāu hoa e pili iā ia inā he condom kona a inā he hoa wahine paha ka hoʻololiʻana i ka wahine. He naʻaupō ia, a laila, he mea nuiʻole no ke kaikamahine e komo. Akā, e like me ka mea a pau, eʻikeʻoe inā paha e hiki ke kapaʻia ka moekolohe palekana e like me ka moe kolohe, keʻikeʻoleʻoe i ke kanaka.
ʻO ka wahine pono ke aloha, a he mea nui kēia - e like me ka nui o nā manaʻo. Akā, he aha ka mea e hana ai i ka poʻe iʻikeʻole i ko lākou aloha, a makemakeʻole i ka nui o ka wahine? ʻO kēia ka poʻe hele i ka moekolohe me ka poʻeʻikeʻole. ʻAʻole maikaʻi kēia, e like me kā mākou i'ōlelo ai.
Nui nā hihia kahi e hoʻopilikia ai ka wahine i kāna "mea maʻi" i nā ola a pau, a me ke olakino. He maikaʻi anei? Ma hope o kou moeʻana ma kahi moe me ka malihini,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kona olakino ma ka moekolohe. A no ka nīnauʻana e pili ana i kāna mau hoa mua a pili i kona paleʻana, he hilahilaʻoe. Ma hope koke iho e loaʻa iāʻoe iho.
He aha ka hana a kēlā poʻe i hana i kēia "hewa"? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he nui ka manawa maʻamau i ka manawa i hakakā ai nā kānaka aloha a me ka hoa / hoahana i kāna mea aloha e hoʻopaʻi. A ua hoʻopaʻiʻo ia ma ka hoʻololiʻana i ka maʻi a me ka laweʻana i kaʻohana. ʻO ka hopena, ua hoʻokaʻawaleʻia kaʻohana, ua'ōwili loa ke hoa i kona olakino, a inā i loko o kaʻohana he keiki mai ke kinohi mai,ʻo ia hoʻi, ua kaumaha loaʻo ia.
No ka paleʻana i kēia,ʻoiai inā makemakeʻoe e loaʻa ka moe ma kaʻaoʻao, e hoʻomalu mauʻiaʻoe! ʻO kēia ka māhele koʻikoʻi a me kaʻoihana no kahi ala maikaʻi e pale aku ai i ka loaʻaʻana o nā maʻi i laweʻia e ke kino.
Ma hope o ka moekolohe, a ma mua ona, e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i nā genital me ka hamo a me ka wai. E like me kāuʻike, ua pepehiʻo alkali i nā mea'ōpona a pau ma mua o nā mea'ē aʻe, a no laila, ua manaʻoʻiaʻo ia ke ala maikaʻi loa e hana aku ai iā lākou. Ināʻoe no kekahi kumu i loaʻaʻole ka manawa kūpono ma mua o ka moekoloheʻana a ma hope o ka holoiʻana, e hoʻohana i nā kāpena bactericidal moisturizing. ʻO lākou, ma ka liʻiliʻi, e lawe aku i nā mea a pau.
ʻO ka hele mau pinepineʻana i ke kaukahonua a me nā mea urologist he mea pono nō hoʻi, a me ka mālamaʻana i ka niho. No laila, ke paipai nei mākou iāʻoe e loaʻa i kekahi manawa i ka noʻonoʻo maʻamau, kahi e hoʻopakele ai iāʻoe mai nā maʻi he nui, aʻo nā kaukahonua e hāʻawi i nā'ōlelo aʻo maikaʻi he nui no ka paleʻana.
E aloha iāʻoe iho a mālama i kāu olakino, iʻole e hikiʻole iāʻoe ke mālama i kou pono noʻoe. E hoʻomau mau i kaʻauʻau, pale iāʻoe iho, a, ma ke 'ano nui, hoʻopoina i nā wā a pau e pili ana i ka moe kolohe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai. ʻO ka maikaʻi ka maikaʻi a me ka lōʻihi o ka moekolohe ma mua o ka moe kolohe mau, a ma hope aku, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻolilo iāʻoe he meaʻole. No laila, no ka paleʻana iāʻoe iho, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei, ponoʻoe e'ōpio.
Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i keʻano o ke kamaliʻi, ua aʻoʻia mākouʻaʻole mākou eʻaʻahu i nāʻaʻahu'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole e komo i nā kāmaʻa o haʻi, a inā makemakeʻoe e hana i kēia, noi i kaʻae mai nā mākua mai. No laila, mai hele wale i kahi moe me kahi kanaka āu iʻikeʻole ai, no ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike, akā inā peheaʻo ia he lāʻauʻaia lāʻau lāʻau? Nui wale nā poʻe e hoʻohilahila i ka'ōleloʻana i kēia, a me kaʻaeʻana. No ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe, ua mākaukau lākou e hele i nā mea nui, inā he maikaʻi ka hoa, a ua māʻona. ʻOi, ka mea e hana i ka hoa ma hope o ka wahine,ʻaʻohe i pili i kekahi.
Ma muli o ka pilina piliʻana i nā keiki pēpē, nā meaʻehaʻole, a me nā keiki hoʻi i hānau i ka maʻi HIV. ʻEhia mau keiki i kēia lā? Nui. A he mea maikaʻi kēia no ka lōʻihi o keʻano? Ma kekahiʻano,ʻaʻole hiki ke kapaʻia kēia. No laila, ke nonoi ikaika nei mākou iāʻoe e lawe mau i nā condom i loko o kāu pēke, no kekahi mea, a ua lawa kā mākou fuse ma ko mākou'āina. ʻAe,ʻoiaʻiʻo, aʻo nā kumukūʻai paha, hiki keʻai. Akā i kahi āu e heleʻole ai no ka ola kino! Makemake kākou a pau e lilo i mea ikaika, nani, olakino. Iʻole e maʻi,ʻai mākou i ka ascorbic i ke kakahiaka, e hoʻoikaika i ka palekana me nā paila, nāʻaila, nā hiʻona a me nā moʻo. Akā,ʻaʻole lawa kēia,ʻae, pono pahaʻoe e ola maikaʻi, akā, ponoʻoe e ola i ka pilina.
I ka'ōpiopioʻana o nā kānaka,ʻaʻole lākou i manaʻo he hoʻokahi olakino no ko ke ao holoʻokoʻa,ʻo ia hoʻi, e hiki koke iā lākou ke hana i kaʻohana a hānau i nā keiki. ʻO ka manawa wale nō ia e manaʻo ai nā kānaka. No ka mea, i kēia manawa, makemake wau e'ōlelo aku he mea kū hoʻokahi kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka ma konaʻano pono'ī a he kanaka nō kona mauʻano pono'ī, akā no konaʻano, keʻano o kona nohona a me kona kūlana waiwai, e pono iā kākou a pau ke mālama i kona ola kino me nā'ōpio. He aha kāu e'ōlelo nei!