Pehea e ulu ai kou pilina me lākou e hilinaʻi nui i ka hiki iāʻoe ke noho i ka maluhia me kou makuahōnōwai wahine. Akā pehea'ē aʻe? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hāʻawiʻo ia i ka ikaika nui e ulu ai, e kau mai, e kau i nā wāwae o kāu kāne, a me kāna keiki. He makuahine ia. ʻO ka aloha o ka makuahine he meaʻole. I kekahi manawa mai i nā kaikamāhine e hiki iāʻoe ke lohe e piliʻole ana i ka makuahōnōwai wahine i ka pilina, i ka hoʻopuniʻana o ko makuahōnōwai wahine, e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻokomo i kou manaʻo a me kāu mau lula. ʻOiai, heʻokoʻa ka makuahōnōwai wahine: ke ahonui a me keʻano koʻikoʻi, naʻauao, naʻaupō, hoʻolimalima a hoʻomahaʻole, nā mea hou a me nā wāhine wāhine hou. Akā, no ka mea, pono lākou a pau i ka mahalo a me ka lokomaikaʻi, ka nānā a me ka lokomaikaʻi. Pehea e ola ai me ka makuahōnōwai wahine, a i kēia lā e kamaʻilio mākou.
ʻO ka mea mua, e wehewehe i keʻano o kou makuahōnōwai.
Hoʻomaopopo nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao i nāʻano makuahineʻehiku.
- Ka wahine a ke kāne. Heʻano makuahine kēia i hoʻoholo i loko o kahiʻohana aloha, kahi e noho ai kāna kāne i ka ukanaʻohana a mālama, mālama i nā mea a pau, a hahaiʻo ia iā ia, e like me "ma hope o ka pā pōhaku." He mea maʻalahi ke noho maluhia me ka makuahōnōwai. ʻO ka mea koʻikoʻi,ʻaʻole ia e hōʻole i ke kōkua a nā mākua o kāna kāne, akā,ʻaʻole hoʻi eʻoi aku i nā pilikia a pau ma luna o lākou. No ka hāʻawi manawaʻana i nā mākua o kāna kāne,ʻaʻole wale i ka manaʻo nui i kou ola, akā, i kekahi manawa hoʻi e haʻaheo i ka hopena o ke keiki a me ka hūnōna wahine -ʻo ia ka mea huna o ka noho maluhia me ko lākou makuahōnōwai ma ia mauʻohana.
- ʻO ka mōneka Star, ka luna. ʻO kēia makuahōnōwai wahine, kāna kāne - i kālaiʻia. ʻO ia ke poʻo o kaʻohana,ʻo kāna mea ikaika nui,ʻo ia he "hale" nona. ʻO ka nohoʻana me kona makuahōnōwai wahine ma ka hale hoʻokahi i kēia hihia e lilo i mea pilikia no ka ikaika o kaʻohana. I loko o ia mau makuahine, nā keiki,ʻo ka hapanui o nā "keiki a ka makuahine," akā he hōʻohewa iā lākou - ua loli i ka nalowale o ko lākou makuahōnōwai wahine.
- I kēlā manawa hoʻokahi kekahi makuahōnōwai wahine. ʻO ka makuahonowaiwahine,ʻo ia hoʻi ka makuahōnōwai i ka manawa like, e mihi noʻoe a aloha iāʻoe, no ka mea, uaʻikeʻo ia i ka pilikia o ka piliʻana o kāna kaikamahine me kaʻohana o kāna kāne. He mea maʻalahi kēia kanaka a hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi. ʻAʻole ia e hoʻopili i kāu mau mea pili i kaʻohana. He wahine hoʻohui wahine kāna ma mua o kahiʻano makuahine. Hoʻopakele i ka honua me kou makuahōnōwai wahine e kōkua i ka pilina me ke kaikoʻeke (ke kaikuahine o kāna kāne), i kēia manawa ua hoʻokūpaʻaʻia ka launa.
- ʻO ka makuahine hoʻokahi. ʻO ke keikikāne keʻano o kona ola, aʻo ia wale nō i lawe mai iā ia. He makuahine a makua. ʻO ka makuahōnōwai wahine nui keʻano lili, kahi e hōʻike ai i nā hakakā mau a me ka hakakā pū me ka hūnōna wahine. E noho maluhia me kou makuahōnōwai, ponoʻoe ke ahonui a kaohi. E aʻo iā ia ma kahi liʻiliʻi, e nīnau i kona manaʻo. ʻAʻohe pono e hōʻino i kāu kāne a mai hakakā pū me ia me kona makuahōnōwai wahine - hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoneʻe i kaʻenemi.
- ʻO ka mea i hōʻeha. Mālama mauʻo ia i nā mea a pau. ʻOiaiʻo ke keiki ua hala i ka makahikiʻelima, ua ponoʻo ia e pili ana iā ia, e like me ke pēpē uila. Ua pilikiaʻo ia i nā pilikia o ke ola. Akā,ʻaʻohe mea, i kona manaʻo, e hiki iā ia keʻaʻa aku iā lākou, no laila e hukiʻoe i nā mea a pau ma luna ou. ʻO ke ahonui, ke ahonui, a me ke akamai ke kīʻia i ka mālamaʻana i ka maluhia me kou makuahōnōwai.
- ʻO Despot. Inā hōʻona a maʻalahi ka makuahonowai wahine o ka mea hoʻopiʻi, ka mea mālama i nā mea a pau i loko o kaʻohana, a maʻalahiʻole aʻaeʻole i kahi e holo i kahi pono'ī,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pōmaikaʻi. E pale aku i kahi makuahōnōwai o kahi mamao aku, akāʻo kēia wale nō ka mea e kōkua iāʻoe eʻole e kau i luna o ke kīpili,ʻoiaiʻaʻole heʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole e hoʻokō ka makuahōnōwai wahine i nā hana kolohe.
- ʻO ka wahine pāʻoihana. Ua lakiʻoe, kānalua! ʻO ke kula ka manaʻo o kona ola,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i kaʻohana. ʻAʻoleʻo ia eʻike i ka lepo ma luna o nā pāpaku a me ka pahu hauhā nele. ʻO ia ma luna o nā mea koʻikoʻi. Ua lawaʻo ia i kāna mau pilikia. Akā ināʻoe e hana ma kahi o ka'āpana, e mālamaʻia ka idyll. E haʻaheoʻoe i kou makuahōnōwai wahine, e like me kāna hūnōna wahine!
ʻO kekahi mau'ōlelo kōkua likeʻole
Ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kēlā me kēia hihia,ʻoiai nā mea a kou makuahōnōwai e hoʻololi ai,ʻaʻoleʻo kouʻenemi. ʻOiai, ua alohaʻoe i kāna keiki - kāna waiwai,ʻo ia hoʻi ka hua o kona ola,ʻo ia ka mea waiwai loa. E mahalo i ka mea nāna e hāʻawi mai i kahi waiwai nui iāʻoe. Ua hōʻoiaʻoe i kou hoa e like me ia, me nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā pōʻinoʻole. E lawe i loko o kou ola a me ka mea i alohaʻole iā ia i ka liʻiliʻi, me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kona mau hewa. E hoʻomaopopo i kahi mea -ʻaʻoleʻo kouʻenemi.
I kekahi manawa, hiki iāʻoe ke lohe e pili ana i ka makemakeʻole o nā kaikamāhine'ōpio e kāhea i ka makuahōnōwai wahine. ʻO ka makehewa, no ka mea, ke hahai nei mākou i hoʻokahi pahuhopu, e noho maluhia me ko mākou makuahōnōwai wahine. ʻO ka mea mua, he hōʻailona i nā kuʻuna, aʻo ka lua, inā lohe kekahi wahine i kēia'ōlelo kilokilo, ua ho'āla kokeʻo ia i nā manaʻo o kona makuahine no ka mea nāna i'ōlelo iā lākou, ka makemake e pale a palekana. Mai hoʻonele iāʻoe iho i kēia kī gula i kona puʻuwai! "ʻO ke keiki bipi hoʻopono a nā kuhina wahineʻelua," he mea ia e hōʻike ai i ka naʻauao o nā kānaka. Aʻo ka mea nui loa, mai poina i ka hiki kokeʻana iāʻoe e lilo i makuahonowai. Aʻo ka makuahōnōwai wahineʻaʻole ia he maʻalahi ma mua o ka hūnōna wahine. He mea maʻalahi ka haoʻana i nā pili, akā, e mālama, e hoʻokō i ka wahi, e hoʻokumu i ka pilina - a nui ka hana. Inā hoʻoholoʻoe e lilo i hoaaloha o kona makuahine, e ho'āʻo e hana iki i kēia.
- E ho'āʻo eʻimi i kahi 'ōlelo maʻamau me ia, e' ōlelo hou.
- Mai hōʻinoʻoe a mai hoʻopiʻi no kāu kāne, mai laweʻoe iā ia i mua o kona mau mākua.
- Mai hoʻohālike i kou makuahōnōai me kou makuahine,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou keʻano hoʻokahi, he poʻe likeʻole lākou.
- E hāʻawi i nā makana a ka makuahōnōwai wahine aʻike i kaʻaeʻana i nā makana me ka mahalo mai iā ia.
- E hoʻolohe i ka'ōlelo aʻo a kou makuahōnōwai wahine, mai makaʻuʻoe e nīnau, noi aku e aʻo - eʻoluʻolu ia nona.
- E noho kaʻawale, akā,ʻaʻole e kaupalena i kāu kāne a me kāu mau keiki ma ke kamaʻilioʻana me kou makuahōnōwai.
- E hōʻike i kona mau pono, e hōʻike maikaʻi i ka hoihoi a me ka mahalo.
No ka mea e hopohopoʻole aiʻoe: "Pehea e noho maluhia ai me kou makuahōnōwai wahine?" - e hoʻomanawanui a hoʻomanaʻo, e hoʻomanaʻo i kekahi manawaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e lawe i kahi wā waho ma mua o ka hōʻoiaʻana i kāu hihia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo kēlā me kēiaʻoiaʻiʻoʻeluaʻaoʻao.