Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo nā moʻolelo aloha e pili ana iā Napoleon Bonaparte a me Josephine Beauharnais, iʻoi aʻe ma mua o ko lāua mō'ī wahine a me kāna wahine no 7 makahiki,ʻo Diana de Poitiers a me Henry II, he 20 makahiki ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana ma waena o lāua. Hiki keʻikeʻia he mau hiapo hōkū ma waena o nā hoku Hollywood -ʻo Demi Moore aʻo Ashton Kutcher,ʻo Antonio Banderas a me kāna wahineʻo Melanie Griffith, a hui pinepine mau nā hua Lūkila i nā waiwai me nā wāhine nui aʻaʻole nui.
Eia naʻe, me kēiaʻano, maʻamau i nā wāhine iʻoi aʻe ma mua o kā lāua i waeʻia. Eia kekahi, nui nā wāhineʻaʻole eʻaʻa e hoʻomaka i ka pilina me nā kāne, ke'ōpiopio i ka wā. Nui nā kumu o kēia - hopohopo i ka makani a huhūʻole o ke kanaka, a laila eʻona anaʻo ia, a hele aku i kahi'ē aʻe, i hāʻawiʻia e nā hui kaiaulu, nā kaikamāhine e'ōleloʻole e hoʻonele i ka ikaika ma ka "'ōmaʻomaʻo'ōpio" a pēlā aku.
Ma ka pono, pono eʻike i ka nui o nā kānaka e hopohopo nei i nā wāhine kahiko. ʻAʻoleʻike i ke ala e hoʻokokoke aku ai iā lākou, pehea e hoʻohuli ai i ka manaʻo o ko lākou mau manaʻo kuko. Ma kēiaʻatikala, e ho'āʻo mākou e kōkua i ka poʻe i hoʻoweliweliʻia e nā manaʻo no nā kaikamāhine kahiko, a pane i ka nīnau - pehea e makemake ai i kahi kaikamahine iʻoi aku ma mua oʻoe?
ʻO ka pale o ka kamaʻilioʻana ma waena o nā kānaka, hiki ke maʻalahi wale i ke kōkua o kahi haʻuki maikaʻi a me ka pilina pilina. ʻO nā wāhine, e like me kouʻike, aloha pepeiao. No laila, e mālama i kekahi mau anecdotes hou (ʻaʻole wale nō i nā mea lapuwale), a ma keʻano nui e ho'āʻo e lilo i mea e kamaʻilio maikaʻi ai. I ka manaʻo nui,ʻaʻoheʻokoʻa ke kaikamahine ma mua o nā wāhine'ē aʻe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke hoʻoneleʻia i ka hoʻohālikeʻana i kāu mau hoa,ʻoi aku ke koʻikoʻi a me ke kuleana,ʻoi aku kaʻike, e like me ka moeʻana, a, e like me keʻano iʻikeʻia e nā kāne,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka kamaʻilioʻana. ʻO ka hope, ma ke ala, he manawa nui loa ka kohoʻana i ka hoa o ke ola. ʻO kēia mau kaikamāhine e hoʻokūpono i ke ola a maopopo maopopo i kā lākou makemake. Eia naʻe,ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hoʻopiliʻana, a ponoʻoe eʻike i ke kiʻi o nā manaʻo o kou manaʻo.
No laila, peheaʻoe e makemake ai i kahi kaikamahine iʻoi aku ma mua ou? ʻO ka mea maʻamau,ʻo nā wāhine ke aloha i nā kāne kūpono - ma keʻano maikaʻi loa o ka hua'ōlelo. E ho'āʻo eʻoluʻolu i ka hana, e hoʻonele i ka'ōpiopio'ōpio (ʻoiai he mau kaikamahine e like me kēia keʻano nui), e hōʻoia i ke kaikamahine no ka hohonu o kou mau manaʻo iā ia a he wahi kūikawā nō ia i kou puʻuwai. E hoʻomanaʻo,ʻo kēlā wahine kēia wahine, me ka nānāʻole i kona mau makahiki, he mau moe no ke kūlana a me ke kūlana. ʻAʻohe kūkākūkā e pili ana i nā kaikamāhine'ē aʻe: ua poina nuiʻoe iā lākou, aʻaʻole hoʻi e kūpono i kahi kaumānelani e pīhoihoi e pili ana i kā lākouʻoihana maikaʻi. E noʻonoʻo pono i ka'ōlelo e pili ana i ka hana, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mauʻoihanaʻoihana, nā manaʻo, nā hopena - pono e hoʻomaopopo ke kaikamahine i mua onaʻaʻole he kaikamahine'ōpiopio ma laila, akā he kanaka'ōpio'ōpiopioʻoe e hilinaʻi ai. Eia naʻe, mai hele i kahi lōʻihi me nā laudatory odes i kāu pane - 'E hiki ke hoʻopiʻi houʻia nā "Ponite" ma mua o ka'āpana. E nānā aku i kou helehelena - pono ke nānā a maikaʻi. Eʻoliʻoli i kahi meaʻala maikaʻi o nā kāne - he wahine avid nā wāhine no nā meaʻoluʻolu maikaʻi loa. Ma kahi hua'ōlelo, e nānāʻoe e makemakeʻoe e hoʻopā. Ma ke kūkākūkāʻana, mai poinaʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi i ka nānā hou aku i ka hoa, e makemake i kona ola, nā makemake, nā hoʻolālā, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. Ma ke ala, ua kokoke loa ka hoʻokipa maʻamau. Inā makemake kāu kaikamahine i ka hula, hiki iāʻoe ke kākau inoa i kahi hula, no laila e loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa kūpono eʻike iā ia a kamaʻilio pinepine aku.
A laila - e kamaʻilio wale me ia e pili ana i kahi a ia e hana ai i loko o kou ola, e like me kou hoʻomaopopoʻana ... Ma hope wale nō e hoʻopuehu waleʻia kou mau manaʻo no ka manawa lōʻihi. Inā hoʻomaka koke kāu kaikamahine e kamaʻilio, e kali a hoʻolohe. E haʻi iā ia e pili ana i kou aloha a hāʻawi aku e hālāwai. Aʻo ka mea koʻikoʻi, mai hoʻopau wale iāʻoe iho. ʻO 2-3 mau makahikiʻaʻole heʻokoʻa ma nā mea a pau, ma muli o ka nuiʻole o nā makahiki. E noho mālie, akā,ʻaʻohe hopena, mai kūmākena, e kūpaʻa. E paʻa me ka hanohano, eʻikeʻo ia he kanaka akamaiʻoe a me ka nānā aku!
ʻO ka mea hope loa,ʻo kēlā wahine kēia wahine he makuahine, a he pono iā ia ke maopopo he mea kōkua maoli kāna i ka ola! Mai ho'āʻo e like me ka macho maʻamau! E nohoʻoe! Ke nīnauʻo ia: "He aha kāu e hana nei?", Mai pane i ka "meaʻole". 'Ōlelo i nā manawa a pau e hana neiʻoe me kekahi mea. ʻO kēia ka mea e hoʻonui iāʻoe i kona mau maka. E pale i nā manaʻo: "Pehea e hāʻawi ai iaʻu i kāu helu?". E ho'āʻo ma kahi o ka hoʻohanaʻana i kekahi mea like: "makemake wau e kamaʻilio hou iāʻoe, hiki anei?". ʻO nā hana kūpono e hāʻawi mau i nā hualoaʻa maikaʻi aʻe, no ka mea, ua palena ka hiki ke pane aku iāʻoe me ka hōʻoleʻana, no ka mea, e kani ana ka'ōpiopio. E hoʻolohe mau a nānā i nā mea a pau i makemake i kāu kaikamahine. ʻO kēlā aʻoʻana e haʻi iāʻoe kahi kumu e koho ai i ka wā e ho'āʻo ai e hoʻomaka i kahi kūkākūkāʻana me kekahi lālā o ka hapalua nani o nā lāhui āu e makemake nei. He lono maʻamau kēia i mea e holomua aiʻoe, ponoʻoe e hoʻokokoke aku i kahi wahine i ka manawa eʻike aiʻoe iā ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i ka manawa e ulu ai kāu mau loea kamaʻilio, hiki ke maʻalahiʻoe i nāʻano kūikawā no ka piliʻana me ka improvisation. Akā,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka neʻeʻana me ka mālie,ʻaʻole e hoʻoweliweli a pale i ka mea o kou makemake.
Inā maikaʻi nā mea a pau, a loaʻa iāʻoe ka pānaʻi likeʻole, mai poina e pili ana i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi o ka nānā - ke kuʻiʻana o nā hau hau i ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka punawai, nā makana, a me ka manaʻo nui.
ʻO nā pilina me kekahi wahine makuaʻoi aʻe ko lākou mau pono: me ia e ulu nui a lilo iʻoi aku iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, a ma ka physiologically i ka wahine he kiʻekiʻe nui o ka hana maʻamau i loko o nā makahiki he 30, no ka mea, ua hoʻomaka nā kāne ma kēia mau makahiki i ka emiʻana o ka wahine. Eia kekahi, e like me nāʻikepili, lōʻihi nā wāhine, no laila e loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa e make pū ai i ka lā hoʻokahi.