Ke hiki nei paha ka pilina kūpono inā paha?

ʻO ke kumumanaʻo holoʻokoʻa,ʻaʻole i loaʻa kahi pilina maikaʻi. ʻOiaiʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo he nui nā manaʻo no ka manaʻo o "ka pilina maikaʻi",ʻaʻohe manaʻo kūkākūkā ma kēia hopena.

Ināʻoe e nānā i nā wā i hala, no nā makahiki he 40-50, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i ka kokokeʻana o nā kāne male a pau e ola. ʻAʻole kokoke i ka hemoʻana o ka male, aʻo ka liʻuliʻu e hiki ke'ōleloʻia kēlā mau pilina he maikaʻi. I kēia mau lā, ua loli keʻano. Ua piʻi ka nui o ka hemoʻana, kokoke i kēlā me kēiaʻelua aʻekolu paha mau paʻi. A no ka hoʻomaopopoʻana o kekahi i kekahi,ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻolohe, pehea e maopopo ai i ka hapalua o kāu.

Nui nā kaikamāhine e makemake e haʻaheo a kūʻokoʻa. Makemake lākou e hōʻike i ko lākouʻano, aʻaʻole loa e makemake e hāʻawi i kekahi mea i nā kānaka. Ma keʻano he kūlana, noho wale kēia mau kaikamahine no ka manawa lōʻihi, a laila nīnau lākou iā lākou iho i hiki paha i ka pilina maikaʻi i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo i kaʻikeʻana i ka pilina maikaʻi i kēia manawa,ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻonui wale i ko lākou hewa.

ʻOiai i ko mākou manawa hiki iāʻoe keʻike i ka nui o nā kāne e noho like lōʻihi a me ka hauʻoli. He nani a nani loa. Nui nā poʻe e hoʻomaka nei e hilahila i kēlā mau pilina o ko lākou mau hoaaloha. Akāʻo ka manaʻo mua e hoʻopunipuni. ʻO nā lā lōʻihi e koho ai i ka maikaʻi. ʻIke wale mākou i ka iwi o kēia mau pilina. Eia ka heleʻana o lāua i loko o ka pā, ua hauʻoli lākou, ua hoʻomālamalamaʻia ko lāua mau maka me ka maka aniani, ma laila hele lākou e kūʻai like, a hele pū lāua i kahi cafe. Akāʻaʻole mākouʻike i ka mea i loko,ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke nānā i loko o kēia pū nani. ʻO ka pūpū i loko ka pilina pilikino o ke kāne a me ka wahine i ka wā hoʻokahi. ʻAʻoleʻo lākou a pau i keʻokeʻo, a nani, e like me ka manaʻo o nā kānaka. He mau paio hoʻi, kaʻikeʻole, hōʻino, hoʻomahaʻole me kekahi mau hana o ka hapalua. Ma keʻano he kūlana, kū kēia mau mea a pau i ko lākou honuaʻuʻuku iho, a no kekahi poʻeʻaʻole hiki keʻikeʻia.

Hiki ke kapaʻia ia mau hana he pololei. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e hōʻike i kou mau pilikia ma luna o nā kānaka. Pono e hoʻonāʻia nā pilikia a me nā kuhihewaʻana i kahi'ōpili liʻiliʻi. Uaʻoi aku ka ikaika o ia mau pilina, e like me nā mea kahi e makemake ai ka wahine e hakakā aʻike i nā pilina me nā keiki, nā pilina, nā hoa noho a ma ke alanui paha.

Ua hiki i kēia manawa ke hiki i ka pilina maikaʻi e noho i ko mākou manawa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki. Manaʻo nā kānaka a pau e pili ana kā lākou pilina. I mea e noho ai kahi pilina kūpono, pono e aloha lākou. Ke alohaʻoe i ke kanaka, hiki iāʻoe ke kala mau iā ia i nā mea hewa loa. I kahi e loaʻa ai ka alohaʻoiaʻiʻo, aia ka manaʻo likeʻole, ke kākoʻo, a me ka pilina. Inā lanakila kēia mau meaʻekolu i loko o ka pilina, a laila, e emi mai nā hakakā a me nā'ōlelo hōʻino.

Inā makemakeʻoe i kahi pilina kūpono,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hakakā no nā meaʻino. Ponoʻoe e loaʻa i kahi manawa kūpono a hoʻololi i nā kuʻikahi. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe makemake i kekahi mea aʻaʻole makemake paha i kahi mea i loko o kekahi kanaka, hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio mālie i kēia mea.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he loiloi kahi pilina kūlohelohe. Ua poina nā kānaka i ka mahaloʻana i kekahi i kekahi. He nui ka poʻe i hoʻomaopopoʻole i ke aloha a me pehea e aloha ai. Hoʻokiʻekiʻe kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka ma luna o kekahi. Manaʻo lākou he pololei kona mau manaʻo a makemake. Akā,ʻaʻole pēlā. Hiki i nā pilina i kēia manawa, i kēia ao. Hiki i ka wā e aʻo ai kekahi kanaka e hāʻawi i kona hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli me kekahi kanaka'ē aʻe. E aʻo e hōʻihi i ko lākou makemake wale nō, akā, i nā pono hoʻi o ko lākou mau hapa. Heʻano likeʻole nā ​​mea e like me nā mea a pau, no laila, he mea nui e hōʻike i ka hoihoi i nā makemake o ka mea i alohaʻia. ʻO kēia ka mea nui ma kahi pilina maikaʻi loa.