Pehea e hana ai i ka makua, i ka wā e lili ke keikikāne i ke kaikaina a me ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne? He aha kaʻu e'ōlelo ai, he aha kaʻu e hana ai e hoʻopau i kēia manaʻo kūponoʻole a me ke aloha a me ke aloha e hoʻopiha i ka hānau mua?
Manaʻo wau e ponoʻoe e hoʻomaka ma mua o kou laweʻana mai i kahi pūʻiki liʻiliʻi mai ka haukapila i ka hale e hoʻonā. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua nīnau pinepineʻoe i kāu keiki hānau - makemakeʻo ia i kahi kaikuaʻana a kaikuaʻana paha? E hoʻomanaʻo i ka pane a kāu keiki i mua iāʻoe? A e hoʻolei pololei i kāu laina o kāna pane.
Inā'ōlelo ke keiki eʻoliʻoliʻo ia i kahi kaikuahine a iʻole he kaikunāne - he mea nui loa ia,ʻaʻole pono kāu hana e hōʻeha i ke keiki i kēia moeʻuhane,ʻaʻole e haʻalele. Keʻikeʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa maikaʻi e pili ana i ka'ōpū - e haʻi aku i ke kaikuaʻana, e like me keʻano, ua kāhea kona kaikuahine (aiʻole kona kaikunāne) e'ōleloʻia e hānau kokeʻiaʻo ia. E mālama pono i ka pane o ke keiki -ʻaʻoleʻo ia i huhū? E like me ka mea e hiki ai me kaʻoliʻoli e haʻi aku iā ia i ka manawa eʻike ai ka lua o ke keiki i loko o kaʻohana, e loaʻa iā ia ka manawa kūpono e pāʻani me ia ma nā pāʻani likeʻole! E loaʻa iā ia he hoaaloha pono e noho mau i laila.
Inā uaʻike muaʻoe i ka wahine o ka pēpē e hiki mai ana - hiki iāʻoe ke pāʻani ma luna. Hiki i ke kaikuahine ke kaikuahine? He mea nui, i ka hopena, e loaʻa iā ia ke kanaka e pāʻani me nā pāpani, a ma hope paha e kōkua kekahi iā ia e hoʻokipa nani i ka hale liʻiliʻi! E hui pū lāua i ka meaʻai i loko o kahi kīʻaha, a hānai i kona makuakāne a me kona makuahine. Inā e manaʻoʻia ana ke kaikunāne -ʻo ia hoʻi ka maikaʻi,ʻo ka mea nui a me ka ikaika e ulu i loko ona,ʻaʻole ia eʻae i kona kaikuahine e hana hewa!
Inā he keikikāne ke keikikāne, ke manaʻo nei auʻaʻole ona pilikia me kona kaikunāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he kaikunāne ka nui, he pāʻaniʻo ka hoʻokele kaʻa, ka lawaiʻa, nā kaʻa, nā consoles a me ka nui, nui aku! Malia pahaʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻohana koke i ka manaʻo e loaʻa iā ia he kaikuahine - hiki paha iā ia ke manaʻo he mea hōʻoluʻolu ke kaikamahine i loko o kaʻohana. Hiki iāʻoe ke hakakā me ia, me ka manaʻo e hiki iāʻoe ke pāʻani i ka pāʻani me kekahi kaikamahine a me nā iʻa, aʻo ka mea nāna e pale iā ia, heʻuʻuku ia? Pai nā keikikāne i kaʻikeʻana o nā mākua he ikaika a kūʻokoʻa.
ʻO kēia mau manaʻo kūpono e kūpono ke hōʻoiaʻiʻoʻia mai kou mau lehelehe ināʻaʻole makemake kahi keiki kāne i kahi kaikuaʻana a iʻole ia he kaikunāne - makemakeʻo ia e mālama pono i nā manaʻo o kona mau mākua aʻaʻole aloha i kekahi. Pono nā mākua i loko o kēia hihia e pono keʻano haʻahaʻa, maʻalahi, iʻole e hōʻinoʻia ka hopena e kekahi hua'ōlelo pōʻino. Mai poina i ka'ōlelo e alohaʻoe iā ia a aloha mau, aʻo ka mea'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke pale aku me ka pēpē pēpē me ka kōkuaʻole o ke kaikuaʻana. E noʻonoʻoʻo ia e pono iāʻoe e like me ka wā ma mua, e alohaʻoe iā ia aʻaʻole e haʻalele no ka pono o kahi pēpē hou. Mai hāʻawi iā ia i nā makana -ʻaʻole kēia e hoʻololi i ka wela makua. Hele pinepine pinepineʻiaʻo ia, e hoʻokele iā ia ma o nā zoos a me nāʻauʻau, a haʻi mai iaʻu i kahi wikiwiki e hele aiʻoe maʻaneʻiʻekolu, a na ka hānau mua e hōʻike i ka muli loa-ʻo nā holoholona a pau i loko o ka zoo.
Hoʻonohonoho i nā hui o "ke kamaʻilio"ʻana a ke keiki hānau me ka muli loa i ka'ōpiopio. E noʻonoʻoʻo ia i kona mau pinches, a ke'ōlelo neiʻoe e hele aku ke kaikuaʻana a me ke kaikuaʻana e hele i ke keiki me ke aloha!
I ka wā i hānau ai ke keiki, no ka mea,ʻo ka liʻuliʻu o nā mākua e pili iā ia. He mea nui maʻaneʻiʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu i ke keiki makua, no ka mea, e hōʻeha ia i kona ola. E hoʻopili iā ia no ka mālamaʻana i ka pēpē, e hāʻawi iā mākou i nā hana e hiki ai; no ka laʻana, koho i nā lole wīwī, holoi i kāna mea hana, koho i kahi pahu i loko o ka hale kūʻai a pēlā aku. Eʻae i ka pipi, e honi i ke pēpē aʻaʻole hoʻi e hana i nā hōʻeha kūpono, inā wikiwiki ka hanaʻana o kahi keiki hānau. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pinepine ka'ōpiopio i ka lili i ke keiki'ōpio ke manaʻoʻo ia he keu. Maiʻae i ka 'ōpio eʻike i kēia manaʻo!
ʻO ka mea mua, inā makemake ka makua liʻiliʻi i kahi makuahine, e hoʻokuʻu i kona makuakāne i ka manawa me kaʻelemakule, e hele e like me ka mea hiki a haʻi aku i nā mea a pau. Akā i kekahi manawa e hiki i koʻu makuahine ke haʻalele i ke pēpē me kona makuakāne - a lilo i ka lā a pau me ka pēpē hānau, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i lawa kona aloha aloha i kēia manawa!
Uaʻike mua aneiʻoe i ka'ōwiliʻana o nā keiki hānau haʻaheo i ko lākou kaʻa huila me ko lākou kaikaina? ʻAe,ʻo lākou wale ke nānā aku me ka hauʻoli, mai ka mea i hāʻawiʻia iā lākou kēia hopohopo, mai ka meaʻo lākou e hōʻike i ke ao hou i nā keiki i hele mai ai lākou!
A pehea lā ka hoihoi o lākou e wehewehe i ke kumu o kēia mau mea'ē aʻe a me nā mea'ē aʻe paha? He pono kēia mau mea e pono aiʻoe e aʻo i ke keiki hānau mua, e haʻi aku iā ia me ke aloha - pehea keʻano koʻikoʻi o ke ola o ka pēpēʻelua! A pehea lā e aloha ai kāna pēpē ināʻaʻoleʻo ia e makaʻu e hāʻawi iā ia i kona aloha a mālama ...
Eʻoluʻolu loa i kāu pēpēʻelua. Ināʻaʻoleʻo ia i maopopo i ke kumu e hikiʻole ai iāʻoe ke hāʻawi manawa hou aku iā ia, e wehewehe wale aku iā ia i ka nāwaliwali loa o ka muli loa,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke moe i luna o kona puʻuwai, aʻo ka hana a konaʻohana,ʻo ia ke kōkua iā ia i kēia.
I ka manawa e kūʻai aiʻoe i kahi mea hana no nā'ōwili i loko o ka hale kūʻai - mai hoʻopoinaʻoe no ke keikiʻelemakule, eʻoliʻoli loaʻo ia i kou hāʻawiʻana iā ia i kahi haʻawina haʻahaʻa i ka mua - pono e pono i kekahi manawa keʻano hou.
ʻOi,ʻo ka mea nui loa - e weheweheʻo kaʻohanaʻaʻole i ka mua a me ka lua,ʻaʻole i emi nā poʻe i alohaʻia a me nā mea i aloha nuiʻia, akā naʻe aia kekahi poʻe i kōkua nui i kā lākou mau kōkua! A inā lākou eʻike i kēia kākoʻo, a laila e ulu ikaika kaʻohana i kēlā lā i kēia lā, aʻo kēlā me kēia'āpana e piha i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli!