Makemakeʻoe eʻikeʻoe i nā mea a pau e pili ana i kāu keiki: he mea makemake a makemakeʻole pahaʻo ia, he mea makemake ia i kahi manawa hoʻokahi, he mea makaʻu iā ia. Akā he mau mea kupaianaha āu iʻikeʻole ai. A ke manaʻo nei lākou i kāu kaikamahine. No ka mea e pono ai eʻike e pili ana i ke keiki i loko o 7 mahina, hiki iāʻoe ke heluhelu ma lalo nei. E heluhelu ae mahalo.
1. I lilo lākou i lima hema a lima'ākau paha ma mua o ka hānauʻana
Ke manaʻo neiʻoe eʻikeʻole kāu keiki keikiʻehiku mau makahiki i keʻano o ka lima e paʻa ai i kahi mea pāʻani a iʻole puna a kuhikuhi i nā mea waiwai. Akā,ʻaʻole pēlā. A inā paha e hiki i ke keiki ke hoʻololi i kāna mau "makemake" ma mua o ke kula, e kahakii ana me kona lima hema a'ākau paha - ma kāna "papahana" i loko, ua wehe muaʻia i kahi lima e alakaʻi iā ia. A ma hope a ma hope paha, e hoʻomaka ke keiki pono'ī i ka lima "lima" no ka hana.
Wahi a nāʻike hou o ka pūpū hānai o ke Kulanui Aliʻi ma Belfast, ke ulu nei ka lima hema a me ka'ākau o ka'ōpiopio i ka hola he 10 ma hope o ka hānauʻana.
2. Hiki iā lākou ke kapa aku i kahi "makua" i kekahi kanaka i kahi makahiki
He mea'ē paha kēia, akā,ʻaʻole maopopo i ke keiki liʻiliʻi i nā mahinaʻehiku. I kona uluʻana, aia kekahi manawa koʻikoʻi i ka wā e hoʻomaka aiʻo ia e "ho'āʻo" i kēlā me kēia hua'ōlelo i nā poʻe'ē aʻe, a hiki i ka wā e kū aiʻo ia ma ka "'ākau". Pēlā like me ka hua'ōlelo "papa". Aia i kekahi wahi, hiki i kahi keiki kao ke kiʻi aku i kekahi kanaka i hele mai i kou hale e like me he makua. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻoʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike i kona mau mākua. ʻO keʻano o nā hua'ōlelo e kāheaʻia ai lākou e loaʻa iā ia i kahi manawa ma hope. Akā, he mea kupaianaha kēia e piliʻole ana kēia me ka hua'ōlelo "makuahine". ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ua kapaʻia kēia keiki me ka inoaʻoleʻo ka makuahine,ʻaʻoleʻo kekahi makuahine'ē aʻe. Malia paha, he pilikino ka pilina pili kūikawā.
3. He mea nui loa ko lākou mau hoa iā lākou
Malia pahaʻoe eʻikeʻole i kāu pēpē e ukuʻole i nā keiki'ē aʻe e noho ana i kahi kaʻawale kokoke. A iʻole,ʻo ka hakakā, me nā mea a pau, e ho'āʻo ana e koho i nā meaʻaʻahu aiʻole i ke kaua. A hoʻoholoʻoeʻaʻole pono nā hoaaloha i kēia mau makahiki. Ua kuhiʻoe! I ka nohoʻana ma kahi kokoke i kā lākou mau hoa,ʻo ke keiki i 7 mau mahina ua piliʻo ia i ka hui. Aʻo kēia ka wā nui loa o kona uluʻana - ponoʻoe eʻike i kekahi mom! A me nā hakakā pinepine, ka hakakā a me nā kālepa i ka "hui lōkahi" o nā keiki e pono ai no ka hoʻomohala houʻana o nā keiki, no keʻano o ko lākouʻano.
ʻAʻole i liuliu iʻikeʻia e ka poʻe noiʻi kaʻano nui o ka manaʻo "makuaʻole" no nā pēpē. Pono wale nō lākou e haʻalele i nā manawa a pau i ka mālamaʻana i nā mākua a me nā meaʻike a pau a ho'āʻo e kūkulu i ka pilina me ko lākou mau hoa. A iʻoleʻo ia wale nō e noho pū me lākou. He mea nui loa kēia iā lākou.
4. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohālikelike mua i ko lākou ulu i ka wā e hiki mai ana
Ua hoʻomohala nā meaʻepekema i kekahi papahana, kahi e hiki ai ke hoʻonohonoho pono i ka ulu o kāu keiki ma ke kūlana makua
No ke keiki: [(ke kiʻekiʻe o ka momi + ke kiʻekiʻe o ke kiʻekiʻe + 13 cm): 2] + 10 knm
No ke kaikamahine: [(ke kiʻekiʻe o ka mom's + pali ke kiʻekiʻe -13 cm): 2] + 10 knm
5.ʻAʻole hewa ka TV no lākou
ʻO kēia kahi mea e pono aiʻoe eʻike e pili ana i ke pēpē i loko o 7 mahina i nā mākua a pau. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i ka mākaʻikaʻi TV ke kōkua i kahi keiki'ōpiopio e hoʻonui i ka wikiwiki -'ōlelo nā mea noiʻi. Akā, inā hoʻololiʻia nā papahana no kahi'ōmiʻoni liʻiliʻi (a ua nui nā mea o lākou ma nā pūnaewele kūikawā) a "hānai" e kauʻia lākou. Me ke kūpono kūpono, hiki i ka TV ke lilo i mea kōkua i ka uluʻana o ke keiki i loko o 7 mau mahina,ʻaʻoleʻo ke kumu o nā neuroses a me ka hakakā'ōpiopio.
6. Hoʻokani kaʻike iā lākou i ka hoʻolālā i nā mākau
Uaʻike nā mea noiʻi ma ke Kulanui o Kaleponiʻo nā keiki i lohe pinepine i nā mele kūikawā ma mua o ka makahiki, hōʻike lākou i nā hopena maikaʻi loa i nā hoʻokolohua o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka loiloi wā. Hoʻoponopono nui lākou i nā kumu o ka makemakika aʻoi aku ka wikiwiki aku ma mua o kā lākou mau hoa i nele i ke mele.