No ke aha i like ai nā kānaka me nā lauoho lōʻihi?

I kēia mau lālā, hiki iāʻoe ke hālāwai i nā kūkākūkā he nui e like me "No ke aha e like ai nā kānaka me nā lauoho lōʻihi lōʻihi?"ʻAʻole hiki i ka hapalua nani o ke kanaka ke hoʻoholo i ka mea e hana ai me ka lauoho: ke okiʻana a me ka waihoʻana, aʻo ka lōʻihi ka lōʻihi. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi kaʻawale, e waiho i ka lauoho ma lalo o nā poʻohiwi a ma lalo paha o ka pūhaka. No laila he aha nā mea e like me nā mea nui?

Ma keʻano kūlana, makemake nā kāne i nā kaikamāhine me ka lauoho lōʻihi. Ke nānā nei lākou i wahine. ʻO ka lauoho lauoho lōʻihi e pili ana me kekahi mea airy, ke akahai, keʻoluʻolu. Makemake kēia kaikamahine e mālama, mālama iā ia. ʻOiai e pili ana nā lauoho pōkole i kahi kaikamahine e hiki ke kū pololei nona iho. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo i ka mahalo houʻana. Wahi a kekahi poʻe e'ōlelo ana nā kaikamāhine me ka lauohoʻokoʻa i kā lākou "koa Jane". A i ko mākou manawa, makemake au i ke kaikamahine he kaikamahine wale nō -ʻano aloha, akahai aʻoluʻolu. ʻO kēia ke kumu nui i like ai nā kānaka me ka lauoho lōʻihi no nā kaikamahine.

ʻO ka lua,ʻo ka lōʻihi o ka lauoho,ʻo kaʻoi aku o ka paʻakikī ke mālama iā lākou. No laila, ke nānā nei kekahi kaikamahine me ka lauoho lōʻihi iā ia iho,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻolimalima i ke kālā no ka palekana,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e haʻaheo e hele i ke'ahamele a pāʻani i nā haʻuki. ʻO ka hopena - he kanaka maikaʻi, maikaʻi maikaʻi a me ka lauoho lauoho lauoho. Eia hou, ua ola nā kaikamahine i ke olakino, a he mea hoʻonāukiuki kēia i kēia mauʻaoʻao.

ʻO nā kaikamāhine me nā lauoho pokole, e like me nā kāne, i māheleʻia i nāʻanoʻelua:

He mea kaumaha, akā pinepine pinepine mai ka papa mua o nā kaikamāhine e hele i ka lua. Eia kekahi laʻana, ua mare lākou a manaʻo lākouʻo ia he kāne, no laila e alohaʻo ia iā ia e like me ia. No laila, ma ka homeʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke nānā maikaʻi loa, akā i mua o kona mau hoaaloha, ponoʻoe e hele ma kahi maikaʻi loa. He hapa nui loa kēia no nā kaikamāhine. ʻO ka mea iʻikeʻia e kekahi kanaka iāʻoe i kēlā lā i kēia lā,ʻaʻole ia e manaʻo ana e nānāʻo ia iāʻoe me ke kūlanaʻole a me ka pupule. ʻO ka mea'ē aʻe - ponoʻoe e ho'āʻo i kāu mea eʻoi aku ai ka maikaʻi no kāu kāne. E mālama a mālama i kou lauoho. A laila, eʻoluʻolu loaʻoe i kāu kāne, aʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e nānā aku i kahi'ē aʻe. A e huhū aku kona mau hoaaloha iā ia, no ka mea, ke nānā pono nei kāna kaikamahine i kahiʻaʻahu nani a me kaʻaʻahu, a ma ka hale noho.

Akā, aia kekahi ma ka papa lua ke hele pololei ke kaikamahine no ka hewa o kāna kāne. Aʻo ka mea maʻaneʻi,ʻaʻole ia heʻano palaualelo e hele i ka hale kaʻa a mālama wale paha iā ia iho me ke kōkua o ka mea hana lima. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma loko o kaʻohana, ka laulā o ke kālā, a he mea hiki i ke kanaka ke hoʻolilo i ke kālā no kekahi mea pono a pono (ʻo ia hoʻi ka hana kaʻa kaʻa) ma mua o nā pale lole a me nā lole nani no kāna wahine. ʻO ka hopena - he lau'aleʻele maikaʻi,ʻaʻahuʻahu a me ka makemake o ke kanaka e nānā nui i kaʻaoʻao. I kēlā manawa hoʻokahi, hoʻopoina nā kāne i ka nui o nā kālā i ko lākou haku wahine, me ka poinaʻana i kāna wahine.

Mai nā'ōlelo a pau i'ōleloʻia ma luna nei:ʻaʻole i makemake nā kāne e like me ka lauoho lōʻihi, akā,ʻo nā kaikamāhine maikaʻi i kāhikoʻia. ʻO ke poʻo me ka nani o ka lauoho e pili pono ana me ke kūpono o ka ukuʻana o ke kaikamahine i ka manawa kūpono, e kiaʻi pono iā ia iho. No laila, no kāna kāne, e ho'āʻoʻo ia e like me ka haneli haneli.

Akā, mai poina i ka lauoho lōʻihi e pono ai ke mālama pono. Ināʻekolu lākou i kipaʻia, palekana, maloʻo -ʻaʻole kēia eʻoluʻolu i kekahi kanaka, inā e hāʻule ka lauoho ma lalo o ka pūhaka. Pono pono ka lauoho lōʻihi e hoʻopaʻa mau, e mālama i ka paleʻole aʻaʻaʻole i nā mea e kokoke ana. Ponoʻoe e hoʻolimalima i ka nui o ke kālā ma nā pāpale kila, nā pulupulu, nā mākoki, a me nā hoʻouluulu maikaʻi ... No laila, ināʻaʻole lawa ka manawa e uku ai i ka noʻonoʻo i ka lauoho lōʻihi - e aho eʻokiʻoki. E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, he pōkole pokole wale nō, akāʻo ka lauoho he olakino,'ālohilohi aʻoluʻolu, e nānā i hoʻokahi haneli haneli maikaʻi aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka lauohoʻole i lalo iho i ka pūhaka.

No laila, e koho i ke kino i kūpono iāʻoe a me ka mea eʻoluʻolu aiʻoe. Inā lōʻihi ka lauoho a pōkole paha - ma ka nui,ʻaʻohe mea pili inā he nani ka lauoho, a ke nānā mau neiʻoe iā lākou. E koho iāʻoe, akā inā makemakeʻoe e lilo i wahine,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka uluʻana i ka lauoho i ka pūhaka - a,ʻikeʻoe,ʻaʻoleʻoe e paʻi hou mai nā mea pā, no ka mea, like lākou me nā kīla me nā lauoho lauoho. I ka manawa hoʻokahi, he lauoho maikaʻi ka lauoho pokole.