A laila no ke aha e mahalo ai ka wahine palupalu i nā kānaka maikaʻi me ka'ōlohelohe a me ka pāʻani? He mea maʻalahi:ʻo ka manaʻoʻo ka makemake o ka wahine e lohe i nā meaʻoluʻolu e pili ana iā ia,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokuʻu i kona hiki ke mahalo i ka nani maoli. E waiho wale,ʻaʻole wale i nā pepeiao pepeiao aloha o ka hapalua nani o ka Honua, akāʻaʻole lākou e manaʻo i nā maka eʻoluʻolu i ka leʻaleʻa o ke aniani.
Ua hoʻoholoʻia ka nani o nā kānaka e ka hapa.
Wahi a nāʻikepili i ka honua o nā wāhine nani eʻoi aku ka nui o nā kānaka ma mua. ʻO kēia ke kumu o nā kumu likeʻole: me nā genetics, nā loina o nā mākua, nā loio a me nā makemake nui, kahi e loli ai nā wāhine me ka wikiwiki nui. Akā naʻe,ʻo nā poʻe akamai he nui i ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana i nā kumu e hoʻoikaika i ka loiloiʻana i kahi wahine e like me ke kanaka, eʻae like:ʻo nā kamaliʻi maikaʻi loa no nā kaikamāhine,ʻo ia nāʻano o ka poʻe i loaʻaʻole. Ma nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe,ʻo keʻano o ka nani o kānaka e pili ana i keʻano o nā māmā o ka wahine ikaika ma mua o kēia wahi iʻikeʻia.
No laila, ma Sepania, hoʻonani ka wahine i nā kānaka me ka lauoho lauoho a me ke oho a me nā maka uliuli keʻokeʻo. Hoʻolālā nāʻoliʻoli i ka kaulana kūlanaʻole ma nā'āinaʻApelika a me Italia. Ua maopopo ke kumu: aia nā kānaka i kēia mau'āina iʻeleʻele,ʻeleʻele aʻeleʻele. A me nā mea māmāʻole, he mea maʻalahi. ʻO ia ke kumu i kaulana ai lākou. No nā kumu hoʻokahi, aia kekahi pola hopeʻole o nā manaʻo ma Rusia:ʻo kekahi mau wāhine, he leoʻole lākou i mua o kaʻikeʻana i kahi'ōmaʻomaʻo maikaʻi, ke ahi e'ā ana me nā makaʻeleʻele uliuli, a ua mākaukau kekahi poʻe e holo i ka hopena o ke ao no nā kānaka o Nordic. ʻO kahi ma kahi'āina kahi kokoke i nā lāhui a pau o ka Honua i'ākoakoa ai, ua aneane ka nui o nāʻano kāne i ka nui. Aʻo nā wāhine no nā kumu kūpono i māheleʻia ai nā manaʻo.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki keʻano likeʻole ke kāne kāne: ma kaʻoihana o nā mea maikaʻi loa ma ka honua nei, e like me nā hiʻohiʻona o ka wahine ikaika, ka mea iʻikeʻia mai keʻano o ka nani o ka nani -ʻaʻole Brad Pitt a me Orlando Bloom i lilo i mea maikaʻi i nāʻoihana e kū nei. Akā, ua hele aku lākou i ka laʻa i kahi mau kānaka. Aʻoiai, he mau lālā o ka hapanui o ka lāhui kanaka,ʻo lākou, me kaʻikeʻole i kaʻikepili waho nui, ua lanakila i nā puʻuwai o nā miliona miliona o nā wāhine wahine.
Ke kiʻi o ka nani maikaʻi loa.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ehia mau wāhine i ka honua, a nui nā manaʻo e pili ana i kēlā mau kanaka iʻoi aku ka nani loa. No kekahi, he poʻe'ōpiopio lākou o ka pāʻani e hana, heʻoki iki a me nā hiʻohiʻona nani. ʻO nā kaikamāhine'ē aʻeʻaʻole lākou iʻike no lākou iho heʻokoʻa likeʻole o ke kāne ke kāne, koe wale no ka mea kino me nā makaʻeleʻele, ka lauoho lio huluhulu, ke kino lean. ʻO kekahi'ē aʻe, e hāʻule ana i nā'alekuehu o kona mau maka uliuli keʻokeʻo ma luna o ka helehelena pāʻona me nā hiʻohiʻona nui. Akā, e like me ka noi hou loa, aiaʻekolu mauʻano o nā kāne e hiki ke mahaloʻia e nā wāhine he nui ma ka honua nei.
ʻO ka mea mua, macho. ʻO Swarthy, ikaika, akā,ʻaʻole i pākuʻiʻia, heʻoki iki - mai ka 1, 7m, me kahi pāpaleʻeleʻele aʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele paha a me ka lauoho keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo. ʻO kēlā kanaka,ʻo ia hoʻi, uaʻaʻahuʻia i kahi hāpē denim,ʻaʻole loa ia eʻike i nā mea nui o ke ola o ke kanaka, i ka loaʻaʻole o ka nānāʻana i nā wāhine. Ma nā wahi a pau me kona hiʻohiʻona, e hoʻololiʻia ka nui o nā maka hilinaʻi o nā maka'ōpiopio i kona kuhikuhiʻana. Akā, pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia heʻano paʻakikī keʻano o iaʻano o nā kāne i nā mea piliʻole. Ma waena o ka "macho" i loaʻa pinepine odnolyuby. ʻOiaʻiʻo, uaʻikeʻo ia i ke kumukūʻai o kona nani nani. No laila, ka pilikiaʻole o ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho.
ʻO ka lua, heʻulaʻula lōʻihi, me nā lehelehe pupule, kahi hana a me ka hinaʻeleʻele a me nā maka uliuli. ʻO kēia mau kānaka ke poʻokela o nā kānaka maikaʻi. ʻO ia ke kumu i lilo ai lākou i mea maʻamau maoli no nā wāhine. ʻO ia, e like me ka mea magnet, ke kau nei i kona manaʻo i loko ona a hoʻohana pono loa ia me ka palenaʻole. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻonaʻoluʻolu, nā hiʻohiʻona, nāʻano a me keʻanoʻoihana o ka lole -ʻo ia ka mea maʻalahi i kēlāʻano maikaʻi. Aia ka lauoho liʻiliʻi ma kona kino. He aha ka mea e lilo ai he kumu hou no ka hoʻohanohano wahine aʻo ia ke kumu nui o kaʻikeʻana o nā pilikia.
ʻO ka meaʻekolu,ʻo ka papa mele keʻano o ka puʻuwai-ka momona-keʻokeʻo me nā maka uliuli, keʻano o Apollo, nāʻano o kaʻike-a me ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, e paʻi ana i ka maka. ʻO ka pinepine - me nā hiʻohiʻona nani, ka ihuʻoi a me ka maka'alemona. ʻAʻoleʻike ka mea e like me ka wahine wale nō, akāʻo ka mea e pono ai kāna e'ōlelo ai, no laila, makemakeʻo ia e noho koke me ia i kaʻo-tete.
ʻO wau ke kanaka nani loa.
No nā makahiki he mau makahiki, nā psychologists, nā wāhine a me nā kāne eʻimi ana i ka pane i kēia nīnau -ʻo ia nā mea keu loa. A hiki i kēia wā,ʻaʻole i unuhiʻia kahiʻano maʻalahi o ka nani kāne. No ke aha? He mea maʻalahi:ʻo ke kanaka he kanaka, me nāʻano a me nā mea maikaʻi i loko ona, aʻo ka wahine heʻano maʻalahi loa. Aʻo ka nani o waho ma waho o ia manawa a me kēia lā e noho mau ana ia ma hope - ma hope o ka nani o nā'ōlelo āna i'ōlelo ai. ʻO ka mea nui, ua aloha nā wāhine i ko lākou pepeiao, a laila me ko lākou mau maka. No laila, no kēlā me kēia lālā o ka mea hoʻonāwaliwali,ʻo ke kanaka keu loa ka mea nāna i lanakila i kona puʻuwai. A he meaʻole iā ia keʻano:'ohinehineʻo "Elvis Presley" kahi o nā makaʻeleʻele, a he kanaka noho mālie mai ka hale e hiki mai ana me nā pale ulaula. ʻO ka mea nui, no ka meaʻo ia wale nō, hoʻokahi a keu loa o nā kānaka a pau o ka honua nei.
Eia kekahi,ʻo ka nani o ke kāne no ka wahine,ʻaʻole ia e like me ka maopopo o ka nani wahine o nā kāne. Inā noʻonoʻo kekahi kanaka he wahine maikaʻi, e liʻuliʻuʻo ia e hoʻokomo iā ia, e lanakila i kēia pele o ke keʻena noho a kokoke iā ia no kekahi manawa. A no ka hapanui o nā wāhine, ka mea i kohoʻia (no mua a ma mua paha o ka mua o ka hakakā), ua like ke kanaka maikaʻi me ka hanaʻoihana: hiki iā lākou ke mahalo a mahalo paha, akā,ʻaʻole hiki i kahi wahine no kona lanakila ke haʻalele i kona kumukūʻai pono.