No ke aha e aloha ai nā keiki i ka meaʻono

Eh. ... Ke heluheluʻoe i kēlāʻano moʻolelo, hoʻomanaʻo koke kekahi i ka'ōpiopio, i kahi kamaliʻi'ōpio a hauʻoli. E haʻi mai iaʻu,ʻo ka mea i makemakeʻole i ka momona i ka wā kamaliʻi? ʻO ke aloha a me ke aloha ināʻaʻoleʻo ia a pau, a laila he lehulehu.

A i ka wā kamaliʻi,ʻo kaʻoi aku ...ʻO nā keiki wale nō ke hiki keʻai i kahi'āpanaʻai, kāpīʻia me ka wai inu wai inu, loaʻa i kahi kīʻaha me ke kokoleka, a laila hopuʻia ia me nā kuki a me nā lozenzen lozenges. A i ka huluʻula i ka lāʻau! Aʻo kēia hulu hau keʻokeʻo, e hoʻoheheʻe i mua o kou mau maka, a no laila pono waleʻoe e lūlū iʻole ia o kona lole a pau a me ka momona ma luna o kahiʻaʻahu hou aʻaʻahu paha.

No laila, no ke aha e aloha ai nā keiki i nā meaʻono? E kamaʻilio pū kāua. Āhea a i hea kahi e hoʻomaka ai? Ke manaÿo nei au ÿo nä mea a pau, e like me këia manawa, ke hiki mai ia mai ka wa kamaliʻi Ma kēiaʻano, mai ka hānauʻana mai. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he meaʻono ka waiū o ka makuahine. A mai nā minuke mua loa o kona olaʻana,ʻo ia keʻano o nā meaʻono mua eʻikeʻia e nā pēpē he meaʻono! ʻAʻole anei he mea kupanaha,ʻaʻoleʻawaʻawa,ʻawaʻawa,ʻaʻole hou,ʻo kaʻono, a laila paha heʻono ke ola. ʻO wai ka meaʻike? Malia pahaʻo ia ke kumu eʻai ai mākou i ka meaʻono, ke kaumaha a me ka manaʻoʻino. ʻAe,ʻo ia, he hōʻinoʻana mai ka kumu nui o kā mākou kamaʻilio.

ʻO kaʻai mua a ke kanaka, he waiū waiū. Ma hope aku, e ulu ana, mau keiki e aʻo i ke ao o ka meaʻono. He nuiʻo ia aʻano'ē. ʻO mākou, nā mākua, uaʻike nui mākou he meaʻono ia a heʻenemi nui loa ia, ke alakaʻi aku nei i ka nui o nā pilikia, nā maʻi a pau, mai nā maʻi caric and end with diabetes. Ua maopopo a maopopo kēia mau mea a pau. Ua hoʻopaʻaʻia kēia e nā kauka mai nāʻaoʻao o nā kauka a me nā menele kaulana,'ōlelo nāʻohana i kēia, nā papahana televise a ua panaʻia nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni. He mea maʻalahi loa ia - ke haʻalele nei mākou i ka meaʻono aʻaʻole hāʻawi i kā mākou mau keiki. E hoʻololi mākou i ka hua me ka hua, a me keʻano maoli! He aha ka mea eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi? !! E maʻalahi. Akā,ʻehia mau keiki āu eʻike ai i kaʻonoʻole i kaʻono o nā laupala. Hiki iāʻoe ke pane i ka nīnau, no ke aha i makemakeʻole ai nā kamaliʻi eʻai i ka'ōlī ma kahi o ka pahu kukui? Mai manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu? E ho'āʻo e hāʻawi aku i kāu keiki i ka kohoʻana o kaʻulu a me ka mandarin, kalekaleka a apple paha, ka lole a me ka pua. Ua nānāʻoe? Pehea pehea? ʻAi wau i ka hua i hala i kēia kaua hakakā! He aha ke mea huna? Aʻo mākou, nā mākua, i kekahi manawa e makemake mākou e hoʻopiliʻia i kahi'āpana momona, kekeʻawaʻawa a iʻole kekeʻa e waiho ana i loko o ka puka hale kūʻai aʻaʻole e hāʻawi iā mākou i ka heleʻana ma ka ... Yes, ho'āʻo nui, aʻaʻole hiki i nā mea a pau ke kū'ē.

Akā ua aʻo mākou i kā mākou mau keiki i kēia leʻaleʻa maikaʻi, a he mea maʻalahi ke hoʻohana a no ka paʻakikī e pakele i nā pūnaewele o kēia kuʻi. E hoʻomanaʻo, he mau wahi liʻiliʻi loa kou heleʻana i kahi hale kahi e'ōpiopio ana nā keiki'ōpio. He aha kāu e lawe ai meʻoe i makana? ʻO ka mea nui loa, he keke, he pahu kālekaleka, nā pōpō, maikaʻi, a inā he pilikia kūikawā, kahi kalekaleka. ʻAe,ʻaʻohe hoʻopaʻapaʻa,ʻaʻole i nā'ōlaʻa,ʻaʻole i nā pears,ʻaʻole i nā'āpana,ʻaʻole i ka peaches,ʻoiai he meaʻono. No laila, uaʻaeʻia. A i ka luhiʻana o nā mākua, hiki i nā poʻe mākua ke kūkākūkā i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi, ua hāʻawiʻia i nā keiki a pau ka manawa eʻai ai i ka mauna o ka lauhuʻu i laweʻia e nā malihini. A laila ua haohao mākou no ke aha e makemake ai nā keiki i nā meaʻono? I kēia manawa, e ho'āʻo mākou e hoʻomaopopo i kēia pilikia nui loa a hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia a pau e hiki mai ana i ka wā o ka hana.

Uaʻike aneiʻoe i ke kūlana i ka wā i hāʻuleʻole ai kāu keiki me ka hina a pēpē i kona kuli, aiʻole i kahe wale ihoʻo ia i ka waimaka no kekahi kumu kūponoʻole iāʻoe, he aha kāu e hana ai i kēia hihia? Pono, pono, ponoʻoe e hāʻawi iā ia i ka mea maikaʻi loa. ʻO Dali? Ua hoʻomahaʻo ia. A no ke aha? Ma muli o ke aloha o kā mākou mau keiki i ka meaʻono, ua hoʻohana mua lākou iā ia. Malia paha no ka mea o kaʻono o ka meaʻono ke hoʻomaha a palekana, e like me ka umauma o koʻu makuahine, a laila, i ka wā ma mua, ke'ōpiopio. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, keʻimi nei mākou a pau i ka maluhia, palekana a me ka mahanahana. ʻAʻole ia he meaʻole ka'ōlelo a nāʻepekema e loaʻa ana i ka chocolate ka mea i kapaʻia he "hormone maikaʻi". A keʻike nei mākou iā ia i kēia pilikia a me ka pilikia pilikia. ʻAʻole kēia he mea kānalua. No laila ua hoʻonohonohoʻia mākou,ʻo ka hauʻoli loa a me kaʻoluʻolu e pili pū ana me nā lau. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka makahiki hou! ʻO kēia mākaʻikaʻi e alohaʻia ana e nā mākua a me nā keiki. He aha ka mea mua e hiki ai i kou manaʻo? ʻO ka mea maikaʻi,ʻo nā makana i loaʻa i nā keiki i kēia mau lā he nui. Hāʻawiʻia e nā mākua, nā kupunawahine, nā mākua kāne, nā mea a pau e hele mai e kipa. A hiki paha iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻohanohano i ka lā hānau o kāu pēpē me kaʻole o ka pōpō palaoa me nā kukui, nā lole a me nā meaʻala. Aʻo ka hoʻomahaʻana wale nō e pau me kahi meaʻai,ʻo ia hoʻi nā kīʻaha i loko o ke kō. A i ka manawa wale nō e loaʻa ai kekahi mau pilikia me ke olakino o kā mākou mau keiki, hoʻomaka mākou e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka mea e hōʻoia ai i kā mākou mau keiki ke aloha i ka meaʻono, aiʻole e hoʻohana iki paha. Akā,ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua lilo ka maʻamau i mea lua. Me ka hua'ōlelo "maikaʻi" i loko o ko mākou mau manaʻo i ka hua'ōlelo "hauʻoli", "leʻaleʻa", "piha", "maikaʻi maikaʻi". A no ka hoʻololiʻana i kekahi mea i loko o nā meaʻono a kā mākou mau keiki, e paʻakikī nuiʻia. No laila, e noʻonoʻo i ia mea, akā,ʻaʻole hiki ke maʻalahi ke hoʻomaka ma mua o ka hoʻolei. E hoʻihoʻi kākou i ke kiʻi paʻi a ma kahi o ka candy mua e hāʻawi aku ai kākou i ka pēpē a me ka'ōleʻa. E hinaʻo ia me ke aloha i kēia leʻaleʻa. A laila, e hōʻike aku mākou iā ia i ka honua nui o nā hua likeʻole e hiki ke hāʻawi i kāu mau keiki i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli a me ka leʻaleʻa,ʻo ka mea nui loa, ke olakino. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻoi aku ka waiwai ma mua o kēia, malia paha,ʻaʻohe mea ma ka honua nei. ʻAʻole hiki ke paniʻia ka ola e nā leʻaleʻa a me nā manaʻo. Manaʻo wauʻaʻole pono e hōʻoia a wehewehe i kēia. Hana ia i ke kānāwai i loko o kou hale,ʻaʻohe pele,ʻaʻohe momona, nā wai kalapona, kahi eʻoi aku ai ke kuke kuke. ʻAe, aʻoi aku, mai poina iāʻoe e aʻo i kāu mau hoaaloha a me kou mau hoaʻike inā hikiʻoe e kipa aku,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e kūʻai aku i ka balaka a me ka keke,ʻo ka hua wale nō paha a iʻole kahi meaʻoluʻolu, he puke. He mea maikaʻi kēia aʻaʻoleʻeha. A laila hiki iāʻoe ke noho mālie no kāu pēpē, e loaʻa iā ia ke ola maikaʻi! ʻAʻole makemakeʻo ia i nā meaʻono!