ʻO ke aloha a me kaʻike
No nā makahiki he nui, ua ho'āʻo nā kānakaʻepekema o ka honua e noʻonoʻo i ka hopena o ke aloha o nā wāhine i nā kāne a me ka hewa. Nui nā hopena, ua pōkole a uaʻike mākou a pau. Makemake nā kāne ma keʻano i ke aloha me ko lākou mau maka, a me nā wāhine - me ko lākou mau pepeiao. ʻAʻole ia wale nō nā hua'ōlelo - ua hoʻokūpaʻaʻia e ka'enepekema. Akā naʻe, ua'ōlelo nā meaʻepekemaʻaʻole mākou e aloha ma lalo o ka hopena o ke kūlana wikiwiki, akā he pono. Loaʻa iā mākou keʻike i ka mea nāna e kōkua nui i ka hoʻomauʻana i kā mākouʻano. Akā naʻe, ua paʻiʻia nā mea hou hou. Ua hōʻoia nā kānakaʻepekema he aloha maoli nō!
Uaʻikeʻia nā loiloikaʻAmelika e like me ka hopena o ka noiʻiʻana aia i loko o ko kākou lolo nā mahele kaʻawale e pili ana i ke aloha. A i ka manawa e manaʻo ai kekahi mea aloha iā mākou,ʻike iā mākou, kūkākūkā, ua lilo kēia mau wahi i mea ikaika loa. Eia kekahi, e hoʻopili kēia mau 'āpana i ka hana o nā' āpana 'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana, kaʻena e mālama ai i kaʻike maopopo o ka mea maoli, ka pilikanaka a me ka huhū. No laila, inā heleʻo kāu mea aloha i ka helehelena maka maʻamau i kona maka,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e huhū, aloha waleʻo ia iāʻoe. No ka mea hea?
ʻO ke aloha a me nā mea nuiʻole
ʻAʻohe kanaka e manaʻo e aloha waleʻia mākou no ka hana a nā pheromones. Akā, heʻanoʻoiaʻiʻo kēia. ʻO kēia mau mea i hanaʻia me ka hoʻokuʻuʻana o ka wela a ma kahi pānaʻiʻole e huki ana i kahi hoa moe. Ke hana hewa nei ka poʻe Pheromones,ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke wehewehe i keʻano o kā lākou "hana". ʻO ia ke kumu i koho ai nā kaikamāhine "maikaʻi" i kekahi manawa i nā "ʻino," aiʻole i ka hāʻule maikaʻiʻole o ke aloha i waho o ke aloha me ka nani, a ma ka manawa hoʻokahi, ua like ko lākou manaʻo. Hoʻokomo pinepine mākou i kēia pilikino o nā kānaka me ka likeʻole o kekahi me kekahi ma ko lākouʻano pono'ī: kū'ē nā mea kū'ē. ʻAʻole pololei kēia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, akā, ua like loa ka hopena me kaʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻElua mau manaʻo likeʻole e hiki ke maʻalahi i ka loli. Ma kēia kumu, hiki i nā paio ke ala pinepine. Eia naʻe, ināʻelua kānaka me keʻano likeʻole, a lailaʻaʻole hikiʻole ke noho pū me lākou i loko o kaʻohana. Inā pauʻelua,ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻoholo ai, hikiʻole ke hoʻoponoponoʻia nā mea,'ākoakoa nā pilikia e like me ka hau. Inā he mau alakaʻiʻelua,ʻaʻohe mea maʻalahi. E paʻi nā kānaka a pau i ke alakaʻi,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i ka hoʻoponoponoʻana i nā hihia,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i ka hoʻoloheʻole.
I kekahi manawa, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokuʻu i nā nīnau, e hele mai e nīnau i kāu mea aloha aloha i ke kumu o kona aloha iāʻoe. Akāʻaʻole lawa ka pane no mākou. ʻO ka mea nui loa, e hoʻomaka ka hoa e hoʻopaʻa i kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona waho a iʻole nāʻano o keʻano. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki i kāu hoaaloha ke'ōlelo: "naniʻoe, hauʻoli,ʻaʻole like me nā mea a pau, a pēlā aku". ʻO kahiʻelemakule, inā manaʻo kekahi e'ōlelo, a laila like kekahi mea like: "ʻOʻoe ke aloha, ke aloha, aloha, kumu, a pēlā aku". E hoʻomaopopo heʻano maʻamau kēia o "nā hiʻohiʻona" maʻamau o kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona e hoʻohuli i nā kāne i nā wāhine, a me nā wāhine i nā kāne.
I kekahi manawaʻo ka paneʻana e like me keʻano o kahi mamua ma mua o ka mea i manaʻoʻia. Akā, ma hope o nā mea a pau, ma kahi kiʻekiʻe o kaʻikeʻole, ua alohaʻia mākou no kekahi kumu'ē aʻe. ʻO kekahi laʻana, ua hāʻule koke kekahi kaikamahine i ke aloha me ke kanaka iʻelua manawa. No ke aha i hanaʻia ai kēia? Hiki iā ia ke lilo i mea kūpono, akā ma luna o ka mea a pau no ka uluʻana o ke kaikamahine me ka makuaʻoleʻole a keʻimi nei i ke kanaka e hiki iā ia ke kākoʻo iā ia, kahi pale e hōʻeha iā ia no ka nui o kona ola. Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, pono paha ka makuakāne o ke kaikamahine, akā,ʻaʻole i hoʻohui ka pilina me ia. Hoʻololi kēia i ka lā e hiki mai ana i kahi koho o kekahi hoaʻoi aku ma mua o kona iho.
Ke hana nei ia i ka mea i manaʻo muaʻia e ke kanaka a hōʻeha i kona aloha. Hoʻolipohuʻo ia i kekahi hoa hana hoʻopau i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa mau a me ka paʻa iā ia. ʻO ia ke kumu e hiki ai i kekahi mau wāhine ke pale i ka paʻi a me ke kolohe o ke kāne me ka paʻapaʻa, aiʻole e hiki i ke kāne ke koho i nā wāhine ikaika a naʻauʻole, a ma lalo iho o nā "kuʻekuʻe wāwae". I ka manawa hoʻokahi, ua aloha nui lākou a pau.
ʻO ke aloha a me ke "kumu hoʻohālikelike"
Ma keʻano o ke kamaliʻi, kuhikuhi mākou a pau i ka hapalua o kā mākou hapalua. Eia kekahi, i kekahi manawa, e pani ana ko mākou mau maka, uaʻike mua mākou i ko lākou aloha iā mākou, pehea lākou e nānā mai ai iā mākou, eʻike nui i kā lāua mare maikaʻi, moe mākou i ka hānauʻana o nā keiki. Ua manaʻoʻiaʻo ia nā wāhine i hiki ke hiki i ka wā'ōpiopio ke hana i kekahi hiʻohiʻona kūpono o ko lākou ola makua, ma kēia mua aku,ʻo ia keʻano o ke ola i loaʻa iā lākou. Ua hōʻoiaʻia e hiki ke hoʻomanaʻo i ke aloha. Ke hoʻoikaika nei mākou iā mākou iho me ko mākou manaʻo maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana iā mākou i nā makahiki. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kekahi manawaʻaʻole kūpono nā kiko'ī, akā, ke ola nei ke kino. ʻO ka poʻe wāhine e hauʻoli mau ana i ka mare, i loko o ia mauʻohana, nā hoa e aloha i kekahi i kekahi.
Ke hana nei a pēlā, no ka laʻana, i ka manawa e moe ai ke kaikamahine i kona ola e hālāwai me ke kanaka waiwai, aʻo ke aloha maikaʻi, e hoʻoulu iā ia me nā makana maikaʻi, nāʻaʻahu nani, hele pū me ia i ka huakaʻi puni honua. Ma hope o kona olaʻana, hālāwaiʻo ia me kēlā kanaka ma ke alanui. Ua kūponoʻo ia, he mea kālepa aʻaʻoleʻo ia e manaʻo nui. No laila, e alohaʻo ia ma ke aloha. Ua maopopo i keʻano o ka pōmaikaʻi nui o ke kāne no kēlā kaikamahine. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hoʻopaʻi koke iā ia no keʻano lōʻihi. E like me ke kanaka e aloha nui iā ia, no ka mea. ʻOiaiʻo ia ka mana o kona hypnosis. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia no kāna kūlana kālā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i piʻi aku iā ia i ke "kūlana keiki." ʻO kēlā kanakaʻaʻole ia e lilo i mea naʻauao, noʻonoʻo me ka hoʻolohe iā ia, no ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i keʻano kumu kūikawā.
'Ōlelo pinepine mākou: "Aloha ke aloha ...". Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole e like keʻano o ke aloha e like me ka mea - e aloha ana kekahi i kekahi no kekahi kumu. Hiki i nā mea a pau, inā makemakeʻia, eʻimi i kona wehewehe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, no ke aha? He maikaʻi ke aloha me ka nānāʻole i hope a me ka naʻau hāmama.