Nā mākua kāne a me nāʻano

He makuahine hoʻokahi -ʻano likeʻole i ka'ōlelo no kekahi mau kāne. ʻAʻole hiki i kēlā me kēia kānaka ke hāpai i kahi keiki a kekahi no nā kumu he nui.

Heʻuʻuku keʻano o nā wāhine no nā mākua-nā loea, ma kahi me ka mahalo. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole nā ​​kāne makuaʻole he mau kānaka maʻamau, no ka mea he nui kā lākou e hele a kamaʻilio pū me lākou, heʻano'ē aʻe ka mea i koe. No laila he aha nā mea - hoʻokahi makua kāne?
I mea e maopopo ai keʻano o kekahi makua kāne, pono e maopopo nā kumu no kona "hoʻomahaʻole". Hiki keʻokoʻa nā kumu: ka hemo, ka wahine kāne make, ka makemakeʻole e uku i ka wai a pēlā aku.

Eia naʻe, aia nā hiʻohiʻona maʻamau e hoʻomaopopo i nā mākua kāne hoʻokahi. Eia kekahi laʻana, he kuleana nui lākou, no ka mea he hana nui kā lākou -ʻo ka hānaiʻana o ke keiki. Pēlā nō, ua mālama nuiʻia nā mākua kāne hoʻokahi i nā manaʻo, ua hoʻomanawanui lākou a ua maʻalahi lākou i nā hana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e mālama i kahi kanakaʻuʻuku, aʻoiaiʻoiai e hilinaʻi mau ana iā ia,ʻaʻole ia he kaumaha i nā mea a pau, aʻo ka mea pono loa e hoʻopaʻiʻia i mea e hānai pono ai i kahi keiki.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, pono paha he makua kūpono kahiʻoi aʻe ma mua o ke kanaka iʻikeʻole i kēiaʻano. Ma kekahiʻano,ʻo ia ka hihia, no ka mea,ʻaʻole e loaʻa i kekahi pope ka nīnau e pili ana i keʻano e hoʻololi ai i ka pēpē pēpē a pehea e lawe ai i kahi keiki i nā hopena pule, kahi e maikaʻi loa ai ināʻoe e mare i nā keiki.

Eia naʻe, aia kekahi mau pōʻino o nā mākua kāne hoʻokahi. ʻO ke keiki no ia e noho mau i mua, e hoʻomanaʻo mauʻo ia i ka pono o ke keiki i ka hoʻoponoponoʻana i kekahi pilikia, ponoʻoe eʻae i kēia. Ponoʻoe e hoʻopaʻa i kahi pilina me kāna keiki, akā heʻino? Ma ke alo o ka pēpē e loaʻa iāʻoe kekahi hoaaloha maikaʻi'ē aʻe.

Aia kekahi manaʻo e ho'ākāka mua nā mākua kāne hoʻokahi i kahi wahine mai ka "makuahine no kāna keiki". ʻAʻole pono kēia. ʻO ke kanaka eʻimi nei i konaʻuhane mua, akā,ʻo ia, ke noʻonoʻo neiʻo ia iā ia e pili ana i ka makuahine no ke keiki. Keʻimi nei nā mākua kāne i nā wāhine likeʻole, e aloha iā lākou, e aloha i kā lākou mau keiki, e hiki iā lākou ke mālama i ke keiki, e hoʻokaʻawale i nā pilikia a pau o ke hānaiʻana i ke keiki a lilo i mikina maoli no ka pēpē!

ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia kahi mau keiki i hānaiʻia e kekahi makua kāne e hiki ke kipi aku iāʻoe ma kaʻoiaʻiʻo a hōʻike i ko lākou huhū huhū ma nāʻano a pau. Ponoʻoe e hōʻike i ke akamai a me ke ahonui ma mua o ka hikiʻana o ke kūlana. Loaʻa paha i ke kōkua o kahiʻohana loio. Akā, mai haʻalele i mua o ka manawa, hōʻole e hana i kahi makua hoʻokahi. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke holo ma waena o Scylla lāuaʻo Charybdis i ka hana makua a me ka make wai no ka hauʻoli kanaka.

I kekahi hihia,ʻo ke kanaka hoʻokahi wale nō, me ke kōkuaʻole o ka wahine, e hānai i kahi keiki e mahalo nuiʻia.