Nā ala e haʻi i kāu mea aloha e pili ana i ka'ōpū

No laila, ua aʻoʻoe i ka moʻolelo kupanaha a me ka nani - hiki koke iāʻoe ke lilo i makuahine. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, i keʻano o ka hauʻoli i hui pūʻia me ka manaʻo o kekahi hopohopo kānalua, e hoʻonuiʻia kahi hana hou: pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka makua a me ka pehea e pane aku aiʻo ia? E ho'āʻo mākou e kōkua iāʻoe e hoʻoponopono koke a wehewehe i nāʻano likeʻole e kōkua iāʻoe e haʻi i kāu mea aloha e pili ana i ka'ōpū.

ʻO kekahi o nāʻaoʻao banal - e haʻi i nā mea a pau ma ke kelepona a iʻole e kiola i ka SMS aʻaʻaʻole i ka hopena o ka mea i alohaʻia, ka hauʻoli o kaʻike. Akā,ʻo ka'ōkalakala o ka hānauʻana, he hopena moʻolelo ia i kāu moʻolelo aloha a he pono iāʻoe e hele i kēlā me kēia.

He ala maʻamau, kahi e kōkua ai e haʻi i ka mea i alohaʻia no ka'ōpū, - e kali i ke kāne mai ka hana a waiho pono i nā mea a pau e like me. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, pono e hoʻomākaukau muaʻo ia i kahi liʻiliʻi, pono, e noho iki ma kahi papa moe. A ...ʻaʻole e hūnā i kou mau manaʻo, e hōʻike i kou hauʻoli, i hiki koke mai ka mea aloha iā ia iho.

Inā kūponoʻole kou kanaka, ināʻaʻoleʻoe i maopopo i kāna pane, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomaka ma kahi lōʻihi. Eia kekahi laʻana, e'ōhumu e pili ana i ka neusea, e haʻi e pili ana i ka lōʻihi, ma hope, e noʻonoʻo: aia anei i ka hāpai? E hoʻomākaukau i kāu mea i makemake ai i kekahi mau lā, e haʻi i ka nani o ka hānaiʻana i ka pēpē, a hala ka hebedoma e hiki iāʻoe ke haʻi aku iā ia e liʻuliʻu e liloʻo ia i makua.

ʻO keʻano o ka "hoʻomākaukau"ʻana no ka leka uila o ka nohona aloha. E ho'āʻo i ke kono i kāu mea i aloha ai i kaʻaina ahiahi ma o ke kukui. ʻAʻole pono kahi i loaʻa ai: ma ka home aiʻole ma kahi haleʻaina,ʻo ka mea nuiʻo ka lewaʻaʻohe leʻaleʻa a he leʻaleʻa.

Ināʻoe he amateurʻaʻole makemake, akā wikiwiki, e ho'āʻo e haʻi i kāu mea aloha e pili ana i ka'ōpū i ka manawa e noho anaʻo ia ma hope o ka huila. Eʻike maoliʻoe i nā manaʻo ikaika loa mai ka hōʻailona pōpilikia,ʻoiai inā he mea hao i mua o ka kaʻa.

I mea e pale ai i ka hopohopo o kāna kāne e hele nei i ke kumu, hiki iāʻoe keʻike iā iaʻaʻole he kūpono kēia, eʻaʻahu ana i nā loleʻaʻahu, a haʻi i ka mea i alohaʻia e pili ana i ka'ōpū i loko o kahi hoʻokipa pili loa. Eia kekahi, e like me kekahi mau wāhine, ua lilo kēia nūhou i mea hōʻeha i ka manaʻo e hele koke lākou me kā lākou mau hoa e moe.

He hapa liʻiliʻi kēia o nā'ōlelo aʻo e hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i nā makuahine o ka wā e hiki mai ana. Inā makemakeʻoe i kahi manawa o ka hauʻoli kū hoʻokahi e noho mau i kou hoʻomanaʻo no kahi lōʻihi, e hōʻike i kahi hiʻona. No ke aha, iʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi aku i kaʻu kāne no kekahi lā e hoʻomaha ai i kahi palapala maikaʻi maikaʻi me ke kākauʻana: "E lilo kokeʻoe i makua" -ʻo ia ka makana maikaʻi loa nona. Ma kahi o ka palapala kuʻi, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻouna i kahi leka uila o kēiaʻano - eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hopena.

Ināʻoe e manaʻo he mea kūpono kēia a he pololei loa, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i ka makana me kahi hīmeni: kahi pahu a pahu pahu paha. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopoina i ka helehelena o kona maka i kēia manawa. E like me kāu heleʻana i ona lā i kahi kāʻei me ka palapala "aloha i kahi,ʻaʻole au iʻike i ka haʻi aku iāʻoe ..." a me kahi kiʻi nani o kahi pēpē.

A pehea lā ka maikaʻi o kāu kāne inā e kukeʻana i ka pōpō iā ia, a he aha kāna mea e pīhoihoi ai a me ka hauʻoli i ka wā e loaʻa ai iā ia kahi leo o kaʻoluʻolu maikaʻi. E like me kouʻikeʻana, nui nāʻano e haʻi ai i kahi mea i alohaʻia e pili ana i ka'ōpū, ponoʻoe e hoʻohui i kāu mau manaʻo a koho i ka mea maikaʻi.

E huli i ka manawa kūpono a me nā hua'ōlelo kūpono no ke kāne e liʻiliʻiʻo ia i makuakāne o kaʻohana, he hana koʻikoʻi loa no ka makuahine e hiki mai ana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e like me nā kāpena hoʻonaʻauao,ʻoi kēia ma muli o ka pilina ma waena o ka pope a me ka pēpē.