ʻO ka wahine,ʻaʻole ia he wahine palupalu
No laila, i loko o ko kākou kaiaulu, ua māheleʻia ka pili o ka wahine i mea ikaika a nāwaliwali. Ke kaumaha nuiʻia nei kēiaʻano hilinaʻi i loko o ko mākou naʻau e hiki keʻaʻaʻia kekahiʻano'ake i ka "maʻamau" maʻamau. Akā, aia kahi palapala e pono ai ke ola? No ke aha e pono ai ko mākou hauʻoli e pili i nā mea'ē aʻe o nā kānaka'ē aʻe, e pili ana iā mākou, he kūponoʻole iā mākou.
ʻO kekahi wahine o ke kenekulia 21 he mea hoʻokumu i ka mea. ʻAʻole ponoʻo ia i ke aloha a me ka haʻahaʻa. Hiki i Onasama ke hāʻawi i ke kuhi i kekahi kanaka. Ua makemake nā kaikamāhine a pau i ka kaʻawale a me ke kūʻokoʻa, i ka manawa hoʻokahi e uē ana nā kānaka "maoli" i make i waho. ʻAe, ua hala nā manawa o ka Hussars, akā i kēia lā, e hiki nō i kekahi keʻike aku i ka "kanaka pono'ī" nona iho. E hele aku kāua,ʻaʻole mākou e pili i nā wāhine. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke noi i kēlā me kēia kanaka, aʻo ka mea maoli iā mākou i laila ka nīnau.
Pono i kahi kanaka ke koʻokoʻo! E kala mai iaʻu no ka hoʻokae, akā, he koʻokoʻo wale nō ke kanaka. Aʻo nā mea i koe a pau -ʻo ia keʻano o nā stereotypes. Makemakeʻoe i kou kanaka e akahai a hoʻolohe, e hāʻawiʻo ia i kona manawa a pau iāʻoe a me ka "hammer" i nā hoaaloha. Akā, ma hea kahi o kēia mau hiʻohiʻona i hōʻikeʻia ai, i kapaʻia, he koʻokoʻo? ʻAʻohe kānaka maikaʻi. ʻO mākou a pau - he kūlana o nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā pilikia, ponoʻoe e mālama i ke akamai.
I kēia mau lā,ʻuʻuku ka poʻe i manaʻo he nāwaliwali a palekana lākou, no laila, no ke aha i manaʻoʻia ai nā wāhine he mau kāne? Aʻo ka nānāʻana i "... aʻo ka lio i ka hopena e kāpae, aʻo ka hale ahi e hele i loko ..." pono eʻike ke kanaka he meaʻano palupalu a maikaʻiʻole paha i mua ona. Loaʻa i ka wahine nā kumu -ʻo kēia mau kānaka i hana iā mākou. Lies, wahaheʻe, wahaheʻe! ʻO kā mākou mau mākua i hana mai iā mākou (a me ka mahalo iā lākou no kēia), ke hoʻomākaukau nei lākou no ke ola o ke kanaka makua, hāʻawi mai lākou i nā ukana o kaʻike a me nā akamai e kōkua iā mākou e ola i kēia ao. Ua aʻo mai lākou iā mākou e hoʻomau a paʻakikī, e hilinaʻi wale i kēia ola no mākou wale nō. No laila, he nīnau nui kēia,ʻo wai ka mea nāwaliwali iʻaneʻi.
ʻOʻoe - "ikaika", wau - "hoʻonāwaliwali"
ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole kēia he mana ikaika. ʻO ka wahine hilahilaʻole a me ka wahine ikaika eʻimi mau ana iā ia iho i ke kāne. Hiki paha ke kūkākūkā no kekahi manawa lōʻihi ke kumu o ia: he hōʻailona hikiʻole ke hoʻouluʻia, a he hopohopo no ka hoʻokauʻana a me ka hoa hana ikaika. ʻO ka lālani lalo,ʻo ka kohoʻana o kekahi mea nāwaliwali e lanakila i kāna hapaʻelua e hiki iā ia ke lawe i ka hauʻoli i ka wahine.
ʻAe, ma kēiaʻano, e weheweheʻia nā wahi: e lilo ia i mea hāʻawi, aʻo ia ke kahu mālama ahi. Akā,ʻo wai ka mea i'ōlelo heʻino kēia? Ke'ōlelo nei mākou e pili ana i ka gigolo, ka mea hoʻolālā i ka uku o nā wāhine nani, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou i kahi mau wāhine i loaʻa i kahi wahine iʻoi aʻe a kiʻekiʻe aʻe ma mua o ke kāne.
E hoʻomanaʻo i ke kiʻi Soviet "Office Romance." Eiaʻoe i kahi hoʻolālā maikaʻi loa no ka piliʻana o ka pilina ma waena o kekahi wahineʻoihana a me ka limahana limahana piha. ʻAʻole kēia wale nō ma nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni wale nō.
ʻO kahi wahine i loaʻa ka nui i ke ola, makemake kona home e kali i kahi mea e aloha iā ia, e aloha a aloha. A ma ka manawa pinepine, ua lawelawe maikaʻiʻia kēia kuleana e kekahi mea'onihune maikaʻi a "maikaʻi waena", aʻaʻoleʻo ia he mea hanaʻino aʻoi aku paha. ʻO ka hope, nāporiviv, koho i nā wāhine, ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki i kāna'ōlelo a me ka holomua, akā e hiki iāʻoe ke kāhāhā i kēia wahine-hū.
Hauʻoli pū
E manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu, he kanaka paʻakikī kekahi e pili ana i kahi wahine ikaika. ʻO ka mea a kekahi e'ōlelo ai, keʻano o kāna hana, aʻo kaʻike i ka mea e pono ai ke aloha i nā maka o nā hoaaloha, nā hoalauna, a me nāʻohana,ʻaʻole ia e maluhia. Akā, no kēlāʻano kanaka, manaʻo nui ka manaʻo o kāna wahine. ʻO ia keʻano o ke ola,ʻo ia kona pōhaku, a ma hope ona e hoʻomaha a me ka mālie. ʻAʻole ponoʻo ia e lawe i ka kuleana no ka hana i nā hoʻoholo kūpono, no ka mea,ʻo ka'ōlelo hope loa no ka wahine.
A pehea ka wahine? Me ia, ua maopopo loa nā mea a pau. Ma muli o konaʻano, ua hanaʻo ia i nā hoʻoholo nui, nā kauoha a me nā rula. ʻAʻoleʻo ia makemake i ke ola, aʻo ia wale nō paha. Akā, hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi mau i kēia kūlana ma luna o kāna kāne. A ehia na mea o kakou e kaena i keia?
Ka laweʻana mai i ka laina
ʻAʻole hiki ke'ōleloʻia he nui nā wāhine e hiki ke kū ma kahi kokoke i kahi male-rag (ʻaʻohe hewa i ka wahine ikaika). Eʻuʻuku loa kēia mau wāhine, akā, ua like like lākou a pau a he kuleana hoʻi i ka hauʻoli. Ināʻae lākou i kēlāʻano ola, inā hōʻoluʻolu ma ka pili o kā lākou "nedomuzhchinami", hiki iā mākou ke huāhuā. Aʻaʻohe mea e piʻi ai i loko o ko lākou pilina me ka'ōlelo aʻo "hoʻolei", "ponoʻoe no nā mea", "eʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho i ka maikaʻi". Malia pahaʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi i loko o kona ola. E hauoli iā lākou!