E nānā i kaʻaoʻao hana o ka mеmе o koʻu makuahine
- hiamoe e pili ana i kahi momona he hōʻailona e pili ana i ka pilikia e hiki mai ana. He mea pono ke hoʻolohe i kona leo, pinepine i nā moeʻuhane, kahi i'ōlelo aiʻo ia, aia he manaʻo. Inā noho mālieʻo ia, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo i ka pilikia ma kekahi wahi o ke ola;
- inā ma ka moeʻuhane, nānā kou makuahine i ka maʻiʻole, maʻi, a laila ua aʻoʻiaʻoe e pili ana i nā kūlana nui e pili ana. ʻO ke kumu, pili kēia i ka ola pilikino,ʻohana,ʻohana. Akā, he mea kūpono e makaala a hana, e like me keʻano o ka naloʻana i kaʻoihana e kū ana lākou i kahi kūlana nui, i ka loliʻana i kahi lilo o kahi hana;
- nā moe a kekahi makuahine i make - me kēia kiʻi, he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia. Ke kali neiʻoe i ka lono maikaʻi, hālāwai pū me nā hoaaloha kahiko. Ma ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana, e maikaʻi nā mea a pau, ināʻaʻohe pilikia i kaʻohana, a laila e hoʻoikaikaʻia ka male. No nā kaikamāhine,ʻo ke aloha, kēia e hālāwai koke ai lākou;
- he moeʻuhane e pili ana i kona makuahine, kahi eʻakaʻaka aiʻo ia, e kamaʻilio ana i nā mea maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo i kahi hoʻonuiʻana i ka hana, no ka laʻana. Ma ke ola pilikino, no nā kaikamāhine i mareʻoleʻia, hiki koke iāʻoe ke hāʻawiʻia i ka lima a me ka puʻuwai, e loaʻa i kou aloha;
- ke kāheaʻo ia iāʻoe - hōʻike i ka nele o ka kākoʻo mai nā hoaaloha a me nā meaʻike maikaʻi;
- Ua moeʻuhane wau i ka uēʻana o koʻu makuahine - no ka manawa pōkole i loko o kaʻohana a i ka home e hoʻokipa iāʻoe a me kāu poʻe aloha;
- i kouʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho he meaʻuʻuku ma kahi kokoke i kou makuahine - he hōʻailonaʻaʻole lawa kou ikaika e noʻonoʻo ai i nā pilikia i hala mua;
- Ua moe ka makuahine o kahi kanaka i kokoke iāʻoe i ka'ōlelo aʻo e hiki i kekahi o kou mau hoaaloha ke pilikia. E noiʻiaʻoe e kōkua i ka hoʻoholoʻana i nā pilikia i loaʻa. Inā hōʻole e hāʻawiʻole i ke kōkua, hiki i nā hopena maikaʻiʻole e manaʻoʻia;
- e hele pū ana me ia i loko o ka moeʻuhane - i kēia manawa e hiki mai ana nā hanana maikaʻi. Hiki ke loaʻa kekahi mea, mai kahi hopohopo manaʻoʻoleʻia e nā hoaaloha a iʻole nā pilina a me ka hoʻonuiʻana i ka uku ma ka hana;
- Moe iho ka mea moe i ka makuahineʻona -ʻaʻohe kūpono no kekahi mea,ʻo ka mea mua no ka makua pono'ī, inā ola ka makuahine. Malia paha he kōkuaʻo ia, akāʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e pilikia iāʻoe me kona mau pilikia. Inā ua makeʻo ia - hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo i ka hihia ma kaʻohana, e hakakā me kāna kāne a wahine paha.
ʻO ka archetype o ka makuahine kekahi o nā mea hakakā. I loko o nā puke moe, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i nāʻano likeʻole o nā ho'ākākaʻana o nā hanana like. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka kiʻi i loaʻa iā mākou i loko o ka moeʻuhane, me kaʻaoʻao'ē aʻe, heʻano pōuliuli hoʻi. He kanaka kūikawā kēia a hiki paha i muli o ka pilina pilina me nā mākua i ka wā ma mua. Eia kekahi laʻana, ua hoʻokaumaha loaʻiaʻoe, a iʻole he hanaʻino a hoʻomāinoino paha i loko o kaʻohana. Inā pēlā kēia, a laila e pili kēia kiʻi ma ka hapanui o nā hihia me kahiʻaoʻao kūponoʻole,ʻaʻole i kū pololei. A inā he mea likeʻole nā mea a pau, aʻo Māmā keʻano o kaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli no kaʻikeʻana, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke palekana i nā kiʻi likeʻole.