Nā moeʻeleʻele me nā kiʻi

Hanaʻia nā moeʻuhaneʻeleʻele no ka wahine a me nā kāne. I kēia mea,ʻaʻole he mea kupanaha, aʻoi aku nō, heʻanoʻole. Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui ka moeʻuhane no ka poʻe i loaʻa ka pilikia me ka moe kolohe. ʻO ke kumu o ia mau kānāwai i lilo i mea maikaʻi loa i nā kānaka me nā aʻo a Freud, ka mea iʻike i nāʻano o nā mea pili i ka moekolohe. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hilinaʻi i ka mea noiʻi kūikawā iʻikeʻia a hoʻohana i ke kālaikahopiliʻole i nā mea a pau. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo kahi moeʻeha me nā kiʻi i loko o nā haneli he kanaiwakumamāiwa mai loko mai o ka haneri,ʻo ia hoʻi kekahi mea, akā,ʻaʻohe pilikia me ke ola wahine.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo kahi moeʻeha me nā kiʻi kiʻi, he mea ia e hōʻikeʻia ai nā manaʻo o kāu pilikia. E like me kouʻike, ua makemake ka lolo kanaka e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia a me nāʻike i nā kiʻi. ʻO kēlā me kēia moe me konaʻano pono'ī. ʻAʻole nō heʻokoʻa nā moe erotic. Hōʻike lākou i nāʻano pilikia i loko o ke ola kanaka. A laila, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ka pehea e wehe ai i kēlā mau moeʻuhane.

Unisex aloha

Eia kekahi laʻana, he mau moeʻuhane wahaheʻe e pili ana i keʻano o ke aloha a me ka hōʻailona o kā lākou kāne. Ināʻo ka mea nāna eʻike i ka moeʻuhane, ka nohona kuʻuna, a lailaʻo ia mau hiʻohiʻona e hōʻike ai ka lolo i ka hūnāʻole. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine,ʻo ia mau moeʻuhane e moeʻia e ka poʻe i loaʻa ka pilikia me ka hoaaloha a me ka hoaaloha,ʻo ia hoʻi, he pili pili kāne. ʻAʻole hiki ke kūpono i ko lākou manaʻo hoʻoholo e pili ana i ka hoʻomakaʻana o ke kanaka eʻike i kēia mau moeʻuhane.

Ka ho'āʻo lanakilaʻole

He nui nā moe moeʻuhane, kahi a lākou e ho'āʻo ai e pili i ka hoa me ka wahine, akāʻo kēia ka mea palekana mau loa: a laila hikiʻole i nā malihini i hōʻeuʻeuʻoleʻia, a laila e kuhikuhi koke ana ka hoa i nā hihia koʻikoʻi a nalowale. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane ka hōʻailona i nā ho'āʻo e hoʻoholo i kahi pilikia o ke ola, e hana i kekahi mea. Inā moeʻoe i kēlā mau moeʻuhane, a laila makemakeʻoe eʻimi i kekahi mea, akāʻaʻoleʻoe e puka i waho. I ka manawa e hoʻoponoponoʻia ai ka pilikia,ʻaʻole e lilo hou ia mau moeʻuhane iāʻoe.

Ka hanaʻino

ʻO ka hana hoʻomāinoino i loko o nā moeʻuhane wahaheʻe aia i loko o kēlā poʻe iʻehaʻia e ka poʻe'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole lākou e hōʻoluʻolu a hōʻoluʻoluʻole i ka hui kaiaulu. Hiki i kēia mea ke pili i nā hoa hana a me nāʻohana hoʻonāukiuki e ola mau ana me kā lākou'ōlelo aʻo a me ka morali. ʻO ka waiho waleʻana, i ka wā e ola maoli aiʻoe i ka moe kolohe, ma ka moeʻuhane e huliʻo ia i mea hoʻomāinoino o ka moekolohe.

Hoʻomahaʻia i waena o ka lehulehu

Inā moeʻoe ua'ōloheloheʻoe ma kahi ākea,ʻo ia hoʻi he mau hewa noʻoe a ua hopohopo nuiʻoe eʻike kekahi iā lākou. Ke holo neiʻoe i kahi hilahilaʻole i waena o ka poʻe i loko o ka moeʻuhane, hilahila a ho'āʻo mau i ka huna, a laila i kēia manawa, lilo kou lolo i hōʻailona no ka makaʻu nui e hōʻikeʻia. No ka hoʻohemoʻana i kēlā mau moeʻuhane, ponoʻoe eʻae i kāu hana a loaʻa paha kahi ala e hoʻomaha ai kou manaʻo.

ʻIe me nā mākua

I ka wa e moeʻuhane ai ka moekolohe me kekahi o ko lākou mau mākua, ua lohi pinepine lākou i ka weliweli a hoʻomaka lākou e noʻonoʻo iā lākou iho. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe mea nui a weliweli i loko o kā lākou mau moeʻuhane, no ka mea, eia wale nō keʻano o ka makemake o kekahi kanaka e hoaaloha me kekahi mea iʻike a kaulana. He mau mākua nā mākua no mākou. A i ka wā e makemake ai mākou e aloha a aloha i ke kanaka e hiki ke lilo i kumu'ē aʻe no mākou, a laila, hāʻawi ka manaʻo naʻauao i nā kiʻi likeʻole.

ʻO ka wahine maʻamau

A me nāʻano moeʻuhane hope loa - nā moe o ka'āponoʻole iāʻoe o nāʻano moekolohe. No kēlā me kēia kanaka kēlā moeʻuhane he kanaka hoʻokahi. No kekahi mea he moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka moekolohe me kekahi kaikunāne, no kekahi - no ka pili wahine me kekahi kanaka nui a'ōpio a pēlā aku. Ke hōʻike nei kēia mau moe e loaʻa kekahi mea i loko o kou ola e pono aiʻoe e mālama, akā,ʻaʻole e'āponoʻia no kou manaʻo a me kouʻano. Ua pilikiaʻoe i ka hikiʻole iāʻoe ke hoʻololi i kekahi mea, aʻo kou lolo e hāʻawi iāʻoe i nā manaʻo momona maikaʻi e makemakeʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka mea e hana nei a keʻimi nei i kahi e hana ai.