Ma mua he mea hōʻailona pilikino a iʻole ka pilina piliʻole. Pākī a me nā pilikia, nā leʻaleʻa a me nā kaumaha, ka manaʻo kānalua o ka pilina ma ka hana a me ka hopena (ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole mākou he mau mīkini paʻakikī!).
ʻO kēia mau "hua" a pau o nā manaʻo maʻamau a me nā pilina me ka mea maʻamauʻole ma hope o nā mahina he mau (ma luna o nā makahiki he nui) e hoʻomanaʻo pinepineʻia. A aneane mau loa i ke kuhihewa hōʻeuʻeu.
Pehea e loaʻa ai kahi pilina pili pono ma kahi hana?
ʻO ka palaualelo. 'Apupupa. Ka lōʻihi hui. ʻO ka'ikepō "akāʻo ia." Ka hauʻoli. Makemake no ka mahanahana a me kaʻike ...
ʻAʻole hiki i ka paʻakikī o nā wāhine a me nā puke nani a me nā nūpepa wahine ka mea e ponoʻole i ka wahine ma kahi hana - e manaʻoʻiʻo nā wāhine no lākou no ka manawa. A i kekahi manawa, i hoʻoikaikaʻia e ke aloha a me ka makemake e pili loa i kahi āu e makemake nei -ʻaʻole he kanaka hana, akā he kanaka! - ka pilikia a hoʻonohonoho pono i ko lākou mau pilina pili i kahi hana.
Ma ka hana, nui mākou i ka manawa, a he mea hiki paha iā mākou ke hui i ko mākou hopena, aloha, hoahana no kaʻoihana o ka wā e hiki mai ana ... Ma muli o ke kumuʻole i loaʻa pinepineʻia ai. ʻO ka loheʻana ma kahi o ka kaʻa pahi ma kahi o ka haʻuki maʻamau aʻikeʻoleʻia paha "E ka wahine, eʻike kākou!", Ke ho'āʻo nei mākou e hoʻokuʻu aku i ka mea koa wiwoʻole.
A ma ka hanaʻana, he maʻalahi nā mea a pau, no ka manawa. ʻO nā hoa hana-nā kāne e nānā (maikaʻi,ʻaʻole i nāʻoihana "lōʻihi" hele!), Aʻo mākou hoʻi - e ho'āʻo i ka loaʻaʻana o nā lole komo, a kau hou i kahiʻala lole hou a makemake paha - nā kālepa.
A i kēia manawa, ma kahiʻoihana, aia kēia mauʻike, nani, maikaʻiʻole. A inā pahaʻaʻole lākou i hoʻomaka i ka pilina, laila hoʻomaka lākou i nā pilina pili pono ma kahiʻoihana ...
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ʻAʻole wau i kaulana loa, akā ma koʻuʻano iho, he hana maikaʻi loa. Akā, i kekahi lā,'ōlelo aʻela ke aliʻi me keʻanoʻoliʻoli: "E lawe mai au iāʻoe he kanaka kua'āina!". A hele mailaʻo ia - he lauohoʻulaʻula-poli-keʻokeʻo-e nānā ... He hiamoe o nā'ōpiopio a pau ... Uaʻano like loaʻo ia me kekahi o nā kiʻi kiʻiʻoniʻoni, aʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomalu iāʻu iho ...
ʻO ka mea mua, he mea kupanaha loa ia. Ua kali au i hoʻokahi papahana, ua heleʻo ia i koʻu keʻena a hoʻomakaʻo ia e hōʻino iaʻu. Aʻo kēiaʻano hoʻokipa - ma kekahiʻaoʻao, ua mākaukau wau e'ōlelo aku "ʻae", akā ma kekahiʻaoʻao, e hōʻoki mai ana iaʻu i kaʻu hana. ʻO koʻu papa, kelepona, ka papa hoʻouka, ka uhi lapuʻole ...
Keʻano ikaika loa o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka lapuwale. ʻO kekahi e mālama i ka wā mua, e hālāwai me ke ahiahi me nā pua, e ala wau i ke kakahiaka me ia. Akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i kono iā ia, me he mea lā e kau ana iaʻu i kahi wahi hana. No ia - he hoaʻoluʻolu maikaʻi wau. A pehea kuʻu hauʻoli i ka manawa i hoʻoneʻeʻia aiʻo ia i kekahi keʻena'ē aʻe i ka pule aʻe!
ʻOi aʻe, ke kali nei lākou i kahi kiʻi pāʻani, i ke melekole a i ka lōʻihi, me ke kahe o ka melancholy a me kona hiʻona. Hoʻololi kekahi i ka male (a male paha) -ʻaʻohe mālama i ka lua. Ua hoʻomaka kekahi i ke "makemake" hou -ʻo ka lua, ka hoʻohanaʻana i ka nānā aku i ka lolo, no ka nele i ka moekolohe, aloha, a me nā mea a pau.
A i hea kahi e kaumaha ai ke kaumaha kaumaha? Inā pili ka pilina ma kahi e hana ai, a laila, no ka mea, ua pilikia lākou e pani i loko o ka lumi, e noho ma hope o ka lā hana, e moe ma luna o kahi moe i loko o ka lumi hoʻomaha.
Ināʻole - hele lākou i waho no kaʻaina awakea, e hele i nā huakaʻiʻoihana a hui paha i ka lumi hālāwai ...
ʻO kēiaʻano pilina e like me kaʻaina awakea ma kahi haleʻaina wikiwiki. Miki paha ka manaʻo o ka pōloli, a me ka uku hoʻopaneʻe. Akā, ma hope iho o kēia manawa, hiki mai kekahi manawa o ka hōʻeha.
Ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā heʻoiaʻiʻo nā makemake - makemake lākou i nā meaʻoi aku ma mua o kēlā mau minuke 5-10. A inā "hana hana" - a laila, ma hope koke iho, e maʻule kekahi o nā hoa i kēia "pākuʻi".
ʻOiai, i ka nānā muaʻana, pili nani nā pilina pili i kahiʻoihana a he mea'ēʻole. Akā, uaʻoi aʻe nā pōpilikia:
- ka pilina pilina me kekahi hoa hana (a, 'aʻole paha, ka luna)
- ka makaʻu e hiki i nā mea a pau keʻike (a me ka hopena, ka hoʻohenehene, ka hoʻokauʻana)
- ka manaʻo o ke kūlana (hiki i nā hoahana no ka hoʻokuʻu waleʻiaʻana iʻelua, a ua hoʻokuʻuʻia nā aliʻi, hiki ke hoʻonele i nā mea kōkua)
- ua hoʻonuiʻia ka makaʻala i ka mea aloha a me ka hui (ʻaʻole lākou iʻike inā e hāʻawi ana ia).
Hoʻohui mākou maʻaneʻi e like me ke kūlike o ka hoa kāne a makua paha paha i kona hikiʻole iā ia, a no ka mea, e hoʻomaopopo ana mākou i ka hopena o ka hiʻona o ka waiwai.
No laila, ināʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke nānā aku i kahi kanaka i ka maka, koi aku i ka hoʻokōʻana i nā kuleana o ka hana a me ka loiloiʻana me kaʻoluʻolu, ināʻaeʻoleʻoe e like me nā mea alohaʻole a hoʻowahāwahā kekahi i kekahi - mai hoʻomakaʻoe i nā pilina pili pono ma kahiʻoihana.