Akā hele nā mea a pau a hoʻomaopopo i kēlā mea i ko lākouʻaoʻao pono'ī. A i kekahi manawa eʻike aiʻoe he aloha maoli kēia, nīnauʻoe iāʻoe iho: he mau lōʻihi anei ia? Hiki iā mākou keʻike inā he aloha mau loa i kēia manawa?
Loaʻa ka manaʻo paʻa i ka aloha o ke aloha iā ia iho, ua pau i ka manawa. Eia nō naʻe, he mau hiʻohiʻona o ka pilina ikaika a lōʻihi. He aha ka loulou i kēia poʻe? Hoʻohanohano kekahi i kekahi, he hana, nā keiki - hiki ke loaʻa nā kumu he nui. Akā,'ōlelo lākou: "Ua aloha mākou i kekahi i kekahi" a ma 25 mau makahiki a ma 65 makahiki. ʻO ka noho aloha mau loa, e like me Shakespeare i Romeo a me Juliet, hikiʻole ke hōʻoia. Pono e manaʻoʻia a manaʻoʻiʻoʻia kēia.
He aha ke aloha i ke ao hou? Ke hāʻawi nei ke kānāwai a me ka nohona o kēia manawa, aʻaʻaʻole, e ho'āʻo i kou mau manaʻo, aia kekahi hihiʻo hou o ke aloha a me nā pilina e likeʻole i ka manaʻo o nā mākua, nā kūpuna, nā kupuna wahine. Akā i ka manawa like, ua hāʻule ka waiwai o kēia māmā māmā.
ʻO ka aloha mau loa he mea moe. Akā no ka hoʻomauʻana i ke aloha, e hoʻomaha ai i ko mākou mana. Ma mua pinepine, hoʻohana mākou i kahi kanaka, manaʻo mākou e pili mau anaʻo ia. Akā,ʻaʻole loa he aloha mau loa ināʻaʻole i hoʻokūpilikiʻiʻia e nā hiʻohiʻona, nā leʻaleʻa maikaʻi a me ke aloha a me ka mālamaʻana i kekahi i kekahi.
Nui ka poʻe e manaʻo neiʻaʻole he aloha mau loa, akāʻaʻole. He makana a he wahi hānau paha? ʻO ka hiki ke aloha i kahiʻoihana i hāʻawiʻoleʻia i nā mea a pau. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ke aloha pinepine mākou i nā manaʻo like me ke aloha, me ka hoihoi aku: he mālamalama, ikaika, hoʻokipa a nani. Akā ua hala. A inā ma hope o kēlā, ma hope o ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ke kanaka, me nā mea maikaʻi a me nā meaʻinoʻole,'ōleloʻoe: "aloha wau" ,ʻo ia wale nō nā hua'ōlelo e pili ana i ke aloha maoli. He mea paʻakikī i kēia ao ke manaʻoʻiʻo i ke aloha i kaʻike mua. Ke aloha nei mākou i ke kiʻi, akā aloha mākou i ke kanaka, kona naʻau a me konaʻuhane.
He aha ke aloha mau loa no ke kanaka hou? ʻO ka hapanui, he aloha wale nō ia. I kēia manawa, he loli. Uaʻano likeʻole nā mea koʻikoʻi: kaʻoihana, ke kūʻokoʻa, nā hoaaloha, nā hoʻokipa - pono kēia ma ko mākou ola, akā aia kekahi laina e hikiʻole ke kāpaeʻia inā makemakeʻoe i ka pilina pili. ʻO ke aloha ke kuhikahi me ka manaʻo hoʻokahi. Ponoʻoe e mahalo i kāu mea aloha, i kona manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. ʻO ka mālama a mālamaʻana i ka lama, ka'ōlohi a me ke kuko ke kumu o ka hauʻoli.
I kēia manawa, uaʻano likeʻole ke aloha mau loa i kēlāʻike i nā makahiki XVIII, XIX, a ua nui loa ka manawa. Malia paha i likeʻole ka pilina iā ia a ua hoʻololi paha nā kumukūʻai, - hiki i kekahi ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma kēia kumuhana no ka manawa pauʻole. Akā, hoʻokahi mea e koe hoʻokahi:ʻo ka aloha i nā manawa a pau i ko mākou ola. ʻO kekahi kanaka heʻano palupalu a maikaʻi, he kanaka - heʻano mahalo a he nani, akā hoʻohui pū i nā hōʻailona o ke aloha maoli, ka hohonu a me kaʻokiʻole.
He aloha mau loa anei? ʻO ka meaʻoi loa,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻo kēlā me kēia kanaka nona iho. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli kona mau hoa, me ka meaʻole e lilo i meaʻaeʻa a hele aku: mahalo, kaʻike, ka hilinaʻi a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO kēlā mea kēia mea o kākou, e aloha ana, makemake a manaolana hoʻiʻo ia no ke ola, he mau loa. Akā,ʻaʻole i maʻa mau i kēlā ala. ʻO ke aloha ka pilina. A hoʻokahi wale nōʻoe e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻopakele a hoʻolilo i mau loa.
"ʻO ka aloha,ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau,ʻaʻole he hoʻololi,ʻaʻole kānalua. ʻAʻole kēia ka mea e aʻo mai ai iā mākou e nā mele. ʻO ke aloha ...ʻAʻole he mau wehewehe a wehewehe. Aloha - aʻaʻoleʻoe e noi. ʻO ke aloha wale nō " (Paulo Coelho)