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ʻAe, inā. He aha nā mea a nā kānaka e kamaʻilio ai?
ʻO ka mua o nā mīkini.
Hiki i nā kānaka ke kūkākūkā i nā kaʻa e like me kā lākou makemake. ʻO nāʻano no ka nohoʻana o kaʻoihana kaʻa kaʻa he nui loa ia, a ināʻaʻole'ōlelo nā kānaka e pili ana i nā kaʻa, a hoʻomaka lākou, hiki i ka wā e lele lele ai, a piha ke kamaʻilioʻana i nā epithets a me ka mahalo. He nui loa ka pilina o kēia mau kūkā. E kūkākūkā lākou i nā'ōpae, nā huila, nā moʻolelo pili kaʻa, nā mea hoihoi, nā kaʻa uila, ka mea i hoʻoponopono ai lākou, pehea lākou e wāwahi ai a pēlā aku. Hiki iāʻoe ke helu i ke kiʻiniʻole, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe kanaka e like me 100% kaʻawale no nā kaʻa. ʻO nā kānaka aloha a pau i nā kaʻa, hoʻokahi wale nō mau mea'ē aʻe. A i kekahi manawa hana lākou iā lākou e like me nā mea hana. ʻAʻole he mea kupanaha he'ōlelo. ʻO nā keiki - nā keiki likeʻole,ʻo kā lākou meaʻai wale nō i kēlā me kēia makahiki e lilo iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
ʻO ka lua o nā kumuhana , e pili ana i nā kāne e kamaʻilio,ʻo ia nō, pili i ka moekolohe. 'Ōlelo pū lākou me ka huhū a me ka haʻalulu i kā lākou mau hana, no nā hihia a me nā mea'ē aʻe. A inā ma kona wā'ōpiopio, ua pololei nā kānaka a pau, a ma keʻano he kūpono, e'ōlelo i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, a laila e pili kokoke i 50-60 makahiki, e'ōlelo wahaheʻe a me nā ho'āʻo e hōʻike i ka mea i hiki ai iā lākou ke "hiki." Ke hoʻopaneʻe loa nei kēia mau kūkākūkāʻana, akā,ʻaʻole hiki ke maʻalahi i ka poʻe a pau, no ka mea, aia kekahi i makemake nui e hūnā i kēia mea.
Nā wāhine, ke kumuhana e pili hou ana, paha paha, hiki i nā kāne ke'ōlelo me ka'ōleloʻole a me ka'ōleloʻole, a me nā kaʻa hoʻi. E kūkākūkā lākou i kā lākou mau hoa i ka poʻe mua, nā hoa papa, nā kaikamāhine a nā hoaaloha, nā mea iʻikeʻia, nā kiʻi, ka nui o nā umauma a me keʻano o ka hoki. E wehewehe lākou i ko lākou mau manaʻo, a laila lākou iʻike ai, pehea lākou eʻaʻahu ai, pehea ka maikaʻi o kā lākou lole. ʻO nā kūkākūkā e pili ana i nā kaikamāhine he mau loa a he huhū, no ka mea, he miliona miliona nā wāhine, a pono e kūkākūkā i kēlā me kēia a wehewehe i keʻano o kēlā me kēia, a kūkā hou i nā mea e pili ana i ka wahine.
ʻAe, koe wale no nā kaikamāhine, ka wahine a me nā kaʻa, makemake nā kānaka e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kumu maʻalahiʻole, akāʻo nā meaʻenehana. No ka mea, he mau hana like ia, a he mea nuiʻole kekahi mau kānaka i makemakeʻole i nā mechanics, a pēlā, nāʻano hana likeʻole. ʻO keʻano,ʻo ka computer a me nā mea a pau e pili ana i ia.
Inā mākou e kamaʻilio ana e pili ana i nā kamepiula,ʻoiai ināʻaʻole ma kahiʻoihana IT ikaika, a laila e kūkākūkā lākou a me ko lākou kai. Ināʻaʻole lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā meaʻai, hoʻomaka lākou e hoʻololi i nā polokalamu, ināʻaʻole pili i nā polokalamu, pēlā e pili ana i nā pāʻani rorohiko. ʻAʻoleʻo nā mea a pau, akāʻo ka hapanui o nā kānaka i kēia manawa e mahalo i nā pāʻani. Aʻaneʻane kokoke i nā'ōpio'ōpio o ka wā'ōpiopio, i ka wā i hoʻokaniʻia ai,ʻoiai i ka'ōpio'ōpio, i ko lākou wā'ōpiopio. A komo i loko o kaʻuhane no ka manawa lōʻihi, a mai ka kūkākūkāʻana o nā pāʻani papapihi hiki ke ala aʻe ma mua o hoʻokahi hola o nā kūkākūkāʻana, aʻo lākou hoʻi e like me ka huhū a me kaʻino.
ʻO ia, makemake lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kaʻenehana. A he mea nui kēia. He mea kūpono hoʻi kaʻike e hiki i nā mea a pau ke holo i loko o ke kūkākūkā o nā kelepona, nā mea pāʻani, nā mea'ōlelo a me nā mea'ē aʻe.
Akā hoʻokahi nō kumuhana , a he mea maopopo nō hoʻi, akā,ʻaʻole loa e pili. A no ka hoʻolimalima. Ma ka hoʻolimalimaʻana o nā kānaka e kamaʻilio me kaʻoliʻoli, a lōʻihi, lōʻihi lōʻihi, ke kūkākūkā nei lākou no ka pôpeku. E kūkākūkā i nā manawa, nā pūʻali, nā pahuhopu, nā lula, nā lanakila a me nā mea'ē aʻe. Ke kūkākūkā pū nei lākou i nā pāʻani 'Olumepika a pau, e mākaʻikaʻi no ka hokoki a nānā pono me kaʻoluʻolu a kūkākūkā hou, a me ka ikaika e like me ka pāʻani. Eia nō hoʻi he nui o nā poʻe e nānā ana i nāʻano haʻuki a pau. ʻO ia e like me MotoGP, World Rally Championship a Formula 1. A ua'ōlelo houʻia a heluhelu pū hoʻi i nā leka e pili ana iā lākou a me nā mea a pau.
E like me nā kāne e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka pūʻali, a me nā pūʻali koa.
ʻO ka pūʻali koa, ua maopopo nā mea a pau. Ke kamaʻilio nei lākou no nā makahiki o ka pūʻali koa, e pili ana i nā hoaaloha i loaʻa iā lākou ma laila, e pili ana i ka poʻe i pakele i kēia lawelawe, a pehea lākou i hana ai, a me kā lākou mea e hana ai.
ʻO ka mea o ka pūʻali i ke keiki kāne mai nā kānaka maoli,ʻaʻohe kūpono e kamaʻilio. Kūkākūkā lākou e pili ana i nāʻaukā, holo pololei i loko o ka kūkākūkā o ka Kaua Honuaʻelua. E hoʻomaka i ka kūkākūkāʻana i ka mea kānake, Rūkī aʻAmelika paha, a pela aku. E hoʻomaka lākou e kūkā e pili ana i nā pūnaewele pahi kaua o nā mokulele, nā mokulele, nā pokāne, nā mea pāʻani. E hoʻomaka e hoʻohālikelike i kā mākou mau moku meʻAmelika a meʻEulopa a pēlā aku.
Eia kekahi, mai poina e loaʻa nā kālā i nā kāne, a makemake lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kālā a me kaʻoihana. Kūkākūkā lākou i nā pili, kūkā kamaʻilio. No ka mea a lākou e hana ai, nā hana algorithm a pau o kā lākou hana. ʻO kona mau hemahema, ke kūkākūkāʻana i nā hoʻonohonohoʻana i nāʻoihanaʻoihana, e kūkākūkā ana i ka hoʻonuiʻana ma ka'āina a me nā mea a pau.
He nui nā kaikamāhine e noʻonoʻo i nā kāneʻaʻole'ōlelo. Akā, ua lōʻihi kēia mai ka hihia, me kahi kaikamahine kūpono, aiʻole nā hoaaloha o ke kāne,ʻaʻoleʻoi aku ka hewa ma mua o ka'ōlelo'ōlelo a kekahi kaikamahine e kamaʻilio nei no kahi meaʻole. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke'ōlelo nui nei lākou, akā ma nā mea'ē aʻe wale nō, a ke ho'āʻo nei lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kekahi mea me nā kaikamāhine,ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻokau i nā kumuhana o ke kūkākūkāʻana, a lilo lākou i mea hōʻinoʻia a hilahila paha, ka mea iʻoi aku ka pōʻino i kēia mea.
No laila, e hoʻomanaʻo i nā kaikamāhine, makemakeʻoe e lilo i hoaaloha maikaʻi i kahi kāne. Eʻike i nā mea likeʻole e like me ia i nā kaʻa (ʻoiaiʻikeʻole i kaʻike, alakaʻi iā lākou i ka hopena),ʻike nui i nā lolouila, e lilo i kaikamahine maikaʻi, e kamaʻilio houʻiaʻoe, ma kahi'ē aʻe, e aʻo no ka mea papahana eʻike i nāʻano loea nā papahana o nā kamepiula, a heluhelu i nā pukeʻepekema i loko o kahi pohihihi me nā puke e pili ana i kaʻenehana IT, e pāʻani i nā pāʻani rorohiko, aʻike i nāʻano a pau, a laila e liloʻoe i mea maikaʻi loa no ke kaikamahine, a malia paha, he kaikamahine moe. A laila, inā he wahine maikaʻiʻoe no ka wahine, a no ka pono, no ke aha? ʻOiai inā paha he mau kaikamāhineʻuʻuku kou, akā, nā mea a pau e loli a me kēlā mau kaikamāhine, e like me ka mea i hōʻikeʻia ma luna nei, e māhuahua mau ana.
I kēia manawa uaʻikeʻoe i nā kumuhana e hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio i kahi kanaka e pili ana.
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