No ke aha i hoʻohiwahiwaʻia ai nā kāne makua e like me ka momona i nā kaikamahine? He aha nā manaʻo o nā kānaka'ōpio e pili ana i nā kaikamāhine?
No kēlā me kēia kanaka kūlohelohe, he kaikamahine'ōpiopio. Ua maopopo nā kāne'ōpioʻaʻole i emi nā kamaliʻi i ko lākou manaʻo i nā poʻe hakakā.Manaʻo nā kāne'ōpio,ʻo ke kaikamahine he ola e hoʻomaka ana e ala, piha i ka ikaika a me ka ikaika. ʻImi nā'ōpiopio i ke ola me nā maka'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole lākou i poina pehea e hauʻoli ai. Hiki iā lākou ke holo i kēlā me kēia holo.
Hāpai nā kaikamāhine i ka kiʻekiʻe o nā manaʻo mai ke ola.
ʻO ke kanaka makua, i ka huiʻana me nā kaikamāhine, lilo lākou i mau keiki. Ke ala nei lākou i kaʻono no ke ola, ka manaʻoʻole a me ka makemake e hana i nā mea lapuwale.
Manaʻo nā kāne'ōpio i nā kaikamahine'ōpio i ka waiwai nui loa iā lākou - hoʻomaha. A,ʻoiaiʻoiai uaʻelemakule, ua loaʻa i nā kaikamāhine kaʻike a hāʻawi aku i ke kuʻiʻana i kekahi wahine iʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o lākou.
ʻAʻole pono nā kaikamāhine i ka hoʻohilahila aʻaʻa paha i ka hoʻokolohuaʻana i ka moe. Akā, ke hōʻike nei lākou i ko lākou kūlana kūikawā i kekahi kanaka.
Me konaʻano o ke ola a me ka weheʻana, ua makemake nā kaikamāhine i nā kānaka'ōpio. Keʻoliʻoli nei ke kanaka i ka huhū a me ka'ōpio o kāna hoa hele, a laila hoʻiʻo ia i kaʻuhane i kona mau makahiki'ōpiopio.
Manaʻo nā kāne oʻoʻokoʻa inā piliʻo ia i kahi pilina me kekahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio, pono e pili i nā mea a pau - ke kino, ka hiʻohiʻona, kaʻaʻahu - pono nā mea a pau ma kahi kiʻekiʻe. A ma hope o nā mea a pau, heʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole eʻaeʻia e nā kaikamāhine i kaʻelemakule nāna i paki i kona mau maka me nā maka'ōpū. E hoʻouluʻo ia i kāna kāne e huki pū a ala hou i ke ola.
ʻO ka pilina me kekahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio no ke kanaka'ōpiopio - he honua hou kēia,ʻoi aku keʻano o ka honua a kekahi kanaka i poina. ʻO ke ao piha i ka hauʻoli, ka huhū, ke kuko.
Akā,ʻoluʻolu, aia kekahiʻano'ē aʻe o nā kāne. Makemake lākou e nānāʻoluʻolu i nā kaikamāhine, akā hoʻokaʻawale i kekahi manawa e hoʻomaka ai i kahi pilina me lākou.
ʻO nā mea a pau, no ka mea,ʻo kēiaʻano o nā kāne, ma keʻano'ē, hoʻonāukiuki i nā wāhine iʻike i kā lākou makemake. He nānā pono kahi wahine makua i ke ola aʻaʻoleʻo ia e holo wikiwiki i ka nui. No ka moekolohe, pono e hoʻonaʻauaoʻia ke kaikamahine'ōpio, i mea eʻoluʻolu loa ai ka wahine ma hope. Uaʻike maikaʻi ka wahine makua i keʻano o kona kino a me ka pehea e hoʻomāʻona ai i ke kāne. Makemake au e hoʻomaopopo i ka piʻiʻana o ka wahine i ka wā.
Manaʻo nā kāneʻelemakule he mauʻano'ōpiopio nā kaikamahine'ōpio, he wahi mālie mālie i ko lākou ola. ʻAʻole lākou i noʻonoʻo pono e lawe i nā kuleana no ke kaikamahine, nā kāne, no laila, eʻoluʻolu i kā lākou kālā.
ʻO nā kānakaʻelemakule e pili ana i nā kaikamāhine, he nīnau maikaʻi no kēlā me kēia kāne kāne. Eʻokoʻa loa nā pane a e hilinaʻi wale nō ma ka manaʻo o ke kanaka a me kona manaʻo no ke ola a me ka hui kaiaulu.
Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui ke kohoʻana o kahi kanaka'ōpio i kahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio me he hoa lā,ʻo ia wale nō kona kūlana palekana. ʻOiai, he mea paʻakikī loa ka heleʻana a me ka hoʻonani i kahi wahine makua aʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne a pau ke hana. Aʻaʻole makemake nā kaikamāhine. Manaʻoʻia he pono e hāʻawi 'ia me nā makana hoʻolimalima aʻo ia i loko o kou wahi moe.
ʻO ka mea e noʻonoʻo ai i keʻano'ōpiopio, nā kānakaʻike a me nā kānaka'ōpio e pili ana i nā kaikamahine'ōpio,ʻo kā lākou pono iho. A no kēlā me kēia kaikamahine e komo i ka pilina me kekahi kanaka makua a koho paha i kahi hoa'ōpio.
Ua noa i nā kānaka apau ka hana i ke ola a me nā pilina e like me kona makemake. ʻAʻohe mea kuleana e hoʻoponopono i ke ola o haʻi.