A ma muli o ko mākou noho pūʻana me lākou,ʻaʻole ia he meaʻino no ka paleʻana i ko mākou mau manaʻo maikaʻiʻole a ho'āʻo mua eʻike i nā mea a nā kāne e makemakeʻole nei i nā wāhine, a no ke kumu i manaʻoʻole ai lākou he mea kūpono iā mākou.
E noʻonoʻo kākou i ka kanaka kanaka maʻamau, me kaʻole o nā haunaele i kāna mau makemake. No laila, he mea maikaʻi e kūkākūkā i keʻano o kāu kanaka, aʻaʻole paha e like me kā mākouʻano. No laila, e hoʻomaka kākou e noʻonoʻoi nā mea i makemakeʻole ai nā kāne e pili ana i nā wāhine.
Keʻano.
E like me ko mākouʻike "pono nā mea a pau i loko o ke kanaka," akā, i ka wā e kamaʻilio ai me kahi kanaka. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā mea i pili i kona punk mai Arbat a me majeure me Rublevki, heʻano likeʻole ia, akā he mau mea maʻamau. ʻO ka mea mua,ʻaʻole i makemake nā kāne i nā wāhine momona, aʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i 2-5 mau paona, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou i ka 10-15, eʻae like pū nei,ʻo ka lua o ka'ōpala maopopo. ʻO ka lua,ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne i ka wā eʻikeʻole ai ka wahine i keʻano o ka hanaʻana, no laila, pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia e likeʻole nā papahana no nā hui likeʻole o nā kāne, akā ma luna o ka mea āpau. ʻO ka mea hope loa,ʻo ka maka,ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne i nā makaʻino, no ka meaʻaʻole hiki ke koho, akā i ka manawa like, he wahine ka helehelena o ke akua wahine e hiki ai ke hoʻonāukiuki, no ka mea,ʻo ka mea i kū'ē iā ia, heʻanoʻino.
Ka pae noʻonoʻo, kaʻike.
Mai manaʻoʻiʻo i ka poʻe e'ōlelo nei he kanaka makemake i ka pupae naʻaupō me kahi maka pena,ʻaʻole loa,ʻo ia mau kaikamahine e hiki ke lanakila, akā i kahi pōkole wale nō. No nā wā lōʻihi, e koho kekahi kanaka i wahine akamai, maʻalahi, wahine akamai. No ka mea, e holo wikiwiki ana ka mahalo no ka nani, a ināʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio ai me kahi kanaka, koe nā kāmaʻa kāmaʻa a hilahila ka poʻe i kāna mau'ōlelo, ināʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻino. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, eia hoʻi ka pahi kauaʻoi luaʻoi lua, no ka mea,ʻoi loa ke akamai o ka mea e hiki ai i ke kanaka ke mālama no ka lōʻihi. No laila,ʻo ke koi mau o Homer lāuaʻo Schiller i loko o ke kanaka mua,ʻaʻole makemake ia.
Nā kūʻonoʻa a me nāʻuhane.
Ma kēia māhele,ʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea piliʻole e like me ke kipi, ka wahaheʻe, a me nā like. E like me ka maʻalahi o kaʻike,ʻaʻohe makemake o kēia mau kāne i nā wāhine. A keʻike nei mākou i kēia mau mea, he aha kaʻano o keʻano o ka maʻamau, ma ka nui o nā mea,ʻaʻole like nā kāne i ka like, akā ma nāʻano liʻiliʻi e hoʻomana i ka mea, heʻano'ē ia. Manaʻo nā kānaka he haʻawina nui o ka pīhoihoi e hāʻawi i kahi wahine i ke kuko a me kaʻike maikaʻi o ka pilina me ia. No laila, e makaʻala a mai hoʻokuʻu i ka hana.
ʻO ke ola, ka waiwai.
ʻO kekahi kumu nuiʻole i makemakeʻia e nā kāne i nā wāhine, hikiʻole ke hana i nā hana o ka hale. ʻAʻole mākou e kūkākūkā maʻaneʻi inā he pololei aʻaʻole paha, aʻo ka'ōleloʻana ma ke kenekulia 21 ua loaʻa i kahi wahine ke kuleana e loaʻa i kahiʻoihana aʻaʻole e kū wale i ka ipu. E hoʻopuka wale mākou i ka makemakeʻole o nā kāne i ka hanaʻanaʻole o ka wahine ma ka home,ʻaʻoleʻo ka kuke wale wale nō, akā, no ka ulana a me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe. Eia naʻe, i loko o kou olaʻohana,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hana mau i kēia, akā e pono i ke kanaka keʻike (pono paha) eʻikeʻoe pehea. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei, e hele mai ana ke aloha a hele, akā makemake mauʻoe i kaʻai!
Eia paha he papa helu hōʻoia o ka mea o ke kāne kanaka i makemakeʻole i ka wahine. Akā, eia naʻe, ke haʻi hou aku nei auʻaʻole kēia mau lapalapa i ke ao holoʻokoʻa, he hana ia, no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokumu i keʻano pololei a pololei.