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ʻO kekahi mau "hōʻailona" o ka hāʻule i ke alohaAkāʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka nīnau no nā mea a kānaka e aloha nei a me ka'ōlelo, he mea hoihoi loa a he mea kūikawā. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe he kau hoʻokahi o nāʻano kūikawā kūikawā, i hiki ai iāʻoe ke koho koke i ke aloha o ke kanaka a me ka nui. Uaʻike nā kānaka a pau he hoʻokahi kanaka kēlā a me kēia, aʻo nā hōʻike o nā manaʻo i loko o mākou heʻano likeʻole. Ua heluhelu kekahi poʻe i ka mele, hoʻonani i nā mele a me nā mea aloha. A hana pono kekahi i nā mea a pau i loko o ka hale, e hele kālepa a kōkua i nā mea a pau. Akā, i ka hanaʻana a kēlā me kēia'ōpio, aia kekahi mea maʻalahi, akā,ʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka hōʻike i kēia manawa me kaʻole o nā hua'ōlelo e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kona aloha.
No keʻano o ia mea, inā e moe ana ka mea hoʻokahi, e heluhelu maʻaneʻi ->ʻO ka mea mua, he nānā kēia. Me he mea lāʻaʻole i hōʻole ke kanaka aʻaʻole hoʻi i hūnā i nā manaʻo,ʻo ia ka mea eʻike ai. Ke alohaʻoe i ke kanaka, makemakeʻoe e nānā mau aku iā ia, e nānā i kou mau maka, e noi i nā millimeter a pau o ke kino. A inā paha e ho'āʻo ana nā manaʻo e hūnā a ke lawe mauʻia ka manaʻo,ʻoiai, i kekahi manawa, hoʻopoina kekahi i ka nānā a nānāʻole i kāna mea aloha. Akā naʻe, ma kēia manaʻo, aia nā hiʻohiʻona kūikawā a me nā makemake. Heʻano mahalo kēia, i hui pūʻia me nā manaʻo noʻeau. Ke aloha kanaka, manaʻo maoli ka wahine e nānā lākou iā ia e like me ke akua wahine. Ma kēia manaʻo he mea nui kēia. Hōʻikeʻo ia i keʻano o nā manaʻo o kekahi'ōpio. A uaʻike mākou a pau i ke aloha e nui ai nā manaʻo maikaʻi. Me he mea lā iā mākou he mea kupaianaha, nani, maikaʻi, a poinaʻole ka mea o ke aloha. Inā he wahineʻaʻole i hilinaʻi iā ia iho, ma lalo o ka maka o kekahi kanaka, e hoʻomaka anaʻo ia eʻoluʻolu a kūlana kūikawā,ʻaʻohe mea kānalua i ke aloha o kēia kanaka iā ia. Aʻo kēlā mau manaʻo a me ka loliʻana i ka manaʻo ma luna o lākou iho, no kaʻike ponoʻana o ka'ōpio i loko ona i ka mō'īwahine a hāʻawi aku i kona mau manaʻo no ka'ikehuhu, a no ka naʻau.
ʻO kekahi mau "hōʻailona" o ka hāʻule i ke aloha
ʻO kekahi hōʻoia o ke aloha i ka haʻi'ōleloʻole i waena o nā kānaka, heʻano, makemake e hoʻopā i kahi kanaka. Ma ia mau hihia, hiki i ke kanaka ke noho ma kahi kokoke mai iā ia, me he mea lā e pili ana i nā lima, i ka lauoho - hana maikaʻi ia a aneane hikiʻole keʻike. Inā paha e kū anaʻo ia ma ke alo, e hopuʻo ia iāʻoe me kou wāwae a hoʻopā i kou lima ke hele kekahi mea. ʻOiai, ke'ōpiopio mau kekahi lima i ka lima o ka'ōpiopio, hoʻopuni iā lākou i loko o ka hale kākela, kaomi i kona mau manamana lima, paʻi i kona lauoho, uē me ka honiʻana i kona mau lima aʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻokuʻu, ma ka moeʻuhane - alohaʻo ia iāʻoe, a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli. Ke hoʻomaʻemaʻe loa ka naʻau a pono hoʻi, pono ka mea kokoke i kahi mea aloha a hoʻopā iā ia. A no ka mea,ʻaʻole i kēia manawa ka pili pilina. I nā manawa he nui, hiki i lalo i ka makemake e hōʻike i kou aloha a me ke aloha ma o ka paʻiʻana, ka hahauʻana, e honi i kou mau lima, i nā cheekbones, i ka lauoho. ʻO kēia kaʻike o ka manaʻo kiʻekiʻe loa, kekahi mea makua, ke makemakeʻoe, e like me ke kāpiliʻana i kāu mea i aloha ai i kou lokomaikaʻi a hoʻomalu me ka honiʻana a me nā pale mai nā hewa a pau o ka honua nei.
ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo kaʻoi aku o ke kāne i ke kiʻi i kahi wahine,ʻo kaʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka wahine iā ia,ʻo ka ikaika o kona manaʻo. No laila, makemakeʻo ia e pale iā ia mai ka poʻe hewa a hōʻike i nā mea hakakā a pau nona wale nō aʻaʻoleʻo ia e hāʻawi aku i kekahi.
E pili ana i keʻano o ka wā e hilinaʻi ai ke kanaka i ka moeʻuhane, e heluhelu maanei ->Manaʻo nā wāhine he nui ke kuhikuhi o ke aloha inā he lima ka lima, wehe i nā puka a me nā mea likeʻole. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole kēia he hōʻailona o ke aloha, akā he hōʻailona o ka hoʻouluʻana. Akā, inā he kanaka ponoʻole ke kanaka,ʻaʻole ia he mea hikiʻole iā ia keʻoiaʻiʻo i ke aloha. ʻO kahi kanaka wale nō ke hōʻike i kona aloha ma nāʻano'ē aʻe. Malia pahaʻaʻoleʻo ia e hāʻawi i ka pua nani, akā, e hoʻokomo houʻo ia i nā pukapiho hou i loko o ka hale a iʻole e hoʻoponopono hou i kāu kaʻa. ʻO Gallantry, maikaʻi loa ia. Akā,ʻaʻole nā kānaka a pau e hōʻike i kā lākou hana i nā manaʻo aloha. ʻO kekahi o lākou i maʻa mau i ka hana likeʻana me nā wāhine, aʻo kekahi, ma o kēia mau hana e hoʻopiʻi ai kāua i ka nānāʻana a pale aku i nā hemahema a me nā hewa. No laila, inā makemakeʻoe eʻike inā he aloha nui ke kanaka iāʻoe, hoʻoholoʻoe i kona makemake e kōkua iāʻoe i ka nohona a me ke kālā. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo he koi ka mea'ōpio e hōʻoluʻolu pinepine, e alakaʻi i nā kūkākūkā pauʻole no ka mea he weliweli ka honua holoʻokoʻa, aʻoʻoe ka mea maikaʻi a me kēlā me kēia pule e kūʻai i nā apo gula. He mea'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana, pehea paha e hiki ai iā ia ke hele mai i ou lā i kēlā me kēia manawa a hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia i loko o ka computer (wai wai, eletise), hiki iā ia ke lawe iāʻoe mai ka hana i kekahi manawa ma hope,ʻaʻole paha ma ke kaʻa a ma ka wāwae, a inā paha e kākoʻoʻo ia i loko o nā pilikia nui loa o kou ola a loaʻa nāʻano kūpono e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia. No ka mea, ua makaukau ke kanaka e lawe i ka hōkū no kahi kaikamahine mai ka lewa mai, he maikaʻi loa kēia. Akā,ʻo ka aloha maoliʻaʻole i hōʻikeʻia i loko o nā manaʻo kiko'ī, akā inā eʻaila i kaʻaina awakea, i ka wā e luhiʻoe i ka hana a hoʻomaʻemaʻe paha i ke keʻena ināʻoe heʻino.
'Ōleloʻia nā mea a pau e pili ana i nā hana
ʻO nā wāhine a pau ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei i ka pilikino a manaʻo lākou i nā manaʻo wale nō ma o nā hana aloha. ʻAʻole kēia he mea kupanaha, no ka mea, ua hānaiʻia mākou a pau i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me nā moʻolelo haʻi moʻolelo e pili ana i nā wāhine aliʻi, no ka mea,ʻo nā naita e hoʻokani nei i ka lio keʻokeʻo. Akā, ināʻoe e noʻonoʻo a ulu, e ponoʻoe ke hoʻomaopopoʻaʻole ke aloha e hōʻike i kēia wale nō, akā, i kekahi manawa,ʻaʻole loa.
A pehea lā eʻike ai ke kanaka me ke aloha i kona mau manaʻo e pili ana i kāna'ōlelo? ʻO kahi kāne aloha e ho'āʻo i ka ola a me ka hauʻoli o kāna wahine. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e ho'āʻo e pepehi i nā'īlio hihiu a hele i kahi lōʻihi e lawe mai i ka momona. Akā, e nānā kahi kanaka aloha i nā ala e loaʻa ai ke kālā e lawa ai e hoʻolako ai i kāna wahine ae mālama i nā mea hopohopo a me ka hanaʻole. E noho mau ana kekahi kanaka aloha, a i kēlā me kēia lā i kona nānāʻana e hiki iāʻoe ke heluhelu: Ua aloha au iāʻoe. A iā ia e apo mai iāʻoe, eʻikeʻoeʻaʻole he kī a me ka paia,ʻaʻole nā naita mai nā puke moʻolelo o nā wāhine e hiki ke pale iāʻoe mai nā pilikia, e like me kona makemake.