E kamaʻilio pū kākou no ka hiki i nā kāne ke kala aku i ko lākou wahine aloha. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i konaʻano a me kona aloha. Hiki i kekahi kanaka keʻoki pono i kona mau maka. Ke hoʻohiki nei kekahi, inā uaʻoi aku kona aloha i kāna wahine, a ua hikiʻole i kekahi ke hoʻopoina i ke kumakaiaʻana. Loaʻa nā mea a pau ma kēia a iʻole kēlā kanaka. Akā ināʻoe e hana maʻamau i ke kanaka, e hoʻopili i konaʻano i ke ola a me ka wahine, hiki iāʻoe ke kuhikuhi i kekahi mea e hiki ai iā lākou ke kala mau no ka wahine nāwaliwali. Inā makemakeʻoe.
1. Inā hoʻohana ka wahine i kālā. Maanei e pili ana i ka loaʻaʻana o kahi kālā no ka mea aloha, ka nui o ka loaʻaʻana o ke kanaka, a me ka pinepine o ia hoʻoneleʻana i ke kālā. He nui nā kāne e like me ka hiki i kā lākou hapalua ke mālama a mālama i ka waihona kālā o kaʻohana i kahi ala kūpono. A ke nānā aku nei kekahi me kaʻoluʻolu i kāna meaʻoiaʻiʻo, ka mea e huki mai ana mai kahi hale kūʻai aku i nā pahu me nā lole. Akā,ʻoi aku ka nui. Mai poina e pili ana i kēia. He aha keʻano o ke kanaka āu e makemake ai, ināʻoe e hoʻolilo i nā kālepaʻohana a pau.
2. Ināʻaʻole makemake ka wahine i ke kauoha. He nui nā kānaka e pilina ana i ko lākou mau wahi. A ke'ōlelo wiwoʻole nei,ʻaʻole lākou i manaʻo i keʻano o kaʻili i ko lākou pālule, inā he lepo ma nā papa. ʻOi maikaʻiʻaʻoleʻaʻohe kiko, a ua noho aliʻiʻia ke keʻena me ka noʻonoʻo a maʻemaʻe, akā i kekahi manawa ua hikiʻole i ka wahine ke lawa ka manawa no kēia mea a pau. No laila, ināʻaʻole he kanaka puaʻa hoʻomaʻemaʻe i alohaʻole a aloha i kāna wahine, e kala maiʻo ia iā ia i kahi liʻiliʻi. He maikaʻi nā kānaka i kā lākou mau hana o ka home a hiki iā lākou ke holoi iā lākou iho, holoi i kā lākou mau kīʻaha, e kali ana i kā lākou wahine e hana. A, hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo, no ka mea,ʻaʻole ia he mea makemake nui.
3. Inā hana kahi wahine i kahi meaʻino. Ua hala kaʻelemakule i ka'ōlelo "ʻo ke ala i ka naʻau o ke kanaka ke moe nei i loko o kona'ōpū." ʻO ka maʻamau, he nui nā kāne e aloha i nā pōpō a me nā borsch, akā,ʻoliʻoli, he nui ka hapanui o lākou e hana maoli i kaʻike maoli i kaʻikeʻole o kā lāua wahine pehea e kuke ai i kahi iʻa. Hele wale lākou me ia i kahi cafe aiʻole haleʻaina. A hiki ke hana ia ma kekahi kūlanakauhale. I kēia lā, kapaʻia nā poʻokela maikaʻi loa o ke ao nei he mau kāne. Inā makemake maoli ke kāne i kahi wahine, eʻoliʻoliʻo ia i nā'āpana ahi a kala aku i kāna wahine no kona launaʻole.
4. I ka wāʻaʻole makemake ka wahine e hui i kāna kāne me nā hoaaloha ma ka hale holoi, i ka lawaiʻa. Hiki i ke kāne ke kala aku i kāna wahine no ka meaʻaʻoleʻo ia i makemake i kāna leʻaleʻa leʻaleʻa, no ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i makemake e hōʻiliʻili i kāna mau hoaaloha pono. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā kānaka i ka hoʻomaopopoʻana heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hopena o kaʻohana ma mua o hoʻokahi haneri lita o ka pia, e inu me nā hoaaloha ma kahi holoholo.
5. Inā makemake ka wahine e hele i nā hoʻolālā maikaʻi. ʻOiai,ʻo kona makemake no ka liʻiliʻiʻana a me nā maka lehu e hiki ai iā ia ke uhaki i kaʻae nui i loko o ka pūlāwaiwai, akā, no ka maikaʻi o keʻano o kāna kāne a me kona nani,ʻo ka nui o nā kāne e helu i kāna wahine no ke kālā. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi, ua maopopo i nā kānaka he wahine maikaʻi loa ka wahine i kāhikoʻia. Aʻo kēia ka mea e makemake ai lākou eʻike i kāna wahine aloha.
6. I ka nānāʻana o kahi wahine i kahi laina o ka pūnaewele. ʻO keʻano maʻamau, inā he loeaʻo kāu kāne i ka loiloikala, a laila e hoʻopilikiaʻo ia i kāu mea i mua o ka TV. E moeʻo ia i ka hoʻoloheʻana i nā polokalamu akamai a heluhelu i nā puke. Akā inā he kāne ke kāne kāu kāne, e kala maiʻo ia i kāu mau hana pilikino. ʻO ia ma hope o ka hōʻike e hoʻoliloʻoe iā ia i kaʻahaʻaina maikaʻi loa, a laila e hoʻopili i kahi mea maikaʻi ma kahi moe.
7. ke haʻi aku kekahi wahine a me kona mau hoa i nā mea pili loa. ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā e like me ka'ōlelo e pili ana i nā lanakila a me nā pilikia. Akā, i ka manawa eʻike ai lākou e haʻi ka wahine i nā hoaaloha i nā mea a pau, nā mea a pau, nā mea a pau, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoluhi. Akā,ʻoluʻolu,ʻike lākou heʻano likeʻole ka wahine aʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke kōkua e kaʻana like me kona mau hoaaloha. No laila, ua mākaukau nā kānaka e kala aku i kā lākou hoa no kāna pono,ʻo ka mea nuiʻaʻole kēia i pili i ko lākou nele i ka moena moe.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i ka nui o nā mea like. Ano, ua ike kakou e hiki i na kane ke kala aku i na wahine. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i ka nui o ke kalaʻana me ka nui o ke aloha i kāu i hoʻopalauʻia. Akā, mai noʻonoʻo inā inā e mahalo nuiʻo ia iāʻoe, a laila, hiki i nā mea a pau ke hoʻomanawanui. Mai ho'āʻo i kona hoʻomanawanui. Hiki iā ia ke kala aku, kala aku i nā meaʻelua, a laila e huhū.