He aha koʻu hapaʻelua? He mea maikaʻi loa paha aʻaʻole paha he mea wahaheʻe? Ke hōʻike neiʻoe i keʻano me ka mea āu e makemake ai e ola? A he aha ka manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i nā wahine a me ka hewa? E ho'āʻo e pane i kēia mau nīnau.
"Ka mea iʻikeʻoleʻia", aiʻole ka moeʻuhane o nā kāne e pili ana i nā wāhine.
ʻO ka hapanui no nā kāne heʻoi aku kaʻoi o kaʻoihana (ʻoihana a me nāʻano likeʻole), a he mea pono ka wahine e kōkua iā lākou i ka hoʻouluʻana i ke alapiʻiʻoihana, me ka hanaʻana i ka homeliness a me ka hānauʻana i nā keiki ... He aha ka mea e pono ai kēia wahine no ke ola? Aia kekahi wahine maikaʻi i keʻano o kahi kāne? A iʻole he melekiu paha? E ho'āʻo eʻike.
Ua paneʻo Andrei i ka nīnau e pili ana i ka wahine maikaʻi loa, akāʻo kēlā me kēia kanaka kona manaʻo pono'ī no ka mea maikaʻi loa, e pili ana i ka hoʻonaʻauao, ka nohona, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. "ʻO wau ka mea nui," wahi a ke kanaka'ōpio, "ʻo ka honua i loko, a he maikaʻi i ka helehelena, iʻole he meaʻino. Ma ka manawa lōʻihi,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā loli o waho, a me ka honua i loko me ka kanaka i nā manawa a pau, a uaʻikeʻoe.
ʻO Vasily, 21, mau moe "ʻo ke kaikamahine, a ma hope aku ka wahine he loloa lōʻihi me ka lauoho loloa,ʻano maikaʻi, he helehelena maikaʻi kona, heʻoiaʻiʻo, i hiki ai iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi iā ia, aʻo ka mea nui loa - me ka waiwai waiwai nui." E like me kā Vasily'ōleloʻana,ʻike pinepineʻo ia i nā kaikamāhine maikaʻi, e nānā i ka nānā.
'Ōleloʻo Andrey, he kanakolu makahiki, iʻike mua i nā wāhine, "ʻo ka mea mua loa, pono ke kūkākūkā ma waena o ke kāne me ka wahine." (Ae, ka noʻonoʻo - he pili i nā kāne i noho pū no kahi o ka makahiki 1 a 7). "ʻO ka wahine maikaʻi," wahi a ke kanaka'ōpiopio, "e'akoʻala i ka meaʻono, koho i nā makemake o kēlā kanaka, hoʻokele kaʻa, a me keʻano - e maikaʻi. Aʻo ka mea nui, no ke kanaka ke noho i kahi mea pohihihi.
- A me koʻu hapalua'ē aʻe, - hui pū me Aneterea - - e pono iāʻoe ke kino o Aphrodite, eʻoluʻolu - Mona Lisa, maka - Cleopatra, a me keʻano - Margaret Thatcher. (ʻO keʻano,ʻo kaʻano o ka "Iron Lady" he mea makaʻu loa i kona mau kāne ma mua o ka hoʻonāukiukiʻana).
Ua wehewehe nā kāne i kā lākou mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka wahine maikaʻi loa. Ua'ōlelo pōkoleʻo Valery, 53, "ʻAʻole wau i manaʻoʻiʻo i nā wahine maikaʻi. E pono i ka wahine ke loaʻa i nā mea a pau i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa, akā,ʻo ka mea nui loa,ʻo ia ke aloha a me ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne me ka wahine, aʻo ka wahine heʻoiaʻiʻo. "
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, no kēlā me kēia kāne he wahine maikaʻi loa kona hapa lua. A me ka nānā pokole o kekahi mau kānaka i mālama i ke kiʻi nui o ka wahine maikaʻi loa. No laila, he helehelena maikaʻi ia, me ka honua waiwai nui, pono e hoʻolapalapa i ka meaʻono, koho i nā makemake o ke kanaka, heʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ia ke hoʻokele i ke kaʻa,ʻoiai no ka ikaika o ka wahine i kahi mea hunaʻole.
ʻO nā manaʻo o nā wāhine e pili ana i ka "māla ikaika", aiʻole "nā wāhine e koho".
He aha ka hapalua o ka hapalua o nā wāhine e pono ai? I ka Middle Middle, ua manaʻoʻia he kanaka pono maoli ke kanaka -ʻo ka huluhulu uliuli a me ke kapa'ōmaʻomaʻo keʻokeʻo me ka lauoho lauoho, ke koa, ikaika, a hoʻomau loa a me ka manaʻo o kahi wahine e pili ana iā ia me "ma hope o ka pā pōhaku". Ke loli nei ka manawa, akā,ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa o ka koa i koe i ka hopena o nā makahiki, akā he mau koa a he naniʻole hoʻi ... No laila, noʻonoʻo i nā manaʻo o nā wāhine he mea kūpono o ke kanaka maoli -ʻo ia ka ikaika, ke koa, a me ka maikaʻi. Ma hope mai, ua neʻe kēia hiʻohiʻona i nā pale kelepa ...ʻO ka mea iʻikeʻia e nā wāhine a i kēia manawa, i ko mākou mau makahiki wale nō keʻano o nā mea'ē aʻe: keʻano hoʻohaʻahaʻa a me nā mea like. A me nā loli maikaʻi i ka wā.
ʻO Julia heʻumikūmālima makahiki, aʻo ia i hālāwai ai ma ka papa, ua moeʻo ia e hālāwai me nā keiki e like me keʻano o nā kiʻi o ka'ōpio i kēia manawa mai nā poho o nā puke maʻemaʻe. ʻOiai kā lākou mau hiʻohiʻona a iʻole mau kūloheloheʻaʻole i hoʻohālikelike i nā hana a ke kaikamahine Heʻoiaʻiʻo, ma kēia makahiki ke hoʻolohe nei lākou i nā hiʻohiʻona.
Elvira, 23 mau makahiki: "ʻAʻole wau i manaʻoʻiʻo i nā kumuhana, no ka mea, ke manaʻo nei au he pilikia nā kānaka a pau, akā, ke hāʻule nei kāua i ke aloha me nā kānaka, (hikiʻole iā mākou keʻike) e pani mākou i ko mākou mau maka iā lākou. ʻO ka mea mua, he kanaka lokomaikaʻi,ʻike a me ka haʻahaʻa. ʻO kēlā me kēia kaikamahine i kāna iho pono pono'ī o ke kanaka maoli, akā, heʻano likeʻole nā mea a pau. "
Alena, 40 makahiki: "I ko mākou mau makahiki, pono ke kanaka e lilo i hoaaloha a hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio,ʻo wai ka makemake e kōkua, no ka mea e makemake anaʻoe eʻike i kona kākoʻo, i hiki iā ia ke kau i kona poʻohiwi i ka manawa kūpono. Akā, mai poina e pili ana i ka aloha, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i hala aku ka pono o kēia no nā makahiki he 40, makemake wau e hāʻawi i nā pua. I loko o nā makahiki, hoʻololi nā kumukūʻai. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻaʻohe kūlana koʻikoʻi o ka helehelena, a ua hoʻonuiʻia ka nānāʻana i ka pilina o kekahi i kekahi. "
No laila, maikaʻiʻo ia: he kanaka me keʻano o ka nani i ka uhiʻana i kahi puke paʻipaʻi,ʻo ia hoʻi, ka maikaʻi, ka lokomaikaʻi, ka noʻonoʻo, a me keʻano hoʻohaʻahaʻa, aloha, pono, e hiki ai ke hāʻawi i kaʻohana a mahalo i kāna wahine.
ʻO ka manaʻo o nā loiloikala.
Ke'ōlelo nei nā kālaiʻike hoʻonaʻauao me ka hoʻoikaikaʻana i nā kaʻina'enekema a me ka technology, ua hala ka moʻomeheu o kaʻike, a ua loli ke kiʻi o ka poʻe maikaʻi i ka maikaʻi. Ma mua, ua hoʻololiʻia kēia kiʻi e nāʻano pono o ke kanaka, a ma kēia mau lā - kālā. Ma kahi o 10 mau makahiki i hala, he 50 a 50 ka mea a pau. ʻOiai, pili ka pilina ma waena o nā kāne me ka manawa, a he mea maʻamau kēia. Inā maikaʻi ke nānāʻana o ke kāne a me ka wahine i nā hemahema o kekahi. Ināʻaʻohe he kuʻikahi ma waena o lākou, hiki ke kū'ē i nā paio i hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hemo. "
Ua aʻoʻo W. Harleyʻo ka mea kākauhonuaʻAmelika i nā makahiki he mau makahiki o nā mau kāne he kāne a ua hoʻoholoʻo ia i kēia manaʻo e pili ana i nā mea i manaʻoʻia e kēlā me kēia hoa. Ka manaʻolana o nā kāne e kū'ē i nā wāhine: ka hoʻokipa wahine, ka wahine maikaʻi, ka mālamaʻana i ka hale, a me ke kākoʻo mau no kāna kāne. Ka manaʻolana o nā wāhine e pili ana i nā kāne: ke aloha, ka manaʻo aloha, ka mālama, ka kūkākūkāʻana, kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ka weheʻana, ke kākoʻo kālā, ka pilinaʻohana, ka komoʻana i ka hānaiʻana o nā keiki. Wahi a Harley, pinepine ka nele o nā kāne a me nā wahine i ke kūkuluʻana i kaʻohana no kaʻikeʻole o nā pono o kēlā me kēia.
No laila, ua hoʻololiʻia ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i ka pahuhopu, i ka mea mua, no ka pono o nā pono pono'ī? A iʻole,ʻo ia ke kūlana kūpono o ka honua a me waho? A ināʻaʻole kēia kuikahi i loko o keʻano, pehea lā ke kanaka! ʻO nā nīnau e waiho ana i ka'ōlelo.