He aha keʻano o ka'īlio i loaʻa i ke keiki?

ʻO ka hoʻoholoʻana i ka nīnau - pehea keʻano o ka'īlio e mālama ai i kahi keiki, ponoʻoe e hoʻomanawanui a makemake e komo i kahi keiki a me kahi'īlio, a laila, loaʻa iāʻoe kahi'īlio i loko o kaʻohana,ʻo ka pilina ma waena o ka'īlio a me ke keiki eʻoiaʻiʻo a ikaika.

Pono e hoʻomaopopoʻiaʻaʻole he'īlio ka'īlio aʻaʻole pono e mālamaʻia e like me nā keiki. E hoʻokuʻu loaʻia ka'īlio e ka'īlio a lailaʻaʻole e manaʻoʻia ka hoʻoloheʻana mai ia mea. ʻOiaiʻo ka'īlio i waena o nā kānaka, ola kona ola olalio. Ponoʻoe e hōʻoia iā ia e loaʻa ana ke kuleana iāʻoe aʻoʻoe ke "alakaʻi o ka pa".

ʻO ka kuleana no ka'īlio ma keʻano he lālā hou o kaʻohana e waiho nei meʻoe. A nīnauʻoe iāʻoe iho i ka nīnau, ua makaukauʻoe e hāʻawi i kou manawa manawaʻole i kona hānaiʻana a peheaʻoe e aloha nei i nā'īlio? Pono e māheleʻia nā kuleana no ka mālamaʻana i kahi'īlio ma waena o nāʻohana o kaʻohana, pono e aʻoʻia kekahi e hānai iā ia, e hele pū me ia. E maʻa mau kēia keiki i ka hopohopo a e hana maikaʻi iā ia.

Maiʻae i ke keiki e pāʻani me ka'īlio, e like me ka pāʻani, e huki i ka'īlio ma hope ona e like me kahi uluna, huki i nā pāpā, huki a me ka paʻiʻana i nā pepeiao. Noho mālie i ka nānā muaʻana, hiki i ka'īlio ke hoʻomanawanui loa a hiki iā ia ke hopu i ke keiki inā loaʻa iā ia kahi'āpanaʻai lōʻihi. He paʻakikī ke aʻo i nāʻohana kūpono o kaʻohana. I ka wāʻoi aku o nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e hoʻomaka i kahi lālā, ua aloha lākou i nā'ōpiopio o nā keiki.

ʻO ka mea kūpono i kaʻohana me nā keiki he mau'īlio:

I ka manawa ma hope, i ka nīnauʻana i keʻano o ka'īlio e kiʻi ai no kahi keiki, makemake wau e'ōlelo e like me ke kānāwai, e akahai nā'īlio a me nā mea nona a me nā keiki inā lākou e mālama a aloha.